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How did you collar you slave - 5/8/2006 12:33:29 AM   
gloriousangel


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I went to my master house the weekend and I was happy that I could spent a day and night with both master and miss.  When i got there Miss said right go into fromt room strip dont say a word no eye contact with master or me. and kneel with bum up in the air and eyes down.  They then asked me some questions like we know how much you love the cane what would you say if we was to give it to you I answered yes.  and all the rest of the answers where Yes.  I was terrified, petrified of what was going on and shaking then they gave me my collar and I am so so proud to be a member of there life and family.  Every time they mention my collar i smile and begin to shake.  I am so happy
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RE: How did you collar you slave - 5/8/2006 1:00:57 AM   
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I have to add just a bit here-  what we asked of this lovely dollface was something that we knew was so difficult for her, and she without hesitation trusted and said yes, knowing, as we knew she would, that we would not harm her She didnt know she was going to be offered a collar; she did, as she always does, put herself in our hands. That let us know that the collar was secondary- she had already earned the place in our lives of which the collar is symbolic.

And then we asked is she would be willing to accept a nice piece of jewelry, symbolic of a collar, that she can wear in public... And we were thrilled she said yes.

She is a lovely girl and I will post elsewhere in a more appropriate forum how wonderful she really is.

Miz, thirlled and happy to be half of the pair of gloriousangel's Masters.

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RE: How did you collar you slave - 5/8/2006 1:45:30 AM   
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Thank you miss.  I am proud of my collar and i touch it every morning to remind me of what i am to them

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RE: How did you collar you slave - 5/8/2006 2:01:26 AM   
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Our congratuilations to you all and our thanks for sharing such a moveing experience with us.
We can not tell you  how we have collared anyone yet but have a Sub who is geting very close to that time and hope we can make it as deep an experience for her as it must have been for you gloriousangle.


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RE: How did you collar you slave - 5/8/2006 2:13:15 AM   
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it was very moving i raised no questions and never lost my temper.  I did exactly what i was told.  I really felt the cane and miss and master both know how much i hate it.  I felt a cane on my backside as I answered yes or no.It was a a great experience.  I honestly thought I had been in trouble, upset them, not done something that i should off.  My face dropped.  When I knelt in front of master  miss knelt beside me they then asked will i accept the collar and I said Yes I will then they put it on.  I will never come of only for reasons like x-rays

love you master and miss

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RE: How did you collar you slave - 5/8/2006 6:42:48 AM   
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Most of my collarings were done spontaneously, in parking lots, completely alone.  Pretty awesome.

I'm not sure how I feel about "surprise" collarings.  Everyone is entering into the relationship and it's a serious commitment to ponder.  If someone just leaped at me with the idea of being collared for the first time, I'd tell them I needed time to think it over and discuss with them.

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RE: How did you collar you slave - 5/8/2006 7:18:43 AM   
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No one leaped on me.  I had a vision like I was going to get my collar but not the way it happened i am happy either way

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RE: How did you collar you slave - 5/8/2006 9:43:40 AM   
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foor those of us submissives who have  yet to experience the wonder of officialy belonging to thier Master of  Mistress i have a dream of how i would like it to happen
 
Sunday, August 18, 2002 10:59 PM
Subject: collaring
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    > Title: Today the collaring:
    > +++++
    > I hear your soft breathing behind me as I open my eyes to a new day.
    > "Today's the day," you say. "Dress in your blue business suit with your
    > see through white long sleeve button down blouse, pink lace bra, black
    > panties, pink garter belt, pink stockings, blue heels, and carry your blue purse.
    My heart is racing as I shower, do my hair and dress as you have ordered.
    You grab your leather bag and taking my hand you lead me to the car.
    During the drive you give me further instructions. "You will do exactly what I say, and without hesitation. Is that clear?"
    "Yes Sir." I whisper and settle back deeper into the seat.
    You park the car at the pansexual play party, then turn to me. "Stay real close to me and follow my instructions to the letter. You will be rewarded or punished accordingly."
    > "Yes Sir."
    > Once we are inside you make an announcement to the room. "Today this one's training is complete. All are invited to attend her collaring ceremony which will depict her transformation."
    You lead me to stand with my legs spread wide in the middle of the play space. Others arrive and place a circle of candles around me. I hear Enya playing from somewhere.
    A spotlight bathes me in its intensity as you whisper to me. "Whatever I do, stand perfectly still." You lift my arms until they are straight out from my shoulders, and I hold them there when you release them.
    I watch you motionless, barely breathing as you take your bag and walk behind me where I can no longer see you.
    I hear a pair of scissors open and close behind me and think 'God No! Not my hair!'
    I feel my suit jacket being cut up the middle of the back, and then the sleeves. My blue suit jacket then falls away from me to the floor.
    Then the scissors cut the back and sleeves of my blouse. It falls away revealing me to the crowd in my pink lace bra, blue skirt and heels.
    You run your hands up my sides and out to my wrists. I tingle at your touch but do not move until your fingers indicate that I should raise my arms high above my head.
    You now cut the back of my skirt and it falls to the floor. Two snips and my panties have gone to join the pile of cloth before me.
    A naked girl crawls across the floor to me. She removes my blue heels, places them at the far side of the pile of my clothes, and then crawls away,into the darkness as you remove my earrings.
    I am standing now with my legs still spread in only my pink bra, garter belt, and stockings.
    I hear your voice loud enough for the crowd to hear you clearly. "What have I allowed you to call me thus far in your training?"
    "Sir, and only Sir." I answer loudly and proudly.
    I hear something swing through the air and feel a long, soft tailed flogger wrap itself around my side and strike me full force upon the breast and belly, first from one side and then the other. Then you move to my side where I can just see you.
    "Kneel." You command loudly and whisper, "facing me."
    I bring down my arms and kneel before you as I have been taught.
    "You will be given this choice only once. Do you consent to be mine?"
    "Yes. Without reservation I give my consent."
    "Then bow."
    I bend and put my head to the floor and extend my arms above my head crossing the wrists, keeping my thighs upright, my ass in the air. I catch but a glimpse of the leather paddle in your hand. It strikes full force upon first one cheek and then the other of my butte. I then hear the paddle being tossed aside.
    "Rise to your knees."
    I hurry to do so.
    There is a black jeweled collar in your hand as you approach.
    You place it around my neck as you speak. "You will now call me Master."
    There are tears in my eyes, but not from the pain. "Master. Yes Master."
    I reply loud and proud before the crowd.
    With one finger inside my collar you turn to face the crowd. "From this moment on when a person sees, speaks, or interacts with this one, be it known that she is my property."
    Despite the discomfort from your pulling on my new collar, the tears streaming down my cheeks are of pure joy.
    You turn back toward me. "Stand," and you whisper, "facing as you were before."
    I am immediately back on my feet. Standing before you and the crowd in only my pink bra, pink garter belt, and pink stockings.
    I feel your fingers upon my ankle and look down to see you putting an anklet around my ankle, then pink leather sandals upon my feet, and then stand and tie one end of a pink ribbon to my collar.

"Acknowledge your true Master," you command.
I extend both arms in front of me and cross my wrists as I bow my head to you.
I feel you tie the ribbon about my wrists.
"Stand now."
I straighten my back and stand tall, proud, and leashed. Tears of joy run unheeded down my face.
"Ladies and Gentlemen, Masters and Mistresses, Subs and Slaves. Please allow me to introduce to you my pride and joy. From this day on she shall serve none other than me, unless I command it. Thank you."
He stood there holding the end of my pink ribbon leash as the crowd applauded and I cried openly. I had waited for this day for such a long time.
Happiness is belonging.
Vjm © 8/2002


Sunday, August 18, 2002 10:59 PM
Subject: collaring
  • Category: Unknown
    > Title: Today the collaring:
    > +++++
    > I hear your soft breathing behind me as I open my eyes to a new day.
    > "Today's the day," you say. "Dress in your blue business suit with your
    > see through white long sleeve button down blouse, pink lace bra, black
    > panties, pink garter belt, pink stockings, blue heels, and carry your blue purse.
    My heart is racing as I shower, do my hair and dress as you have ordered.
    You grab your leather bag and taking my hand you lead me to the car.
    During the drive you give me further instructions. "You will do exactly what I say, and without hesitation. Is that clear?"
    "Yes Sir." I whisper and settle back deeper into the seat.
    You park the car at the pansexual play party, then turn to me. "Stay real close to me and follow my instructions to the letter. You will be rewarded or punished accordingly."
    > "Yes Sir."
    > Once we are inside you make an announcement to the room. "Today this one's training is complete. All are invited to attend her collaring ceremony which will depict her transformation."
    You lead me to stand with my legs spread wide in the middle of the play space. Others arrive and place a circle of candles around me. I hear Enya playing from somewhere.
    A spotlight bathes me in its intensity as you whisper to me. "Whatever I do, stand perfectly still." You lift my arms until they are straight out from my shoulders, and I hold them there when you release them.
    I watch you motionless, barely breathing as you take your bag and walk behind me where I can no longer see you.
    I hear a pair of scissors open and close behind me and think 'God No! Not my hair!'
    I feel my suit jacket being cut up the middle of the back, and then the sleeves. My blue suit jacket then falls away from me to the floor.
    Then the scissors cut the back and sleeves of my blouse. It falls away revealing me to the crowd in my pink lace bra, blue skirt and heels.
    You run your hands up my sides and out to my wrists. I tingle at your touch but do not move until your fingers indicate that I should raise my arms high above my head.
    You now cut the back of my skirt and it falls to the floor. Two snips and my panties have gone to join the pile of cloth before me.
    A naked girl crawls across the floor to me. She removes my blue heels, places them at the far side of the pile of my clothes, and then crawls away,into the darkness as you remove my earrings.
    I am standing now with my legs still spread in only my pink bra, garter belt, and stockings.
    I hear your voice loud enough for the crowd to hear you clearly. "What have I allowed you to call me thus far in your training?"
    "Sir, and only Sir." I answer loudly and proudly.
    I hear something swing through the air and feel a long, soft tailed flogger wrap itself around my side and strike me full force upon the breast and belly, first from one side and then the other. Then you move to my side where I can just see you.
    "Kneel." You command loudly and whisper, "facing me."
    I bring down my arms and kneel before you as I have been taught.
    "You will be given this choice only once. Do you consent to be mine?"
    "Yes. Without reservation I give my consent."
    "Then bow."
    I bend and put my head to the floor and extend my arms above my head crossing the wrists, keeping my thighs upright, my ass in the air. I catch but a glimpse of the leather paddle in your hand. It strikes full force upon first one cheek and then the other of my butte. I then hear the paddle being tossed aside.
    "Rise to your knees."
    I hurry to do so.
    There is a black jeweled collar in your hand as you approach.
    You place it around my neck as you speak. "You will now call me Master."
    There are tears in my eyes, but not from the pain. "Master. Yes Master."
    I reply loud and proud before the crowd.
    With one finger inside my collar you turn to face the crowd. "From this moment on when a person sees, speaks, or interacts with this one, be it known that she is my property."
    Despite the discomfort from your pulling on my new collar, the tears streaming down my cheeks are of pure joy.
    You turn back toward me. "Stand," and you whisper, "facing as you were before."
    I am immediately back on my feet. Standing before you and the crowd in only my pink bra, pink garter belt, and pink stockings.
    I feel your fingers upon my ankle and look down to see you putting an anklet around my ankle, then pink leather sandals upon my feet, and then stand and tie one end of a pink ribbon to my collar.

"Acknowledge your true Master," you command.
I extend both arms in front of me and cross my wrists as I bow my head to you.
I feel you tie the ribbon about my wrists.
"Stand now."
I straighten my back and stand tall, proud, and leashed. Tears of joy run unheeded down my face.
"Ladies and Gentlemen, Masters and Mistresses, Subs and Slaves. Please allow me to introduce to you my pride and joy. From this day on she shall serve none other than me, unless I command it. Thank you."
He stood there holding the end of my pink ribbon leash as the crowd applauded and I cried openly. I had waited for this day for such a long time.
Happiness is belonging.
Vjm © 8/2002


I am presently persuing a new relationshiip with a Master in my City of Seattle and it is looking very good i have not been active for many years becuase of an online 3 year connection but now i have been free to connect with others

please give me some feed back :}

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RE: How did you collar you slave - 5/8/2006 10:15:52 AM   
valeca


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Mine wasn't a spontaneous collaring, and will remain a most beautiful memory for me.

It was during a full moon (planned and timed to coincide), under an enormous maple tree in our back yard.  Master wore black pants and a white shirt and tie, I wore a flow-y summer dress with an overlay of chiffon-y type material...flowery.  We placed a large pillar candle on the ground between us and each carried three tasselled cords of different colours.  Master spoke some words; asked if I came to Him of my own free will, etc.  Then we exchanged vows while holding opposite hands, and, as each was spoken, one of the cords was wrapped around our joined wrists to symbolize our bond.  We exchanged rings.  After that, we burried coins at the base of the tree with a 'ceremonial spade' we'd purchased to keep as a momento...I suppose it would be sort of like the ceremonial knife used to cut a wedding cake.

Master and I are both outdoorsy types and wanted to incorporate nature into our ceremony, as well as combine some of the traditions of our heritage.  There were no witnesses other than nature itself.  Now every time I look at that ancient old tree, I can think of that special moment in our lives together.  It blows me away every time.

We recorded it in its entirety, but have yet to look at the video.

Edited to add:  The cords hang in our bedroom, above the doorjam.  During our wedding ( at a later date) Master carried one in His suit pocket, and I had one intertwined in my bouquet.  It was comforting to know they were there.

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RE: How did you collar you slave - 5/8/2006 10:29:39 AM   
gloriousangel


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what an experience but i am a happy subbie

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RE: How did you collar you slave - 5/8/2006 10:46:37 AM   
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I like collarings that come with long thought out, hashed out contracts. I was collared with out one, in a spontaneous collaring, and I felt the relationship suffered because of lack of negotiation and the feeling that I really did "sign up" for this.
 
Congrats to you all, I am glad you are happy, my thoughts are just my own personal preference, I am sure you will be very happy.

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RE: How did you collar you slave - 5/9/2006 12:30:34 AM   
gloriousangel


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Yes i am very happy.  Every morning I touch my collar and kiss it when I get up as it is a remberance of what I am and who I am to serve.

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RE: How did you collar you slave - 5/9/2006 9:03:17 AM   
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 Congratulations. Sounds like a beautifull 'ceremony;' Congrats to all 3 of you.


I have never been collared, but when that happens it will come about the same time as a marriage ceremony.

I love the ideas and how others were collared.

gloriousangel, congrats.  Youa re already making your new owners proud, and its a lovely thing to see. Thanks for sharing your private moment with us.


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RE: How did you collar you slave - 5/9/2006 9:40:42 AM   
Sinergy


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Hello A/all,

Back on Collarme after a long walkabout.  My best to You and yours :)

There was a reply a while back which basically stated that a collaring is done when two people are entering a new relationship.  I suppose this is true in a sense (going from collared to uncollared) but both of the submissives I collared years ago were done very quickly and I did not perceive the warning signs that the individuals in question had other motives (in one case, she wanted a husband, not a Dom) and poor relationship history (longest D/s relationship was 2 months) in the other case.

I know how that movie ends now, and should I enter into another relationship I will take my time since I am seeking somebody to grow old with in perverted bliss.

The most lovely collaring ceremony I ever witnessed was at the Lair De Sade in Los Angeles.  The sub was tied to the high backed chair by the Dom she lived with (for 2 years prior) and beaten silly (in a good way).  As she gazed with soft, loving eyes up at her Dominant, he held up for her a gold and silver collar he had had custom made for her.  He showed it to her, he showed it to the room (which was quite packed), and then he asked her if she wished to wear his collar.  She gazed up, nodded weekly, and mouthed the words "I love you" as tears welled up in her eyes.

Sorry if this seems like a Kodak moment gone bad.

So in a sense it was a surprise collaring.  On the other hand, they had a long established dynamic and it was obvious that both individuals had done much work to make the relationship a long term relationship prior to the actual collaring ceremony.  So in that sense I would maintain that the collar he put on her had as much or more significance than a wedding band would have.

Just me, could be wrong, yadda yadda yadda

Sinergy

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RE: How did you collar you slave - 5/9/2006 9:53:06 AM   
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Great story...thanx for sharing...congrats

My Master took me for a day of shopping...he left me for sometime to try on some clothes that he selected for me.  Later in the afternoon we had gone for lunch, and continued to shop.  When I returned from the restroom, he was waiting for me on a bench.  He asked me to sit as he stood before me.  He took out the most beautiful collar, and collared me...it was completely unexpected but the best day ever!  We celebrated that night :)

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RE: How did you collar you slave - 5/9/2006 10:06:23 AM   
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Dear Gloriousangel,

Congratulations to you and your Master and Mistress!  I am so happy for all of Y/you.  I wish each of Y/you happiness and love in Y/your relationship.  May it prosper for many years to come.

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RE: How did you collar you slave - 5/9/2006 12:41:02 PM   
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A collar, a ring, a commitment, a big yellow streak right down the middle of my back!  Fastlane has kept in the fast lane for a reason!
Smiles, Kevin

Congrats to those who are and it's really nice to hear your stories of success.



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RE: How did you collar you slave - 5/9/2006 12:48:57 PM   
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Thank you

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RE: How did you collar you slave - 5/9/2006 2:57:09 PM   
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I think that a collar and ring belong together, if we are talking about love in a heterosexual relationship...not that others shouldn't, but my point is the ring is the vanilla symbol and the collar the lifestyle symbol. Both meaning the same thing..."I love you and I want you to be mine."

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RE: How did you collar you slave - 5/10/2006 6:36:23 AM   
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Thank you very much.  I really do miss my master and miss and know I will miss her even more as she is in hospital

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