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ORIGINAL: BeautifulSufforing

i found myself laying in bed sad and crying because i'm needing dick......I don't really have no way to find a boy toy frm my bdrm.

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

On this alt sex lifestyle forum, you will rarely see me agree with the solutions designed for prudes.  We aren't dickless, conflicted gay priests in a closet or nuns with dusty cunts where the solution to everything is cold showers, prayer and abstinence.  A decent human can go get laid and raise a kid.  Somehow I don't see where your OP indicates you have your priorities out of alignment.  Yo aren't neglecting your family, your job or your health while you are lost for days on end in some serial cock gobbling quest that has you fucking in allies and bar bathrooms.

Auburn, WA population - 70,180
Your bedroom population - 1
Try finding dick volunteers outside your bedroom.  Go out to a munch, a party or an event.
Hire a babysitter or make your potential dick volunteer pay for it
Buy lots of condoms, spread legs, have at it until you smell burning rubber
Squeegee yourself clean, go home and get some rest and go back to watching movies with your kid

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

On this alt sex lifestyle forum, you will rarely see me agree with the solutions designed for prudes.  We aren't dickless, conflicted gay priests in a closet or nuns with dusty cunts where the solution to everything is cold showers, prayer and abstinence.  A decent human can go get laid and raise a kid.  Somehow I don't see where your OP indicates you have your priorities out of alignment.  Yo aren't neglecting your family, your job or your health while you are lost for days on end in some serial cock gobbling quest that has you fucking in allies and bar bathrooms.

Auburn, WA population - 70,180
Your bedroom population - 1
Try finding dick volunteers outside your bedroom.  Go out to a munch, a party or an event.
Hire a babysitter or make your potential dick volunteer pay for it
Buy lots of condoms, spread legs, have at it until you smell burning rubber
Squeegee yourself clean, go home and get some rest and go back to watching movies with your kid

Oddly enough, you just did.  LOL.

The part where the priorities are messed up is when the OP is having her crying fits and the kid is trying to help the parent feel better.  I'm not saying that a parent has to always have a happy face because everybody has times in life that they might experience grief of some such thing, but something like the above is probably pretty confusing for the kid.

There's not a thing wrong with the suggestion that we both actually gave.  Have that one or two times a month that you go out, have your fun outside of the house, and enjoy yourself.  It's still a smaller part of life than the larger allotment of time that's dedicated to being a parent.

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist
I guess I'm just an agreeable old prude myself.  I thought I took the high road for her.  I didn’t mention that staying in her room and screaming for dick like a brat won’t solve anything.  As you mention, it must be confusing for the kid(s) when mom gets moody. 

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ORIGINAL: ranja

after a bit more contemplation i realise that 4 scenes is probably indeed enough to become adickted and i now understand your withdrawls... depression, laying in bed, crying, twitchy fanny...

it is a pity that you are not a man with a porn addiction because then you would have got some sympathy and be advised to seek help and use a 12 step plan to get your act together
as it stands you are just a horny old woman who should pull her socks up
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On the contrary, I would tell a man who was raising a 5 year old son the same thing.

You're craving dick, but your son is craving love. Horny is only a feeling, but a 5 year old son is a precious gift. He'll be grown and out of your life in a couple blinks of your eye. How about you quit rolling around the bed thinking about how horny you are and take him to the park and then for ice cream. And then when he's in bed asleep, take care of the horniness, however you may do it.

Frankly, I would give up dick the rest of my life if I could go back 20+ years and spend a day with my sons at age 5.



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You know it's going to be a GOOD blow job when she puts a Breathe Right strip on first.

Pick-up artists and garbage men should trade names.

(in reply to ranja)

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ORIGINAL: BeautifulSufforing

hi , im new to this lifestyle only 4 scenes i found myself laying in bed sad and crying because i'm needing dick . my 5 yr old son saw me upset and does wat he does best put a smile on my face and asked to watch a movie with me so i wouldnt b alone awwwwww he is so sweet . i have been studying and reading discussions which is making me hot and masturbating doesnt help . actually quiet the oppisite any suggestions I don't really have no way to find a boy toy frm my bdrm very well always home with kids what can I do to help me deal with this

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist
I guess I'm just an agreeable old prude myself.  I thought I took the high road for her.  I didn’t mention that staying in her room and screaming for dick like a brat won’t solve anything.  As you mention, it must be confusing for the kid(s) when mom gets moody. 

You did take the high road.  I'm not disagreeing with that.

What I meant by My statement is that many of us have been parents and had to arrange our sexual or BDSM interests in such a way that it was a workable solution.  I've had to do so, Myself.  When the kids lived at home, I didn't bring casual play partners to the house.  Even sexual encounters with clip were conducted at another location or when they weren't home.  It absolutely can be done.  You just have to put a little planning into it.

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Grow up and realize your sexual needs have to take back burner to your other priorities. You appear to be the single mother of more than one child. That's your priority, and you don't shouldn't need a stranger to tell you this.

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ORIGINAL: IronJamSlave628

When I replied to you on my introduction I thought you had a Master. I am sorry I misunderstood you. Well, one thing I know, it can't be easy having that need and no outlet. I feel for you, and hang in there; when the desire is strong enough, and you know how strong it can get, sometimes good opportunities open up. I am still squeaky clean new, so I can't really give you any better advice at the moment.
I'll send good thoughts your way.

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The tears are from not getting the attention she wants, not just the lack of sex.  Call me cold hearted, but it seems to me that she just wants sympathy.

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ORIGINAL: Arturas

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The tears are from not getting the attention she wants, not just the lack of sex.  Call me cold hearted, but it seems to me that she just wants sympathy.

Yes and no. Women are not driven by sex the way men are. They must have attention and I am so glad they do. Perhaps you can take this as a lesson in what makes women tick. So, what you said is not cold since it is natural for her to be this way but the reason you said it is.

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ORIGINAL: rosanegra

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Grow up and realize your sexual needs have to take back burner to your other priorities. You appear to be the single mother of more than one child. That's your priority, and you don't shouldn't need a stranger to tell you this.

There. Fixed it.

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ORIGINAL: Arturas

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The tears are from not getting the attention she wants, not just the lack of sex.  Call me cold hearted, but it seems to me that she just wants sympathy.

Yes and no. Women are not driven by sex the way men are. They must have attention and I am so glad they do. Perhaps you can take this as a lesson in what makes women tick. So, what you said is not cold since it is natural for her to be this way but the reason you said it is.

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ORIGINAL: ranja

after a bit more contemplation i realise that 4 scenes is probably indeed enough to become adickted and i now understand your withdrawls... depression, laying in bed, crying, twitchy fanny...

it is a pity that you are not a man with a porn addiction because then you would have got some sympathy and be advised to seek help and use a 12 step plan to get your act together
as it stands you are just a horny old woman who should pull her socks up

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ORIGINAL: windchymes
Frankly, I would give up dick the rest of my life if I could go back 20+ years and spend a day with my sons at age 5.