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Marc2b -> Dance, slave! (4/5/2011 12:38:11 PM)

One of the really good things in my life is access to a family cabin deep in the woods and far away from the prying eyes and the annoyances of civilization. It is a very peaceful, relaxing place. It is also a place where my gal pal and I can get some weekends (and usually a one or two week stint every year) alone where (amongst other things) we engage in one of our favorite pastimes: naked slave dances by the firelight! There is nothing quite like watching a beautiful, naked, collared woman dancing underneath the stars while the soft yellow and orange glow of the fire flickers across her skin (this is one reason why I am so excited about Spring… Naked Dancing Season will soon be upon us!).

I do not restrict myself to the “barbarous” and sensuous” music that John Norman was so big on (although, I am by no means opposed) but enjoy challenging her with a variety of music styles. I burn CDs with the music to play and like to start off with several slow songs (like THIS) and gradually increase the tempo until it’s time for something from the Ramones (by which time I am ready to throw her down on all fours and fuck her doggie style with abandon). Occasionally I will throw her a curve, giving her several slows tunes and then toss in something fast unexpectedly, or vice versa). I also like to surf Youtube looking for new and different music (or old and forgotten music) to challenge her with. Last year, after discovering Groovy Dancing Girl, I decided to see how well she could handle "Harder, Faster, Better, Stronger" (quite well, it turned out [sm=insane.gif]). This year I’m going to surprise her with Black Tambourine and see if she can out freak Ellen Page.

So… I’m curious. Does the command “DANCE, SLAVE!” ever issue from your lips; or from your dominant’s lips (no sexism here… Dommes, let us know if your boy toy gyrates on command)? Where does such dancing occur (home, clubs, outdoors)? What music do you use, or would like to use, or would recommend?




leadership527 -> RE: Dance, slave! (4/5/2011 12:47:27 PM)

Of course I command Carol to dance for me. Sometimes I put her in silks to do it and sometimes it's just whatever she's wearing at the moment. I personally find female bodies in motion very attractive. For us that happens in our living room and like all of my commands, it doesn't come out nearly as "domly" as "DANCE SLAVE!"




Palliata -> RE: Dance, slave! (4/5/2011 12:53:20 PM)

It does, but never in quite the barbaric firelight interlude you've described. May have to make a pilgrimage to the country sometime soon...




Aileen1968 -> RE: Dance, slave! (4/5/2011 1:11:35 PM)

Oh dear God no...gladly we are most compatible with our mutual dislike of dancing and karaoke.




MaxsBoy -> RE: Dance, slave! (4/5/2011 1:12:47 PM)

I'm a dancer...but dance is sacred to me, and not something to be used in a kink/sexual context.  So no, I have never danced for Max, he respects my feelings on the issue.  In fact, he has never seen me dance at all.




Palliata -> RE: Dance, slave! (4/5/2011 1:55:59 PM)

Sacred in what way?




ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Dance, slave! (4/5/2011 2:15:50 PM)

I love to dance and am learning to belly dance. I see dance as being scared as well, but all the more reason to incorporate it into my relationship. For me, the power exchange between partners attains a spiritual level that is scared as well. It's not "just sex" to me. 

There is an ancient tribe that when asked about their religion and philosophy said "We have no religion, we have no philosophy. We dance."

That's me.




porcelaine -> RE: Dance, slave! (4/5/2011 3:13:29 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Marc2b

What music do you use, or would like to use, or would recommend?


Greetings,

i love to dance! i prefer music that has a sensual undercurrent or one that ignites that part of me. i generally prefer carnatic offerings and have cultivated a burgeoning interest in Egyptian music. At present, i'm totally loving the Upper Egypt Ensemble. It's the perfect accompaniment for detailed hip movements. [;)]

Namaste,

~porcelaine




littlewonder -> RE: Dance, slave! (4/5/2011 4:06:36 PM)

thankfully no. I have two left feet and I'm the biggest klutz in the entire universe. If he did I hope he puts away all breakables...on second thought better include everything because believe me it will break. Plus I just look like a clown.




peachgirl -> RE: Dance, slave! (4/5/2011 5:04:44 PM)

Is stripping considered dancing if you're humming a tune?




Aynne88 -> RE: Dance, slave! (4/5/2011 5:31:48 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

Oh dear God no...gladly we are most compatible with our mutual dislike of dancing and karaoke.


Hells to the yes ;-) So are we.




ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Dance, slave! (4/5/2011 5:44:53 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: peachgirl

Is stripping considered dancing if you're humming a tune?



But of course!!!




favesclava -> RE: Dance, slave! (4/5/2011 5:49:30 PM)

dancing for Him is one of my favorite things to do. and yes , Dance slave does come out of His mouth ... a lot.
Bellydancing , latin, rock, slow , slutty , you name it i can dance it (or fake it well)




NuevaVida -> RE: Dance, slave! (4/5/2011 6:58:15 PM)

Yes, I dance for him.  And not always because he said to.  Sometimes the music is on and I just start moving....and I'm off.  This is typically done in the living room or kitchen.  Sometimes he joins me, sometimes he sits (or stands) back and watches.  We both enjoy this very much.




DesFIP -> RE: Dance, slave! (4/5/2011 7:52:03 PM)

Nope, not a dancer. Although we live in a log cabin in the woods, by the time it's warm enough to be naked outdoors it's tick and poison ivy season. And somehow I can't imagine the smell of Deet to be an aphrodisiac.




poise -> RE: Dance, slave! (4/5/2011 8:21:52 PM)

Yes Yes Yes!!!

This post has me smiling. I love love LOVE dancing, and it is with
added joy when he asks that I dance for him. It's while in the groove
that any vestige of innocence is easily undulated away.

May I suggest you add this to your list?




ResidentSadist -> RE: Dance, slave! (4/5/2011 8:46:06 PM)

Yes, dance slave, dance bitch dance have been heard in my house often.
I believe dancing is one of the slave arts as was explained to me by a freed Armenian slave who had been captured by the Turks.
It doesn't always have to be a belly dance.  I don't care if it's Tecktonic, Hip Hop or a good ol' fashioned strip tease.  I like anything that gets a slave's ass moving to a rhythm.








GreedyTop -> RE: Dance, slave! (4/6/2011 12:05:48 AM)

dancing is a hard limit for me...

edited to clarify: 

dancing is a hard limit as far as ME dancing goes..   I have no issue with a partner dancing... as long as it doesnt include me.




myotherself -> RE: Dance, slave! (4/6/2011 12:13:45 AM)

I'm with the naysayers here!

I have less coordination than Holly when it comes to dancing [:D]

Last time I went to a club and danced with my (then) partner, I broke his toe...




ranja -> RE: Dance, slave! (4/6/2011 12:31:18 AM)

oh man i love dancing
mainly with men though, not for men
i love their hands on my body and being swayed and spun by them
i always wear clothes. nice heels and twirly skirts and my hair up.

i can dance on my own, but to get me to the same high the dj better be good




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