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MaxsBoy -> Please look over my profile (4/6/2011 6:43:27 AM)

I've changed my profile now that I am actively seeking someone.  This is earlier than I was expecting to start looking, but I wanted Max to make the decision about when I started actively looking, and he gave me the go-ahead this morning.  I hope that I have managed to accurately reflect what my situation is and what my needs are.  What do you all think?

I'm posting this here because I am most interested in serving a man, but I welcome feedback from the Dommes here as well.



DarkSteven -> RE: Please look over my profile (4/6/2011 7:06:57 AM)

I like it a lot.

The only suggestions I have are to either drop the reference to your son, or else explain how it would affect any relationship with a Dom; and to be a bit clearer about what you want (service and regular beatings are a given - is sex a possibility?), and how Max would fit in.



MaxsBoy -> RE: Please look over my profile (4/6/2011 7:12:02 AM)

Is it really a good idea to go into the sex issue on my profile, or should that be reserved for private conversation after making contact with someone who interests me?



DarkSteven -> RE: Please look over my profile (4/6/2011 7:15:13 AM)

I'd be up front with something like:

I am sexually monogamous with Max.
Sex is a possibility, but after we've scened a few times first.

Etc.

Nothing explicit or detailed at this point.



MaxsBoy -> RE: Please look over my profile (4/6/2011 7:27:30 AM)

Will do, thanks.



ranja -> RE: Please look over my profile (4/6/2011 8:11:45 AM)

i was a bit confused about your trans switch gender fluid sub with dom personality description of yourself
but then i am often confused...



MaxsBoy -> RE: Please look over my profile (4/6/2011 8:13:35 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ranja

i was a bit confused about your trans switch gender fluid sub with dom personality description of yourself
but then i am often confused...



Heh, join the club honey, I'm as confused as you are! [sm=biggrin.gif] But since I am primarily looking for a service situation with sexual contact being secondary at best, I'm hoping it won't be an issue.



DesFIP -> RE: Please look over my profile (4/6/2011 8:29:27 AM)

The only bit that I found odd is that you are seeking someone involved with the local community but you yourself aren't involved with it. Wouldn't it make sense to join it now and meet in r/l people who are involved?



MaxsBoy -> RE: Please look over my profile (4/6/2011 8:34:46 AM)

Des, you have a good point, and it's something I'm working on.  I haven't gotten involved yet because of the expense, and also because my schedule has been so full (I'm working on clearing it and have made good progress so far).  But I'm also not quite sure where to start, and if I can find someone who can give me a little guidance in that area, all the better.



DaddysInkedSlut -> RE: Please look over my profile (4/6/2011 8:39:42 AM)

Fox,

I think your profile paints a picture of who you are, your needs, and expectations.



leadership527 -> RE: Please look over my profile (4/6/2011 8:45:34 AM)

Worked for me Max. I found it informative and clear... something that I'd say few profiles are. To me, most of the profiles read more like the unholy love child of a harlequin romance & a BDSM checklist.

~Jeff



LadyPact -> RE: Please look over my profile (4/6/2011 8:52:23 AM)

I liked it!  Being someone who participates in the kind of situation that you are hoping to find, this is the kind of profile that would get an excellent response from Me.  I think you did a great job. 

The only addition that I might make would be the suggestion that others have already given.  Add just one bit about that you do have a desire to get involved with the local community and just haven't had the opportunity yet.  It will clear the confusion for anybody who is already participating in the same.  You want to be clear that the potential service that you are willing to provide can be in the public area.  I've brought people to events, demos, and such who were in service to Me and there might be something that can be worked out as far as the cost factor.  (If you happen to be in service to someone who gives demos and are willing to be the demo doll for the presentation, you don't pay to attend anyway.)

Really good job.  If we were on the same coast, I'd take you on, Myself.



MaxsBoy -> RE: Please look over my profile (4/6/2011 8:58:39 AM)

Done and done.

LP, I hope I will be lucky enough to find someone like you to serve.



ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Please look over my profile (4/6/2011 11:07:53 AM)

I thought it was word perfect, Fox.

As you know, you have a somewhat interesting and difficult situation to explain, but you did it beautifully.





LanceHughes -> RE: Please look over my profile (4/6/2011 2:25:03 PM)

Let's see...... to me, there's still some ambiguity about Max's place.  Is Max the "love of [your] life" that you are soon to marry?
Is he NOT going to be the Dom you say you're looking for? 

DAMN!  I wish you two could've met up with Hausboy and I that evening in February when I was out on your side of the Miss-is-sip ..... My two-cents might be a bit more relevant.

ETA: As LadyPact says, geographical distance is all that's keeping me from being first in line!  (I've got her beat on the gender part of your desires. LOL!)



FukinTroll -> RE: Please look over my profile (4/6/2011 2:48:39 PM)

*nudges Lance*

Psssttt... you gots more mail.

Slurp~



MaxsBoy -> RE: Please look over my profile (4/6/2011 4:25:55 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LanceHughes


ETA: As LadyPact says, geographical distance is all that's keeping me from being first in line!  (I've got her beat on the gender part of your desires. LOL!)


I'm wondering about that now, actually.  I was chatting with Max about this tonight and having him look over my new profile.  He wondered if I might not be better off favoring a woman rather than a man, and he had a good point about it.  I'm looking primarily for a service position, with sex not being the main focus.  I get the impression that a Domme might be more interested in the sort of strict service I'm looking for without wanting to immediately get into my pants.  I wonder if it might be a good idea to weigh both sexes equally rather than giving men extra consideration.

I'm also thinking that getting involved with the community here will have to happen sooner rather than later.  I doubt I'm going to find what I'm looking for here on cm.



FukinTroll -> RE: Please look over my profile (4/6/2011 4:40:04 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MaxsBoy

without wanting to immediately get into my pants.


Ooh Ooh! Pick me Pick me!!! I just want you out of them, not too interested in getting in them... wait... what size do you wear and do they look good on green?

Slurp~



MaxsBoy -> RE: Please look over my profile (4/6/2011 4:43:44 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: FukinTroll

quote:

ORIGINAL: MaxsBoy

without wanting to immediately get into my pants.


Ooh Ooh! Pick me Pick me!!! I just want you out of them, not too interested in getting in them... wait... what size do you wear and do they look good on green?

Slurp~



Too small for you dear, I'm not a big boy.



FukinTroll -> RE: Please look over my profile (4/6/2011 5:00:17 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MaxsBoy

Too small for you dear, I'm not a big boy.


Okay then... we are back to the part that I wanted them ripped off of you and in tatters on the floor.

Slurp~




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