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MaxsBoy -> RE: Please look over my profile (4/6/2011 5:10:09 PM)

Get in line behind Lance and LP. [;)]




LanceHughes -> RE: Please look over my profile (4/6/2011 5:53:38 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MaxsBoy
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ORIGINAL: LanceHughes
ETA: As LadyPact says, geographical distance is all that's keeping me from being first in line!  (I've got her beat on the gender part of your desires. LOL!)

I'm wondering about that now, actually.  I was chatting with Max about this tonight and having him look over my new profile.  He wondered if I might not be better off favoring a woman rather than a man, and he had a good point about it.  I'm looking primarily for a service position, with sex not being the main focus.  I get the impression that a Domme might be more interested in the sort of strict service I'm looking for without wanting to immediately get into my pants.  I wonder if it might be a good idea to weigh both sexes equally rather than giving men extra consideration.

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Hold on, there little one....... I never mentioned "sex" in a relationship with you.  I'm looking for a structured, service slave.  You had me (when I read your profile) at "decent housekeeping."  The secretarial component was high up in MY wish list. 

Cooking?  I'm a damn fine chef - but dishes? NO way!  That's what a slave is for.  Prepwork?  Always fun to have a kitchen slut around - "Here's the melon, here's the baller.  I like the melon balls thus <demo>."  Different melons in different Baggies.  When a baggie is full, put it into the refrigerator, stacked.  Then we'll repeat with other fruits..... After all, we're doing a cold breakfast buffet for a charity event and expect 75.  Once the fruit is trimmed, we'll use the punch bowl to mix the fruit salad.  That's why I want it all separate, so that I can measure it out to make the mix I want.  Cut up the rinds into pieces like I've shown you and put them on the compost heap that you built per my instructions....... Next time, you get to make the mix just as I've shown you this time, so pay extra close attention.

This is where you (MaxsBoy) go "THUD!"

Sex..... did I miss the sex part?  I didn't see any sex in there, did you?
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Bottom line:  The gender of the Dom you're looking for really, really doesn't matter.... except for the possiblity <down the road> of BDSM play.  In which instance, YOU get to control that all, now don't you?  Maybe you've got a REALLY poly thing going on??????  Maybe there's you, Max, TPE Dom/me (NOT necessarily 24/7 ! ! !) and then a Leatherman to top you BDSM style.

Be careful what you ask for.... you might just get it!

ETA:  Sure, Max is a man, and we ALL know, "Men are pigs."  I can see where he might be concerned, but again, as so many have said - COMMUNICATION.  I'm 61 years old and know how and when sex is appropriate, not like that SlurpyTroll guy.....

So, although I might be a pig, I can appreciate what you are offering on a much different level than getting into your pants....... Also, as a gay man, I'm not really all that interested in that end.  Maybe the other end..... (i.e. blow jobs.)  I did see your "Use of boat parts" pic afore you dropped it.  I appreciated it as a BDSM scene, not as "Oh.... look at all those naughty bits," as I'm sure the denziens of the lower depths of the bridge might have.

This ETA is almost as long as the original post, but one last thing..... I was curious as to just what TFTroll looked like.  One of his pics got a "Slurp" outta me. LOL!




MaxsBoy -> RE: Please look over my profile (4/6/2011 6:22:48 PM)

No, you didn't miss the sex part.  I'd be perfectly happy finding a situation that was pure service with no sex.  Having some BDSM play in there would be nice too, though.  I know that doesn't necessarily include sex, but I also know it often does.  But if you look carefully at the ol' profile, notice it says "sexual contact".  That means I'm perfectly willing to go partway down the road, but Max and I have agreed that I won't go all the way to the end of it.

Your description in the first half of your post got my slave self all "hot and bothered", btw.  Dishes?  Prep work?  Sign me up for that!  May I also scrub the kitchen floor when we're through?  *drool*




kalikshama -> RE: Please look over my profile (4/6/2011 6:33:17 PM)

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This ETA is almost as long as the original post, but one last thing..... I was curious as to just what TFTroll looked like.  One of his pics got a "Slurp" outta me. LOL!


Agrees with FT's slurpability!

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OP - I think you did a good job conveying a complicated situation and that you should be quick to screen out respondents who are not equally articulate.

While in vanilla dating men are very apt to want to get into my pants quickly, here on CM I have found a significant amount of sadists who are only interested in getting my pants off so they can beat my ass. Initial and subsequent convos with these men never got vanilla sexual but stayed on BDSM or just plain vanilla topics.

Good luck!




ResidentSadist -> RE: Please look over my profile (4/7/2011 3:03:57 AM)

Your profile is a good format, telling who you are, what you offer and what you want.  However, in my read through it, I was under the impression your play partner was gonna' be able to tap that cute little ass of yours despite Max.  From the replies in this thread it seems otherwise.  You might wanna' clear the part up where Max is a cock block.

Love the retro underwear with the peace signs.  

[img]http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ZujUU9khuqY/TKZSD4OzsNI/AAAAAAAAAJs/sJGFnk_aO8E/s320/peace_sign.jpg[/img]







MaxsBoy -> RE: Please look over my profile (4/7/2011 3:08:03 AM)

Max isn't completely a cock block.  And that issue might eventually be negotiable as time goes by and things settle in a bit.  In fact, I rather think it will be negotiable eventually, if I know Max like I think I do.  But as I mentioned above, the person I'm looking for might not be interested anyway.

And thanks about the undies.  They're also a perfect fit for my mouth.




LadyPact -> RE: Please look over my profile (4/7/2011 3:36:56 AM)

Thank you for the compliment. 

Not to undermine anyone else, but a household like Mine is probably what you are looking for.  There is something to be said for someone who already has a poly home structured where it would easily fit you in with your hopes in mind.  Since you are only looking at part time, you might do well with someone who already has a primary relationship (just like you) under their belt.  You may even want to consider D/D couples, rather than thinking of one gender or the other.   In doing so, you don't have to worry about the sex part or about Max being left out. 




DarkSteven -> RE: Please look over my profile (4/7/2011 4:55:39 AM)


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ORIGINAL: MaxsBoy

Get in line behind Lance and LP. [;)]


How many bucks do I have to slip you to cut in line?

Seriously, fox, you're cute, intelligent, and driven to serve. You're very beatable. And you have calm demeanor with a natural sense of humor.

OP has a good point regarding couples. Because you're taken and because your sexual identity is fluid, you'd cause less jealousy issues than almost anyone else. Off the top of my head, I can think of three couples in Colorado that would welcome someone like you.




angelikaJ -> RE: Please look over my profile (4/7/2011 9:34:34 AM)

I am wondering if there might not be an issue with the fact that Max states specifically in his profile that the 2 of you aren't looking for play partners?





MaxsBoy -> RE: Please look over my profile (4/7/2011 1:28:58 PM)

That's because he hasn't gotten around to changing it yet.  He's not on here much, and forgets to keep his profile updated because it's not that important to him.  He has read though mine, and approved it.




angelikaJ -> RE: Please look over my profile (4/7/2011 3:19:00 PM)

I figured that to be the case, Fox.

It just occurred to me that it might be an issue for people who could otherwise be interested and wouldn't know your history.




MaxsBoy -> RE: Please look over my profile (4/7/2011 7:44:19 PM)

I see your point, but I can't imagine anyone will even know.  He's on my friend list, but there's no other link in my profile to his.  And considering that most people don't even read the profiles they respond to, I can't imagine they'll go out of their way to look at his as well. [;)]




ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Please look over my profile (4/7/2011 7:49:19 PM)

Some do, Fox. If they are serious, they look for whatever they can find, and your posts and what not are out there.

I would say, given my experience, 99% don't bother with forum posts. A good 80% or more don't bother with your profile..they liked the pic.

I would not presume no one would read your posts, on the contrary, I would view that as a potential keeper.






LadyPact -> RE: Please look over my profile (4/8/2011 8:34:51 AM)

I would concede the fact that some do.  The evidence is right here on this thread.

Trick question.  How many of you folks have ever looked at MP's profile?  I know in My own research that the numbers are very few.  Probably fewer than have looked at clip's, even though MP is My primary relationship.

I would suggest to you, Mb, that you ask Max to attend to the matter.  For those who do research both profiles, you don't want people to be questioning why they conflict.  If you are going to venture into any sort of poly, you want people to see a united front.




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