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blacknwht -> Hello from CHICAGO! Tall, Black Dom (4/6/2011 9:19:20 AM)
Hello All, Wanting to introduce myself. I am new here and relatively new to the life. Here to meet people and gain some knowledge. The more you know, the more you know!

DaddysInkedSlut -> RE: Hello from CHICAGO! Tall, Black Dom (4/6/2011 9:21:49 AM)
Welcome to forums. ETA: I loved your profile. Very informative.

Lionking123 -> RE: Hello from CHICAGO! Tall, Black Dom (4/6/2011 9:25:55 AM)
hey

Lionking123 -> RE: Hello from CHICAGO! Tall, Black Dom (4/6/2011 9:27:47 AM)
How u doing?

blacknwht -> RE: Hello from CHICAGO! Tall, Black Dom (4/6/2011 11:15:01 AM)
Thanks for all the love! You make me feel very welcome.

ashjor911 -> RE: Hello from CHICAGO! Tall, Black Dom (4/6/2011 12:27:01 PM)
Welcome To CM

MsLadySue -> RE: Hello from CHICAGO! Tall, Black Dom (4/6/2011 2:03:23 PM)
Doesn't appear the wife knows from having read his profile.

ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Hello from CHICAGO! Tall, Black Dom (4/6/2011 2:06:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MsLadySue Doesn't appear the wife knows from having read his profile. That's what I thought, but I wanted to ask.

blacknwht -> RE: Hello from CHICAGO! Tall, Black Dom (4/6/2011 10:39:32 PM)
In response, no the wife does not know. I state this in my updated profile. Like I've said in my profile, I admit to being a cheater. looking to learn more about the lifestyle and possibly find someone that isn't bothered by my marital state and have no desire to make a total mess of my wife's life.

MaxsBoy -> RE: Hello from CHICAGO! Tall, Black Dom (4/6/2011 10:44:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: blacknwht In response, no the wife does not know. I state this in my updated profile. Like I've said in my profile, I admit to being a cheater. looking to learn more about the lifestyle and possibly find someone that isn't bothered by my marital state and have no desire to make a total mess of my wife's life. Sorry dude, but you do that the second you put your dick in some other woman. What you do is your business, but don't act like you're doing your wife a favor by fucking around behind her back.

blacknwht -> RE: Hello from CHICAGO! Tall, Black Dom (4/6/2011 10:48:43 PM)
I said I desire to find a woman that has "no desire to make a total mess of my wife's life." I am a firm believer that there is someone for everyone and that whatever you desire exists. That being said, there are women that enjoy NOT being the primary focus of a man 24/7. That is what I seek.

MaxsBoy -> RE: Hello from CHICAGO! Tall, Black Dom (4/6/2011 10:51:16 PM)
What about your wife, what does she desire? Seems you don't care as much about that as what your dick desires. Yup, that's the kind of man I want to get involved with. At any rate, pearls before swine and all that. Have a good night, and good luck with whatever you end up doing.

blacknwht -> RE: Hello from CHICAGO! Tall, Black Dom (4/6/2011 10:56:56 PM)
I know that most if not all of you can read. I am just a little worried about your comprehension skills. Nowhere and I mean nowhere did I ever mention sticking my dick anywhere.

BitaTruble -> RE: Hello from CHICAGO! Tall, Black Dom (4/7/2011 12:27:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: blacknwht I know that most if not all of you can read. I am just a little worried about your comprehension skills. Nowhere and I mean nowhere did I ever mention sticking my dick anywhere. I think it came from the whole "my girth fills your womb" thing that's in your journal. Or maybe it was the bit about wet pussy's. ::shrugs:: Just a guess.

blacknwht -> RE: Hello from CHICAGO! Tall, Black Dom (4/7/2011 12:35:30 AM)
Alas! I stand corrected. On 3/17 I posted a random thought that included the phrase "girth fills your womb." Ok. Now those of you who desire to do so have full permission to admonish me for my lack of morals, decency towards my wife and ill regard for the sanctity of marriage. Oh, great fish in the sky! Forgive me for the sin of lust and plain 'ole doggedness! I do know that most of the men on this site are truly deceptive pervs. They string women along and then only after the women begin to think that they have found the man of their dreams; find out that the rotten scoundrel son-of-a-bitch is married, has a girlfriend, three baby mommas, a chick on the side and a dog he never feeds. Although I admit that I too am deceptive, it is at the moment only to my wife. I clearly post my status as the first line of my profile to let anyone that reads it know that I am a married man and my wife doesn't know of my being on this site. Geezzzz. If you yell at me to tell me my floor is dirty do you think that others won't see dirt on yours?

GreedyTop -> RE: Hello from CHICAGO! Tall, Black Dom (4/7/2011 1:28:21 AM)
~FR~ just... wow.

DaddysInkedSlut -> RE: Hello from CHICAGO! Tall, Black Dom (4/7/2011 4:56:31 AM)
Oh, great fish in the sky! Forgive me for the sin of lust and plain 'ole doggedness! OP, I love this line, do you mine if I steal it? Lol

blacknwht -> RE: Hello from CHICAGO! Tall, Black Dom (4/7/2011 5:44:17 AM)
If thou findest value in my prose, them by all means use it as you will.

sunshinemiss -> RE: Hello from CHICAGO! Tall, Black Dom (4/7/2011 5:53:20 AM)
Hey there blacknwht - Good luck in your search. It's true there are women who want what you are offering. I wish you wisdom and patience and clarity. Let's face it - a number of long time posters on these boards are in this very situation... or have been. peace, sunshine

ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Hello from CHICAGO! Tall, Black Dom (4/7/2011 6:20:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss Hey there blacknwht - Good luck in your search. It's true there are women who want what you are offering. I wish you wisdom and patience and clarity. Let's face it - a number of long time posters on these boards are in this very situation... or have been. peace, sunshine This is true, cheating is rather common place, and people's reason for doing it vary as much as the people themselves. Many married people seem to be able to justify this behavior, for a while. But it does have an incredibly high price. I make no secret of my opinion about married cheaters. For the most part, they are not good relationship material. Are there exceptions? Surely. But I must point out that the inevitable deception necessary to pull this off effects everyone invovled, not merely the spouse being cheated on. The OP's wife and children must come first, no matter what the circumstances, which means he will never really enjoy the full range of the D/s relationship, and neither will his sub partner. About five years ago I counseled a married man who was cheating on his wife. Same situation, the wife was vanilla, and he did not feel that he was in a position to divorce her, due to his children. After a three hour conversation about what HE was getting out of these "secret" relationships, he told me he would think long and hard about our conversation. Six months later he had left his wife. A year later he met the sub of his dreams. Three years later, after his difficult divorce was final, they married. I do not know what, if any, influence I had on this chain of events, we never again talked in such full depth. I like to think I had some. I am now going to caution the OP to be true to his self. And that the best way to be true to his wife and children (which I am fairly sure he has) is to be true to himself. This may take some time, I imagine you are in a very difficult situation, but really, it is the only way in the long run.

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