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blacknwht -> RE: Hello from CHICAGO! Tall, Black Dom (4/7/2011 6:59:14 AM)
Well, ChatteParfaitt your words are taken to heart. I do not have any children. I am merely exploring my desires at this point. Hoping to join a community that seems more inline of who I am as a person. I'm feeling free-er....more relaxed.....less tense....in knowing who I really am and that these feelings that I have are valid. Anyone that has been in a relationship for more that 10 or so years realizes that people change over time. Perspectives, attitudes, and personalities change, grow, and mature. Sometimes they grow to complement and other times they clash, hard. I'm going through this to say that it is what it is. Like it or not, I'm here. Approve or not, I'm here. I have my issues at home to work out. Connecting with who I really am my improve things at home or move me to change things at home. This remains to be seen. Whew! Didn't know I would be going to therapy just by saying HI! to a like minded group of individuals. Peace!

DaddysInkedSlut -> RE: Hello from CHICAGO! Tall, Black Dom (4/7/2011 7:20:56 AM)
A one sided therapy session held by someone who has no idea who you are or what your situation is beyond the fact that you happen to be married. Which I find rather comical. I wonder if she charges a normal hourly rate or if she charges more for the blatently wrong assumptions she makes.

LaTigresse -> RE: Hello from CHICAGO! Tall, Black Dom (4/7/2011 7:27:48 AM)
Apparently you've a vested interest in this particular cheater. Or feel he cannot defend his shitty behaviour himself and needs a champion. Regardless....I am going to guess his wife will be thrilled when she discovers his antics.

GreedyTop -> RE: Hello from CHICAGO! Tall, Black Dom (4/7/2011 7:28:56 AM)
welcome, bnw.. while I have my own opinions about cheating, I can also respect what you said in your last post quote: I have my issues at home to work out. Connecting with who I really am my improve things at home or move me to change things at home. This remains to be seen. it is rare to see (IME) to see someone that recognizes what I quoted above. I wish you luck.

DaddysInkedSlut -> RE: Hello from CHICAGO! Tall, Black Dom (4/7/2011 7:34:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse Apparently you've a vested interest in this particular cheater. Or feel he cannot defend his shitty behaviour himself and needs a champion. Regardless....I am going to guess his wife will be thrilled when she discovers his antics. Obviously he can / does defend himself. And apparantly I could give a rats ass if you or anyone else thinks I have a vested interest in him or not. I happen to think that everyone has a right to try and find a piece of happiness and if his situation isn't for you then simply move on. I also think that considering how he has been attacked on this thread he has handled himself pretty damn well.

ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Hello from CHICAGO! Tall, Black Dom (4/7/2011 7:37:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DaddysInkedSlut A one sided therapy session held by someone who has no idea who you are or what your situation is beyond the fact that you happen to be married. Which I find rather comical. I wonder if she charges a normal hourly rate or if she charges more for the blatently wrong assumptions she makes. My oh my, I seem to have an admirer. I am well aware I am not everyone's cup of tea, nor do I wish to be. I am sure there are those who find me arrogant and judgmental -- b/c on some issues at least, I am exactly that. I will *never* apologize for having standards. I would apologize for being arrogant, but I am just naturally humble that way and it wouldn't come across as real and true. For the OP: I must apologize as you clearly got in the middle of a "disagreement" between people, when all you were trying to do was intro yourself. And though I do not know you personally, I did read your profile and a bit of your journal, and you come across to me as a good person trying to do the right thing.

ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Hello from CHICAGO! Tall, Black Dom (4/7/2011 7:39:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop welcome, bnw.. while I have my own opinions about cheating, I can also respect what you said in your last post quote: I have my issues at home to work out. Connecting with who I really am my improve things at home or move me to change things at home. This remains to be seen. it is rare to see (IME) to see someone that recognizes what I quoted above. I wish you luck. I respected that statement as well.

blacknwht -> RE: Hello from CHICAGO! Tall, Black Dom (4/7/2011 8:04:16 AM)
Well, looks like we can all get along after all. My work is done here! I have sooo much love to give that it breaks my heart that I have to find so many people in order to give it all away! :)

Hillwilliam -> RE: Hello from CHICAGO! Tall, Black Dom (4/7/2011 8:10:25 AM)
I'm gonna toss in [sm=2cents.gif] worth here. OK, he has a 'significant other' and, as predicted, a lot of folks jumped his ass with both feet. It ALWAYS happens when a male with a significant other joins the boards or the site. Y'all know what's coming don't you? I have NEVER seen a woman in the same situation catch any flack whatsoever. Maybe I havent looked hard enough but I just don't see it. I have seen a LOT of support given to these fine folks but never a cross word. Fair's fair and give folks a benefit of a doubt? There are incompatible spouses of both genders yaknow.

LaTigresse -> RE: Hello from CHICAGO! Tall, Black Dom (4/7/2011 8:13:03 AM)
Sucks being a grown up!

Hillwilliam -> RE: Hello from CHICAGO! Tall, Black Dom (4/7/2011 8:17:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse Sucks being a grown up! I know [:D]

OohAahMrs -> RE: Hello from CHICAGO! Tall, Black Dom (4/7/2011 9:03:39 AM)
Hey, what can i say, welcome.

blacknwht -> RE: Hello from CHICAGO! Tall, Black Dom (4/7/2011 9:24:29 AM)
Ok, the OP has left the building. Lights out! You dont' have to go home but you got to get the hell out of here! Good night everyone! Sit Ubu! Sit!

tiggerspoohbear -> RE: Hello from CHICAGO! Tall, Black Dom (4/7/2011 11:01:51 AM)
Welcome to the boards. Good luck in finding someone. 'Nuff said.

BitaTruble -> RE: Hello from CHICAGO! Tall, Black Dom (4/7/2011 12:04:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: blacknwht Geezzzz. If you yell at me to tell me my floor is dirty do you think that others won't see dirt on yours? First of all, I didn't yell. I just pointed out where the idea might have come from is all. You can apologize anytime you are ready unless you have problem with your own reading comprehension?

January -> RE: Hello from CHICAGO! Tall, Black Dom (4/7/2011 8:02:19 PM)
G'night tall black Dom. Oh, just so ya know, there are many folks on this site who think the definition of cheating is broader than just sex (or girth in the womb). Never equate kinky people with standardless people. January

forrealthough -> RE: Hello from CHICAGO! Tall, Black Dom (4/8/2011 7:12:58 PM)
Good luck in your search,but always remember "Wherever you go, there you are"

GreedyTop -> RE: Hello from CHICAGO! Tall, Black Dom (4/8/2011 9:55:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: blacknwht Ok, the OP has left the building. Lights out! You dont' have to go home but you got to get the hell out of here! Good night everyone! Sit Ubu! Sit! ok, I had to laugh at that!

WyldHrt -> RE: Hello from CHICAGO! Tall, Black Dom (4/9/2011 12:05:14 AM)
quote: I do not have any children. I am merely exploring my desires at this point. Hoping to join a community that seems more inline of who I am as a person. I'm feeling free-er....more relaxed.....less tense....in knowing who I really am and that these feelings that I have are valid. Hopefully, the OP is still here (even though we have been kicked out of the bar [8D]) because he has a point. In a way, I was in his shoes less than 3 years ago, so I'll not slam him for wanting to explore and find out if WIITWD is his path. I was married when I joined, and very upfront about it in my profile. Like the OP, I wanted to learn and interact with others, to see if this was what I really wanted. As it happened, my marriage was in its death throes, but that really doesn't make a difference, now does it? I was here. quote: Anyone that has been in a relationship for more that 10 or so years realizes that people change over time. Perspectives, attitudes, and personalities change, grow, and mature. Sometimes they grow to complement and other times they clash, hard. BTDT. Just saying. quote: I'm going through this to say that it is what it is. Like it or not, I'm here. Approve or not, I'm here. I have my issues at home to work out. Connecting with who I really am my improve things at home or move me to change things at home. This remains to be seen. OP~ I truly wish you luck and hope that you stick around. I agree very much with what Greedy said. quote: Whew! Didn't know I would be going to therapy just by saying HI! to a like minded group of individuals. Peace! That will teach you to say 'Hi', now won't it? [;)] Welcome to the nuthouse, blacknwht!

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