DiannaVesta
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First, happy birthday!!!!
Second, I think everyone needs positive feedback and I'm sure you gave him that but since you also said that you were gone for a while, could your not being there have been a factor?
While Fox likes to have his time alone in the house when Tom and I go and so some couple thing (usually corresponding to something academic, thus it goes) he does it anxious for me to get back after about two days.
Did you have check-ins while you were gone? Did you leave someone else in charge to give feedback -- a friend or another slave?
While we'd love to think that in this consensual slavery someone will do a good job just because I think these mundane matters require even more feedback and positive strokes after they are done to make them worthwhile.
Just my thoughts and questions.
I'd love to have this much land!
Tammy thank you! AS for the land, it has its draw backs. The past 10 years I've lived on rural properties. It’s not for everyone. Between the animals, land and then my business I’m busy even with help.
Sometimes I have to leave for a week or two. I have my people call me 3 times a day at exactly the same time. I’m not going to *tend* to them because I have something to do. They are supposed to be tending to me. In my household I am the main bread winner. If I can’t go away and do what I have to do without worry then they need to go. Its that simple.
Check-in by phone three times a day?
That's a lot more "tending" than I'd do for my slaves while I was gone frankly.
Sounds like then he just wasn't into doing farm or land work but wanted some sort of connection to you. Maybe he didn't know before he tried it -- sometimes our fantasies are better than reality. But he needed to tell you that as soon as it became clear to him.
Sadly it reads like you did what you had to do. Can your other slaves pick up the slack until you find more help? I'd be worried about the planting and the future harvest myself but then I seem to like to worry.
Well the checking in is because I’m neurotic when it comes to my animals. They have already endured so much abuse in their life that feel it is my mission to give them the rest of their years as happy as they can be. You should see my electric bill. It’s as high as some peoples mortgages due to fans, heaters, music and the animals that need TV and cable. Don’t laugh because I’m not kidding. I can’t tell you how many slaves of mine wished they were treated like my dogs. But I can away for a few weeks and then walk onto my land without saying a word and every animal on my land knows I’m home. They perk up and scream. Perhaps if my slaves showed me that type of unconditional devotion I’d treat them better. Lol
I left a male behind in Florida so I only had one live-in here but had planned on getting more once I was more settled. Its such a lengthy process for me. I am very careful but it still happens. I am so remote as well. I have zero tolerance for the ones that want to come out to help me only to find them going through my shit or constantly under foot.
I will be ok. I’m a strong ass woman & I placed an ad to get part time help until I sort things out. Hell I may build a femdom commune of like minded ladies and impose even stricter guidelines for males. They don’t like it or want to give me flack, they can hit the road. I’ll sit around with my sisters, drink wine and grow pretty things.
Speaking of pretty things I bought myself, for my birthday a candle stick tree with pretty yellow flowers. Being a Florida, tropical girl I’m really getting into all this new stuff.
Someone told me yesterday I planted my pumpkins too early for Halloween. I guess I’ll need to plant some more.
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