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DiannaVesta -> RE: Life on the Farm (5/14/2006 5:27:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: liks2plzlf Goddess Daina Vesta Another belated birthday wish. You didn't seem to receive many from subs, which I would have thought there would have been.I would like to, if I may, ASK a question! Was the boy you released, given an occasional opportunity "to melt to his knees at your feet in total surrender" to worship and adore you??? Possibly giving him tremendous incentive to be more devoted to his chores. Just Curious here. I have learned so much in the boards, but still have a ways to go. You probably recognze that quote. Hope you find many boys to work for you. The incentive is to be with me. I will be damned if I catered to any slave. If they are not grateful for the fact that I allow them to be my property then they need to go eslewhere. I'm not sure what you mean excatly by WORSHIP & Adore. He was not that type of slave.

LaTigresse -> RE: Life on the Farm (5/14/2006 5:32:59 AM)
I wonder why I cannot stop the silly grin on my face....okay.....downright evil giggling Hell, I would do gardening to hang out there, just so happens I love gardening, but I know prostrating myself at anyones feet would not be a requirement of my doing it....unless of course I slipped and fell in the mud which I have been known to do............

DiannaVesta -> RE: Life on the Farm (5/14/2006 5:34:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SweetDommes Happy late birthday. [:)] quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse Ultimately I would not mind at least giving him a chance to prove himself and then perhaps introduce him to one of the ladies on here that is looking for something more permanent than I would. I doubt he wants a lifetime of celibacy!!! However I sure could use a little help around the farm right now. Oh yeah? lol- wouldn't that be nice? I think we need a network going here. First there is the “Slave Drive” where we gather only the top choices. Then there is “SIT- slave in training” where each slave gets sent to a different lady for training in a particular area. We all agree on the things they should know and most importantly the attitude they should display. Once they have all made their rounds and earns their points we put their names in a hat and pick which one we will own. Of course since I thought of the program (laughing) I get the one with the most points! Then every 6 months we trade. If a slave gets points taken away and down to zero he is thrown out of the network. Heh, feel free to send him our way after you teach him how to properly care for a garden LOL

DiannaVesta -> RE: Life on the Farm (5/14/2006 5:36:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HayaSierra Greetings DiannaVesta, Perhaps once you get it going (the forums) and after I get my own Household more into the physical over the fall and winter, and you have a little free time too, perhaps we can talk a bit more about it all. I love the ideas I have heard so far,, and have a few of my own that I will be persuing in the future, but I'm never afraid to do a little collaboration with someone who knows their stuff well. And I can tell you know your stuff by the way you describe your set-up :). And yes, I like strict guidelines, I tend to be strict as well. When I didn't find the rules and protocol I wanted I sat down with my Beloved and created our own from scratch. It's been a difficult road, but it has been worth every ounce of effort to realise this potential we've got over here :D. I am sure much serious networking will be happening soon. Count on it.

DiannaVesta -> RE: Life on the Farm (5/14/2006 5:41:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MisPandora Dianna, I'm sorry that you had this experience. It's come to the point where I've learned to give slaves only the menial things to do. Things I wish done correctly or that are of importance (animals are obviously one of them), I gladly pay a professionak to handle. Perhaps these fellows believe that they will gain more attention from doing a bad job, or that they'll somehow win your ministrations with just a so-so job.....but I don't enjoy that sort of thing nor do I have time for it. I can't even get them to write a proper email, because they're too damn focused on what they want and getting it on their terms. Exactly and I don't play tit for tat games with anyone. I know the type you speak of but I also know that there are slaves willing and who would enjoy being in the space we all speak of. I've seen them, know them and maybe they weren't for me, per se but know they would do well with other ladies. I'm really not interested in a man sexually. I mean there are those who interest me to a degree and I enjoy being massaged, worship, adored but I prefer women. This doesn't mean that I don't have male slaves. I think that for some males sex is a very important factor and that is their choice as long as it doesn’t get in the way of serving. I don’t blame a slave for wanting a more intimate relationship. I think that I am affectionate but maybe not intimate in ways they seek. I’ve met wonderful men who sought a mistress wife. That I will never be.

DiannaVesta -> RE: Life on the Farm (5/14/2006 5:44:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MsDominiquenz Ive been watching this thread, and its fantastic. Woodsmoke and full moons and flutes and happy animals.. I love this lifestyle, and people fit in where they can..its important to me that this place runs well and everybody/thing that is here is the best that they can be. Sure, running a place with space, gardens, animals and a professional and lifestyle is busy, and the more the merrier to get things done. The 24/7 slave is wonderful at everything.. he should be after 7 yrs !!!! :) The others visit wearing many different hats, from client to pet to coffee..from Gathering to personal, to tyre kickers. At the end of the day, everyone contributes in many ways to the lifestyle of the Mistress/Goddess and thats what its all about, because then they can enjoy what they helped to create, and they get the level of involvement they can manage. Im sitting here today smiling at this past week, because I have had lots around and busy times, but a few days with an online pet visiting from OS was lovely (first time face to face) and he became a part of things here, not as a client but as a pet, so he was a handy tool to have around, swinging on the gate to let folk in..keeping the sink clean..being a Dungeon toy for a new Domina and myself, a crash course on animal management, and training in how to please me in various ways. I have some shockers land here if I allow them to, they have been sent away..and also some who 'get it' and want to just camp n the backyard when its time to go. lol Im not searching for the 'one', Im offering an opportunity to some. Its about standards and rules, and I keep mine solid. There is a thread here about a FemDom online community..I hope it happens as Dominas in contact that are in the lifestyle, can only be a good thing, especially as our lives can be so similar. Out to see if the slave has bought the FemDom piggy in from Her walk to the apple tree I think there are many Goddesses among us just waiting to explore the depths of their feminine fire. The world must be a hard place for them. I know it is for me.

DiannaVesta -> RE: Life on the Farm (5/14/2006 5:46:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse I wonder why I cannot stop the silly grin on my face....okay.....downright evil giggling Hell, I would do gardening to hang out there, just so happens I love gardening, but I know prostrating myself at anyones feet would not be a requirement of my doing it....unless of course I slipped and fell in the mud which I have been known to do............ Oh I bet I could get you melting to your knees. <eg> Just because we're dominant doesn't mean we can't enjoy some kinky fun. I'll let you tie me to a tree and flog me. I have no problem with that. I know who I am. <wink>

LaTigresse -> RE: Life on the Farm (5/14/2006 5:57:30 AM)
ohhhhhhhhhh, I am quite confident that you could also. The tree tying and flogging sounds like wicked good fun also!

DiannaVesta -> RE: Life on the Farm (5/14/2006 6:02:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse ohhhhhhhhhh, I am quite confident that you could also. The tree tying and flogging sounds like wicked good fun also! yeah well you know what they say, "a woman knows what a woman wants" so I guess if the male slaves start acting up we always have each other.

LaTigresse -> RE: Life on the Farm (5/14/2006 6:06:27 AM)
most definately, and with many mutual interests, definately no boredom or lack of things to do and talk about

DiannaVesta -> RE: Life on the Farm (5/14/2006 6:19:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse most definately, and with many mutual interests, definately no boredom or lack of things to do and talk about yeah but lets keep a few males around to go fetch things. lol I need to get my butt outside. My mom is here today and keeps looking over my shoulder. She is so curious about my world. She always has been. She walks around like this... "Where did you get that new lawn furniture?" - "It was a gift a mama." I reply. "Where did you get that .....(this happened about 6 times this weekend.) "It was a gift mama". "Well damn they need to get me some gifts. Did you tell them I'm your mother, daughter?" she says. My mom is a trip. Now I gotta go do what mama says! See ya later. Happy Mothers Day to all you Mother Goddesses!

liks2plzlf -> RE: Life on the Farm (5/14/2006 2:22:37 PM)
Goddess DiannaVesta I was not even suggesting that you cater to anyone. The quote was yours in a previous post, of which I was very impressed, and have not forgotten. That was very exciting, and enlightening.I understand why you left the boy go. This seems to happen fairly often, either he is left go or just leaves. I was wondering, questoning, why he would go through all the time and trouble, to convince you to give him a chance, then blow it almost immediately. When things progress to that point, I would think the person was sincere in his desire to serve, and wasn't a fake. Don't the Domina and prospective slave come to an understanding as to what exactly what is expected, before they commit? Is there any kind of test that the slave would have to do, to show he is as subservient as he claims or as the Domina wants? Did he offer any reason for his behavior, or do you have any idea why? If I get to that point, I certainly hope it lasts much longer than that. Each time something like this happens, I wonder what went wrong. Trying to learn from other people's mistakes.

theRose4U -> RE: Life on the Farm (5/14/2006 5:25:36 PM)
quote: As for having someone serve me that requires time drooling over my dirty boots to serve properly.......that one needs to rethink what serving is. If I find a man that will lick my barn boots I'd probably collar that man....I wouldn't ever kiss him again, but he'd be my lil poo licker.

DiannaVesta -> RE: Life on the Farm (5/15/2006 8:01:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: theRose4U quote: As for having someone serve me that requires time drooling over my dirty boots to serve properly.......that one needs to rethink what serving is. If I find a man that will lick my barn boots I'd probably collar that man....I wouldn't ever kiss him again, but he'd be my lil poo licker. That made me laugh so hard I almost peed my pants. lol- lil poo licker!

thetammyjo -> RE: Life on the Farm (5/15/2006 8:16:04 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: liks2plzlf Goddess DiannaVesta I was not even suggesting that you cater to anyone. The quote was yours in a previous post, of which I was very impressed, and have not forgotten. That was very exciting, and enlightening.I understand why you left the boy go. This seems to happen fairly often, either he is left go or just leaves. I was wondering, questoning, why he would go through all the time and trouble, to convince you to give him a chance, then blow it almost immediately. When things progress to that point, I would think the person was sincere in his desire to serve, and wasn't a fake. Don't the Domina and prospective slave come to an understanding as to what exactly what is expected, before they commit? Is there any kind of test that the slave would have to do, to show he is as subservient as he claims or as the Domina wants? Did he offer any reason for his behavior, or do you have any idea why? If I get to that point, I certainly hope it lasts much longer than that. Each time something like this happens, I wonder what went wrong. Trying to learn from other people's mistakes. I'm not Dianna but I can think of a few reasons a boy might do this. First, he isn't completely honest about what he is looking for or what he can offer because he feels that he won't find a dominant unless he pretends to be something else. Second, the reality of the situation will rarely live up to the fantasy in our heads. This can be especailly shocking for someone who has less experience. The shock results in not trying any more to fulfill your side because you feel let down. Third, sometimes people are just not trained to have the self-discipline required to do a job. I don't mean trained by the dominant, I mean trained by life or by school or by family. Most adults have to be self-disciplined to get anything done in life which is primarily pretty mundane.

DiannaVesta -> RE: Life on the Farm (5/15/2006 10:31:51 AM)
Tammy I could not have said it any better. Thank you. I believe in my heart that many try with good intentions at first & a strong desire to please me. It takes a lot of strength and discipline to put someone else’s needs before your own. Some people are great fulfilled in that space while others struggle. Some are naturally born, some it takes time and others won’t dial in no matter how hard they try.

theRose4U -> RE: Life on the Farm (5/15/2006 3:44:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DiannaVesta quote: ORIGINAL: theRose4U quote: As for having someone serve me that requires time drooling over my dirty boots to serve properly.......that one needs to rethink what serving is. If I find a man that will lick my barn boots I'd probably collar that man....I wouldn't ever kiss him again, but he'd be my lil poo licker. That made me laugh so hard I almost peed my pants. lol- lil poo licker! You have to admit it shows a SERIOUS level of devotion.

SweetDommes -> RE: Life on the Farm (5/15/2006 3:52:02 PM)
Ok, side-tracking this thread a bit, I'm posting this here because of the discussion of rescued animals that we are devoted to that happened earlier. I'm on another site with a profile that explains who we are - I'm really only on the site because I got addicted to the silly personality quizes that they have there ... and someone messages me with an e-mail entitled "just so you know" ... here is the body of the message: quote: I'm not buying the whole Dominant thing, just because of the cute cats you have in your profile. Maybe you are, but then again maybe I'm not the only one who sees it that way, so I thought I'd let you know. For some reason, OKCupid keeps displaying the really smudgy one as a thumbnail in my search results. Though I did LMAO at your screen name. Keep workin' on it, and good luck. (no clue what is up with the links I can't get them edited out, I've tried ... sorry) So, am I the only one that sees a problem with people thinking that Domination has to = whips and chains and showing no affection for anyone or anything????? [end highjack]

theRose4U -> RE: Life on the Farm (5/15/2006 4:05:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DiannaVesta Tammy I could not have said it any better. Thank you. I believe in my heart that many try with good intentions at first & a strong desire to please me. It takes a lot of strength and discipline to put someone else’s needs before your own. Some people are great fulfilled in that space while others struggle. Some are naturally born, some it takes time and others won’t dial in no matter how hard they try. I think that there is a responsibility to those that are putting our needs before our own. There was a thread in the masters forum that really got me thinking about this. The sub became completely enmeshed in the master to the exclusion of all else (work, familiy, ability to function independently) then left for reasons not revealed. I think that your situation was very different from this one but it serves as a reminder of the duties that we have to those that serve.Clarifing expectations is sometimes a fluid and repetitive thing checking in, reinforcing, praising the pet and moving on. I've only met a very very few subs that I would say were born there male or female. Many many more have to find their way. It is how we deal with their struggles and even the falls that show everyone's character. I think your boy truely showed his.

theRose4U -> RE: Life on the Farm (5/15/2006 4:24:19 PM)
quote: : quote: I'm not buying the whole Dominant thing, just because of the cute cats you have in your profile. Maybe you are, but then again maybe I'm not the only one who sees it that way, so I thought I'd let you know. For some reason, OKCupid keeps displaying the really smudgy one as a thumbnail in my search results. Though I did LMAO at your screen name. Keep workin' on it, and good luck. (no clue what is up with the links I can't get them edited out, I've tried ... sorry) So, am I the only one that sees a problem with people thinking that Domination has to = whips and chains and showing no affection for anyone or anything????? I think that it's just another boneheaded dom thinking with the brain south of the border. Frankly I think that having a dominant personality makes you a BETTER animal rescuer. Being a Domme, taught me greater patience, especially for the shortcomings of others, how to handle difficult situations with grace, blending opposing views into positive outcomes. When necesary it also allows the skill of pulling of the gloves, rounding up resources and kickin some arse...who cares about the names. GRRR People that I know in all types of rescue organizations from the hard core to the kitty shelter are all very dominant when it comes to animals of all kinds. Like many groups you need the Doms to kick butt and the subs to hold down the fort and maintain order. Sometimes (more than most would think) you find those of alternative sexual orientation (yes I mean us too[8D]). Most people wouldn't think of me as the protector of pathetic poodles. I have this knack for finding some of the saddest mineature poodles that you ever did see. These poor little munchkins are forced to live with my 100# Lab which most people say is the dog that most "suits me". I would say chalk this one up as a bonehead trying to get a rise out of you, block and delete. If that fails try my mantra of boys are stupid hit them with rocks [8D]

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