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ParappaTheDapper -> RE: Dealing with post orgasm loss of interest (4/28/2011 6:40:29 AM)


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ORIGINAL: boytocuck

Im a male submissive and after I cum I'll completely lose interest in my kinks. till something turns me on again and Ill think "oh yeah I guess I am really into this"

Anyone else like this? I want to know because I dont know if it's normal or if it means I'm not a real submissive.

Thanks



Man, this is your life. Don't ask other people "Hey am I doing this right?" Don't worry about whether other people tell you you're a "real submissive" or not. Life is nothing but this short gorgeous streak between two infinite stretches of oblivion and it's all we get so don't waste your time and energy asking other people how you ought to feel. Most people are going to give you the answer they think makes them look the best.





CreepyStalker -> RE: Dealing with post orgasm loss of interest (4/28/2011 3:14:04 PM)

Don't orgasm then, simples. 




WillowBayU -> RE: Dealing with post orgasm loss of interest (4/29/2011 4:37:44 PM)

Ah...so THAT'S what happened the other night!  [8|]...to me, I mean...




Delilya -> RE: Dealing with post orgasm loss of interest (4/29/2011 6:47:01 PM)


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ORIGINAL: paulmcuk

If a guy cums after vanilla sex does it mean he's no longer interested in sex? No, it just means he needs a break before he's ready to go again.

Ideally, a sub shouldn't be allowed to cum until his Domme has no more use for him for a while. Then it doesn't matter if he temporarily loses interest.


Sums it up nicely for me.




BiSalemOR -> RE: Dealing with post orgasm loss of interest (6/24/2011 9:26:34 PM)

I say this is normal.  I have seen many guys say they have the exact same problem.  I have the same problem.  With women I still lose interest in sex at that moment but it doesn't bother me much although I would love to break that habit and be able to have all day sex marathons with women.  Where it does bother me is when it comes to my bi sub bottom curiosities.  When I cum the interest I have in being with guys usually turns to disgust at the idea.  I have only had one orgasm that left me hard and still horny and very interested in more.  It was when I was riding a toy and my cock wasn't being touched at all and I was in a wild heat of the moment mentality and I had that orgasm.  I loved it and hope to experience again.  And the first man or woman that can do that to my ass without my cock being touch and make it happen more than once during the same session I will happily give them ownership of my ass.  I am sure a few times of that and I'd probably start begging more it.

But yes, it seems very normal even though there are guys that are not affected by it.




mwdsub4u -> RE: Dealing with post orgasm loss of interest (6/30/2011 3:24:14 PM)

i have never had that as a problem, its not about me , its obeying her, i can cum yet i still desire more should she want to use me.




errantgeek -> RE: Dealing with post orgasm loss of interest (6/30/2011 8:27:45 PM)

Well, yeah...that's what orgasm control and chastity are for.

If when you're "done", you're done, then don't finish until she's done with you.




Kalista07 -> RE: Dealing with post orgasm loss of interest (6/30/2011 8:49:09 PM)

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ORIGINAL: windchymes

I used to lose my lunch after cumming, but I divorced him and now life is sweet [8|]


Never orgasmed before him.......Never orgasmed with him.... Still have orgasmed after him....

OMG!!! Maybe I'm not a real person!!!!!

AAAAARRRRGGGGGGHHHHH!!!
Kali




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