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DeviantlyD -> RE: Questions for heterosexual men (4/17/2011 12:27:03 AM)
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ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather
i'm not a heterosexual man, so i can't speak from that point of view, but i can from mine. i have had a number of good lovers, all of them women or gay men, i have never encountered a heterosexual man who was more than a mediocre lover.
a good lover engages your entire self in the sex. your whole body and mind become an erogenous zone. she fucks all of you. a good lover studies her partner in the minutest detail, memorizing every reaction, every gasp, twitch and sigh, and using that information to deliver the most erotic and satisfying experience possible to her lover. a good lover's primary focus is on her partner. she never allows her own pleasure to distract her from her main purpose, to satisfy her lover in the most complete way she can.
a good lover is not some thing you are, it is something you do.
hannah lynn
I hear what you're saying...that a good lover makes it all about you and your pleasure.
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ORIGINAL: TheHeretic
I certainly would make such a distinction. A fuck is a fuck, a lover is a package. My experience, and I've heard this in conversation with other guys as well, is that the very best fucks, the wildest, rip the bedsheets, scare the cats, and speak in a primal roar when you cum, fucks are with crazy women. Put another way, there is a good reason so many nice guys stay with utter psycho-bitches.
I could tell of an amazing four day fling in my youth with what turned out to be a bi-polar borderline schizophrenic, but I know there are many such stories.
A lover is a good fuck you like to have breakfast with. [:D]
Details man!! Details! What do you mean by "crazy" as it pertains to the physical act of sex?
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ORIGINAL: blacksword404
Damn crazy women. They are crazy because they have problems controlling themselves. Now in everyday situations that is what makes them crazy. In the bedroom that is what makes them so good. No off button. But I never compare women who are just fucks to woman you have feeling for. Not a fair comparison.
Can you define what you mean by "no off button"?
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ORIGINAL: subfever
The keys were sexual: chemistry, communication, and compatibility.
First off, I was extremely attracted to her. Then, she had a gift of fluidly letting me know exactly what she wanted, which I'm sure contributed to her multiple, vocal, gutteral, and sometimes even convulsing orgasms. This hottie sometimes even briefly passed out from her orgasms. She was open-minded to experimentation, slightly on the sexually selfish side (which I didn't mind a bit, since I had to concentrate on delaying my orgasms with this firecracker anyway), and had a wonderfully high sex drive that was fortunately a few notches short of nymphomania.
I soon moved in with her, and I don't exaggerate when I say that we fucked 3-4 times a day for many consecutive months before the initial thrill finally wore off, and we settled into some semblance of "normalcy."
I was only 30 when I hooked up with this sex goddess. Though I've had many partners prior and since, I've never duplicated that level of sustained euphoric sexual compatibility.
What was it about her that made you so extremely attracted? When you say attracted, is this entirely in the physical sense? Or was it both physical and non-physical? Are there things that women do that make it great for you, regardless of whether that chemistry is there?
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