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RE: choice of a strap on - 6/22/2006 10:45:34 PM

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Ohhhh myyyy that would terrify me Ma'am

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RE: choice of a strap on - 6/23/2006 7:23:37 AM

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the thing about anal sex is...too much lube is almost enough...

Words guaranteed to cause rapid attitude adjustment in a male submissive: "Lube is a privilege, not a right."

omg....i got an attitude adjustment just reading that post, lol

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RE: choice of a strap on - 6/23/2006 8:25:34 AM

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I really like the look of the feeldo, haven't got one yet but a dear friend has and she loves it. She did say it takes some getting used to! I highly recommend this site as a reputable dealer
http://tickleberry.co.uk/pages/feeldoe.html

You don't want to use a feeldoe with anal penetration. It just doesn't fit right. They are perfect for girl on girl sex IMO. Still, they can slip and fall out.

Stormy leather makes the Terra Firma line. I prefect a good leather harness that buckles on. When it comes to a dildo I only use silicone.

There is one dildo you should check out called a Nexus. That also slips inside the wearer but much better then feeldoe. I would also use a harness with it but take the back off.

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RE: choice of a strap on - 6/23/2006 8:40:06 AM

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I tried the Feeldoe and I'm a big lady so we had problems getting it to work. So I've since gone back to my old 4 strap, strapon harness.

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RE: choice of a strap on - 7/9/2006 12:35:47 PM

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Totally love this. You hold it in with your kegel muscles and the little pad in front provides hours of hole-some fun. Not only do you get to rub your clit, fuck your own cunt, and ream his ass, all at the same time, but the angle of penetration is just better--at least for me. With a regular harness, I always feel like I'm fucking the guy with my pubic bone (not my most sensitive area). When I'm fucking with the feeldo, I feel more like I'm fucking with my clit. While using it, I've had the intense fantasy that my vagina has grown out of me, extroverted, that I'm fucking him with my cunt itself (don't know how else to explain it).

However, Najakcharmer hits the clit on the head. The thing has NO sense of direction: just like real dicks. So fun/funny story. Maybe this should go under "Positive Experiences"?

I've got mr. b (not his real name) bent over on all fours on the bathroom floor. He's screaming and begging. A lovely noisy man. I'm just about to cum, too. I'm ramming the thing in and out and I try to angle down into him, bending it, so that the dildo is rubbing the upper inside of my cunt AND hitting his prostate. I'm rising up off my knees, bearing down, he's screaming, "Please, Miss, let this slut cum." I'm yelling "Cum you dirty slut," etc, etc. With a yowl, he cums (never even touches himself) and his legs collapse under him. The feeldo pops out of my cunt, but I'm back on a down-thrust, so the thing whams me right in the bladder. I can't help it. I collapse, peeing, on top on him. At first I'm wild with frustration, but then I start to laugh. When I clamber off, he's lieing there in a pool of cum and pee, flat on the ground with the dildo still pointing out his ass. Said it was the single most intense orgasm of his life.

PS I made him clean it up and he made it up to me in other ways.

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RE: choice of a strap on - 7/10/2006 12:34:49 PM

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I have a HUGE collection of Strapons...and NOTHING works like the FeelDoe...I tell EVERYONE to buy one...I've never had any problems taking any of my boys...I make them buy their own and I keep them...but that's my person OCD hang ups...

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RE: choice of a strap on - 7/10/2006 6:55:17 PM

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I dont have any experience but i saw a video with a really hott femdom using an electrically vibrating one

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RE: choice of a strap on - 7/10/2006 7:44:16 PM

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Never tried a harness, always too worried the cock would pop off.

This is Mine, and we've never had any trouble with it:
http://www.sextoysex.com/sex/start/view.html?a=sexits&pnum=SE1506-01

In hindsight, I'd rather it didn't have the little dildo for Me, I'd prefer not to have the distraction, but it's not that big of a deal. Cleans up well, and no problem with lingering odors after years of use.

Edited to fix broken link

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RE: choice of a strap on - 7/11/2006 5:12:35 AM

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I have a huge collection too (26strapons) MistressTaboo is right, there's nothing like it!
But, i still like to use my KONG and my BAM on my subs

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RE: choice of a strap on - 8/2/2006 11:13:56 AM

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Kong????

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RE: choice of a strap on - 8/2/2006 5:24:13 PM

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http://www.docjohnson.com/products2.aspx?cat=7 page 5

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RE: choice of a strap on - 8/3/2006 2:05:15 AM

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I've visited all the links posted (may I add the FeelDoe looks EXTREMELY interesting) and there is another possibility.

Back here I can't even dream of such beautiful things but I've bought a thingy for my Girlfriend (I've got REALLY, REALLY lucky!!!) to play with my behind. I've found a latex slip with a dildo built-in directly. The thing holds by hitself like a pair of undies and is very confortable for Her [see it here (the page is in Portuguese): www.erosfarma.pt (main page) or here http://www.erosfarma.pt/product_info.php?cPath=20_69&products_id=5751 (direct link; click on image to zoom)] and there are 3 diferent models with 1 external dildo, 1+1 (external+anal) and 1+2 (external+anal+vaginal). With the proper amount of lube (yes, I'm in training..) the thing slides almost by itself. The size of the thing in not colossal (16cm long by 4-5cm wide; don't know the measures in imperial scale) and it's soft to touch but firme and solid in penetration.

But here comes the fun part: when my Girl and I bought the thingy, we've also bougth a set of Love Balls (hope everybody knows what I'm talking about), so when She gets me from behind She inserts the Love Balls inside Her and rams me down. The moving spheres inside gets Her part of fisical pleasure and Her beautiful cock deep inside my ass gives provides mine. With only 3 try-outs (in a wild weekend!) both of us are extremely happy with our buy.

Look this up, it might interest you, dear Mistresses.

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RE: choice of a strap on - 8/3/2006 2:36:44 AM

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I was very lucky to have met a submissive male who loved leather and did leather work on the side. I have a custom fit harness that sit very nicely so that when I am deep in I can do a slow grind and enjoy myself a great deal.

I would like to try the feldoe but not for pentration but for oral training.. just the image is quite a turn on for me.

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RE: choice of a strap on - 8/3/2006 6:43:54 AM

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ORIGINAL: MistressElena

I am seeking to enrich my collection of strap ons and seeking advice, recommendations..... Thanks to all of you ;-)
Elena

I've got several harnesses, all from Stormy Leather. They have both leather and nylon selections. I do generally only choose harnesses that I can change the rings out in, as I prefer to have a steel ring rather than the stretchy nylon/rubber ring that holds the dil secure.

As for phalluses, I work only with silicone, as I am latex allergic. Mine are from either Vixen Creations or Tantus. Silicone holds heat nicely, is non-porous and therefore, very cleanable (boiled or top-rack safe), but...they are a bit more expensive than their latex or vinyl counterparts.

Blowfish (www.blowfish.com), Good Vibrations (www.goodvibes.com), Toys in Babeland (www.babeland.com) and Come as You Are Boutique (www.comeasyouare.com) all great women-centric places to purchase strappies from.

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RE: choice of a strap on - 8/3/2006 7:04:57 AM

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I find the vac u lok preferable. Not only can you use any dildo by reaming a hole in the center to fit the harness, but i also insert a tube thru the center and attach hypo at the end filled with porn studio fake cum.(facial anyone) ?

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RE: choice of a strap on - 8/3/2006 7:35:25 AM

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ORIGINAL: Sylverdawn
I would like to try the feldoe but not for pentration but for oral training.. just the image is quite a turn on for me.

We found that performing oral sex on the feeldoe while inserted, passes on a pleasureable feeling to the wearer. it moves and grinds it as you go.

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RE: choice of a strap on - 8/3/2006 8:32:14 AM

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I really like the dvice harness and funky dildos... they are a but expensive but defibatly worth a look.

http://www.dvice.co.nz/products/strap+on+harness/jockey/1066.php

is one of them. although mibe is better, and all leather:)

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RE: choice of a strap on - 8/3/2006 4:37:11 PM

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I also love my squirting strapon had lots of fun squirting subs in the face.

http://www.docjohnson.com/products2.aspx?cat=3 page 30

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RE: choice of a strap on - 8/3/2006 4:48:15 PM

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You have seen many pics of me working a strapon in a male subs ass

If anyone wants to see more? Just send me a message here on Collarme.

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RE: choice of a strap on - 8/4/2006 9:31:27 AM

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anyone wish to share there home made formulas for making cum ? I found mixing egg whites with lite cream and sugar

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