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RE: The Eating Habits of Dominant Females - 4/20/2011 9:22:08 PM

LadyRian

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Daily eating habits-
Breakfast: Coffee and potato chips. Bag opened by me. Usually ingested around 11:00 am, or something like that. If I eat at all, that is. Usually I'm too busy to bother.

Lunch: Hopefully there are some cold cuts left in the fridge. If not, some sort of take away curry. Picked up by me. Unless I'm too busy to bother.

Dinner: Leftover curry, or call for pizza, or some local restaurant which is a member of the local food delivery business we have around here. Unless I had lunch, and there are some leftovers from that. Thinking about having to cook causes me to get too busy to bother.

This is not healthy.

Why? I dislike cooking. I'm not good at it, and to me it's a chore. My sub is long distance. :( Not as far away as my last one, but far enough so we aren't able to get together as often as we both would like. When we're together, he does the cooking. And it's a lot more edible than anything I would make.

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RE: The Eating Habits of Dominant Females - 4/20/2011 11:15:04 PM

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Its always refreshing to see BDSM stereotypes kaboomed. Why in the world would BDSM control the kitchen? Hail to the triumph of individual personalities.

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RE: The Eating Habits of Dominant Females - 4/20/2011 11:48:08 PM

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The best thing I make for dinner?
reservations.

Ditto!
I'm not a morning person. If I'm up, someone makes me breakfast, or just brings me coffee.
Most of the time, my sisters, or my mom do the cooking, and they call me to come over.
I can cook a few things well, but I probably don't cook more than 6 times/year; usually happens when I'm having people over, and they like something in particular that I make.

In my D/s relationships, the menz have done the cooking. I wouldn't rule out someone who didn't know how to cook, but if definitely is something I'd apreciate in a man. M

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RE: The Eating Habits of Dominant Females - 4/21/2011 6:17:40 AM

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I'm kind of a food obsessive. I was brought up cooking - I could do a three course meal for large numbers age eight, without really breaking a sweat. For me, cooking's exploratory; I've got a handful of dishes I can make on autopilot, but nothing else gets made the same way twice (which really frustrates my mum, because it means I can't give her consistent recipes).

I like being cooked for occasionally, but it's not a must.

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Why in the world would BDSM control the kitchen?

Nobody's saying it would; you've missed a joke.

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RE: The Eating Habits of Dominant Females - 4/21/2011 7:52:29 AM

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The sort of weirdo that thinks a great weekend is one where I get to spend some uninterupted time in the kitchen experimenting. I rarely follow a recipe exactly. Or do so once, then start tweaking it. I love finding ways to cook really healthy foods, from good ingredients, and make it taste fantastic.

Me too!

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RE: The Eating Habits of Dominant Females - 4/21/2011 8:21:39 AM

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this thread is a drag. I was hoping to see how much food you guys consumed in a day.

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RE: The Eating Habits of Dominant Females - 4/21/2011 8:25:24 AM

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RE: The Eating Habits of Dominant Females - 4/21/2011 8:35:31 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyRian

Daily eating habits-
Breakfast: Coffee and potato chips. Bag opened by me. Usually ingested around 11:00 am, or something like that. If I eat at all, that is. Usually I'm too busy to bother.

Lunch: Hopefully there are some cold cuts left in the fridge. If not, some sort of take away curry. Picked up by me. Unless I'm too busy to bother.

Dinner: Leftover curry, or call for pizza, or some local restaurant which is a member of the local food delivery business we have around here. Unless I had lunch, and there are some leftovers from that. Thinking about having to cook causes me to get too busy to bother.

This is not healthy.

Why? I dislike cooking. I'm not good at it, and to me it's a chore. My sub is long distance. :( Not as far away as my last one, but far enough so we aren't able to get together as often as we both would like. When we're together, he does the cooking. And it's a lot more edible than anything I would make.

Hello Rian -
I'm not a great cook either. I have a few dishes that I can make and make well, but meh. I can't find the ingredients I want/like, I'd rather spend time doing something else, it bores me.

But I found a way to eat really healthy and still not really cook.

I eat a lot of fresh foods - I buy a ready made chicken and cut it up into pieces. I buy fresh fruits and veggies and wash adn cut them. I often eat them without cooking them. A big hunk of cheese and an apple makes a great breakfast. Some yogurt, a handful of nuts, some fresh or frozen berries, and I've got a wonderful snack before bed. (I'm on a kick of blending them these days). When I was eating bread, I would go to the bakery and get an amazing, beautiful loaf and have a hunk with some olive or sesame oil, some roasted peppers (from a jar) and a bit of cold, ready made ham / chicken / a boiled egg and a dish of grape tomatoes and bread and butter pickles.

I'm told this is a fairly European way to eat. I don't know about that. I just know it's yummy AND easy! I try to cook and freeze stuff, but I really have to be motivated to do that! Some chick peas and olive oil can be tossed in a blender and made into your own hummus - great with carrot or other vegetable slices!

I also like to get a can of tuna (albacore), drain it, throw a little brown mustard on it, and then wrap a spoonful of it in a piece of lettuce and pop the whole thing in my mouth.

It's all very healthy and simple. It has amazed me how easily I can eat healthy when I put my mind to it (which I don't always do if I'm honest). It doesn't have to be cooked to be yummy, it doesn't have to be a big process to be lovely.

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RE: The Eating Habits of Dominant Females - 4/21/2011 9:26:00 PM

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I am a total foodie but I don't enjoy cooking. I'm good at it, but I look for the grill, or things I can do in one pan. We eat out a lot, because we're tired, and everyone has some digestive issue.

Always in the house: good bread, good cheese, fruits, albacore tuna, olives, the typical Dagonian fare. Bacon.

We're not breakfast eaters, toast, coffee, fruit, or some sugary thing are what I can gag down. One big meal a day, and a snacky thing, sometimes lunch as well.

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RE: The Eating Habits of Dominant Females - 4/21/2011 10:07:07 PM

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse
I am sure that anyone that has read my writing here for any length of time knows my love of cooking and food. I am the sort of weirdo that will watch Bourdain eating a soup that makes him orgasmic in Vietnam and start Googling, cruising recipes based upon the description given, madly scribbling, printing stuff out....the wander the grocery stores for ingredients. The sort of weirdo that thinks a great weekend is one where I get to spend some uninterupted time in the kitchen experimenting.

I have a sister who gets very excited about cooking. All of my sisters LOVE cooking, and are great at it... That gene skipped right over me.

My specialty is finding clothing that compliments one's figure, so they call me when they need a great dress. I love dressing men, and women.
But enough sidetracking the thread from moi. M

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RE: The Eating Habits of Dominant Females - 4/22/2011 2:22:47 AM

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I am the sort of weirdo that will watch Bourdain eating a soup that makes him orgasmic in Vietnam and start Googling,

Sadist! You knew i'd salivate.

Food is a major deal breaker with me. When a person reveals that they eat like crap i'm thinking quietly to myself, there's no way in hell this individual can possibly manage my intake. It's one of my pet peeves and it makes me very skittish. i definitely need a positive example in that aspect. It's one area where the double standard won't work.

PS. i think that hour should be extended. :)

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RE: The Eating Habits of Dominant Females - 4/22/2011 5:50:52 AM

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I want calorie intake, ladies!

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RE: The Eating Habits of Dominant Females - 4/22/2011 6:22:23 AM

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ORIGINAL: porcelaine

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I am the sort of weirdo that will watch Bourdain eating a soup that makes him orgasmic in Vietnam and start Googling,

Sadist! You knew i'd salivate.

Food is a major deal breaker with me. When a person reveals that they eat like crap i'm thinking quietly to myself, there's no way in hell this individual can possibly manage my intake. It's one of my pet peeves and it makes me very skittish. i definitely need a positive example in that aspect. It's one area where the double standard won't work.

PS. i think that hour should be extended. :)

Namaste,

~porcelaine

I agree!

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RE: The Eating Habits of Dominant Females - 4/22/2011 6:52:52 AM

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RE: The Eating Habits of Dominant Females - 4/22/2011 10:24:32 AM

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ORIGINAL: OttersSwim

Or..."What'cha mean you can't cook!?"

And so...you are a Dominant Female...share with us, if you will, what your daily eating pattern might be like, and who prepares and serves it to you. From morning beverage to late-night snack, where is your food coming from?

We all know that female socialization has for centuries had a lot to do with preparing and serving food to others - and to a fairly large extent, it still does. What was your experience growing up around food and cooking, how did you view it, and has that view changed?

Given that you are the Dominant person in your dynamic, what impact does this have on your activities in the kitchen, and your desires around cooking and serving food?

And finally, do you find it important that anyone who might serve you have some skills around cooking and serving food?

Submissives/slaves...your input is welcome here as well. :)

Oh I cook. You better believe it! I'm too cheap to eat out every day, and I enjoy the challenge of cooking the stuff I like to eat. I can make some things I hate, that other people like too. What's more homey than a home cooked meal, alone or with friends?

I don't care if a slave/sub can cook. If they can't I can teach them. If they're unteachable, I wouldn't want to eat it anyway. I'm not fussy about serving, maybe I'd be if I had a live in slave but I don't at the moment. I serve myself, and usually company, from the stove to avoid extra dishes but if I'm having an 'important' meal it can be served from the table.

Breakfast: Bacon, eggs, waffles, pancakes, hashbrowns. All the different varieties of that. Though I often eat only one, or leftovers.

Snack: Home made chocolate chip cookies or muffins, store bought lemon pie (which I can also make but not the merginue)cheese and crackers (cut myself not in the kraft pack), granola bars (store or home made) etc.

Lunch: Soups, tea biscuits, dinner type items, stir frys, burritos, etc.

Snack: (see above, or if I'm out probably a chocolate bar or nice slice of chocolate cake somewhere!)

Dinner: Tuna helper (scratch or box) bacon carbonnera, lobster tails with rice and vegetables, steak and potatoes, marinated pork or chicken, lasagna, chicken alfredo, meat pies (home made), meatloaf (home made), beef stroganoff, stews of various sorts, crab chowder, the list goes on for a bit.

Snack: Nice bowl of mint chocolate chip ice cream (I can make ice cream too, but usually don't), couple of cookies, granola bar, depends on my mood.

" What was your experience growing up around food and cooking, how did you view it, and has that view changed?"

Hated it. Weighed 92 pounds when I left home. Discovered food actually COULD taste good if prepared properly. My mother's cooking. . .three main categories; so bland it needs a salt crust, overcooked to loss of form (potatoes, spaghaggi, etc), or meat so dry it cuts like fine cardboard.

Food. . .it's better with flavour!
What a stereotype that dominant women can't cook. :-) What better control than being the one who decides exactly what's going into what you are eating? ;-)

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RE: The Eating Habits of Dominant Females - 4/22/2011 12:34:04 PM

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Calorie intake?? F that!! If I want to eat it, I eat it!! Steak, omelettes, pancakes, baked potatoes, steak and potato omeletess covered in cheese with pancakes on the side! CHEEEEESE OMG. I adore cheese.

I totally fail at "favorite food" questions. Pizza with roasted red peppers and gorgonzola? Rare steak with sauce bearnaise? Chicken pot pie? Seared ahi with capers and lemon butter?

Don't get me started on cake and doughnuts. And dairy related desserts.
At this point, I must say again how grateful I am to be a 21st century American with a good job!

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RE: The Eating Habits of Dominant Females - 4/22/2011 1:03:14 PM

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I have lived on milk... with coffee for medical purposes and rarely ate more than a nibble of something for years. Then we figured out what was wrong and now I am exploring food again. I get the wrong thing or I eat too much because I really do want to eat and I suffer and am afraid to eat again. Too much would be something that could fit into the palm of my hand, which is small. lol

So far I can have rice cakes, plain rice, chicken, turkey, fish, some red meat once in a while, salad and I just found a dressing/woot!, most veggies and fruits. Once a day and am working on trying to get something a little more often. I miss cooking! I miss the flavorings, seasoning and gooey stuff that added life to food and I do miss chocolate once in a while. No fat, no sugar, no seasonings... sob, sob... And so far we haven't found any place I can eat out. I want to try Red Lobster though... I might stand a chance with something on their menu. lol

No longer can someone cook for me... they might do something like use an item that has touched something I cannot have. However... they can still serve me milk and coffee.

I will cook for them, but they have to do the taste testing.

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RE: The Eating Habits of Dominant Females - 4/22/2011 1:18:46 PM

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I agree!

i think you're utilizing subliminal programming on me. Just a hunch! And here's a Bourdain idea. He did a special where he visited a certain French restaurant in Napa Valley with the demi god of food! The meal was heavenly and a certain person adores the lollipops. He raved over them as did his dining companions. If you made those...

Did i mention my love of all things French? *grins*

Namaste,

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RE: The Eating Habits of Dominant Females - 4/22/2011 1:19:16 PM

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I do the bulk of the cooking... she often prepares coffee -- more often than not, she sets it up for the morning as I'm first up and need coffee instantly. I won't get her up or have her conform to my schedule -- doesn't work for me.

My father did all the cooking when I was growing up, and we had someone who served it, for the most part -- and so my growing up was a bit different from the norm.

I like it when she cleans up, but I won't "save" a mess for her, so to speak -- like today, she'll be home at 7pm -- my Easter cooking mess is still in the kitchen and I have other things to do so I'll clean up.

I like that someone I am with knows how to serve food, but I don't care too much to be served much more than cofee...

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ORIGINAL: OttersSwim

Or..."What'cha mean you can't cook!?"

And so...you are a Dominant Female...share with us, if you will, what your daily eating pattern might be like, and who prepares and serves it to you. From morning beverage to late-night snack, where is your food coming from?

We all know that female socialization has for centuries had a lot to do with preparing and serving food to others - and to a fairly large extent, it still does. What was your experience growing up around food and cooking, how did you view it, and has that view changed?

Given that you are the Dominant person in your dynamic, what impact does this have on your activities in the kitchen, and your desires around cooking and serving food?

And finally, do you find it important that anyone who might serve you have some skills around cooking and serving food?

Submissives/slaves...your input is welcome here as well. :)

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RE: The Eating Habits of Dominant Females - 4/22/2011 3:55:51 PM

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I don't have a domestic bone in my body, so my husband/boytoy is the only one in the kitchen (and grocery store), which is a great mix for us. He loves to cook anyway.

I eat 5 small meals a day of a specific mix and they are all prepared by him. It's awesome for metabolism and long workdays. It's hard to maintain when traveling or eating out, but I highly recommend it for people who want to try a different way of doing things. When I travel or am on vacation it pretty much goes out the window and I eat whatever I want, but my metabolism can handle it for a few days without getting too thrown off.

Lots of poultry, fish, light on the carbs, a small steak now and then. I'm a picky eater but can eat the same things without much complaint so in some ways his job is pretty easy, but having lots of meals in one day keeps him busy.

Akasha

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