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twicehappy -> RE: taking the next step (5/10/2006 4:50:06 AM)
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ORIGINAL: CrappyDom
If you haven't lived with a dominant in some sort of D/s relationship, trying to start with something extreme is doomed to failure. Yes there are 17 people here who pulled it off and are living happily ever after, but most of those relationships are a year or two old.
There are also quite a few of us who have done this and had it result in relationships that lasted for 15 to 20 years or longer. My previous one was 18 years and only ended as he passed away.
That being duly noted i do think you need to slow down and try this for a day or two at a time only because you are just now testing the waters. But if you are brave and bold (ok, i admit i have always lived balls to the wall, but it is not for everybody) and decide to go ahead with it; please have a backup plan!!!!! Cover yourself, have enough money to leave if you need to and a place to go lined up.
You may meet the love/loves of your life, i did, or you may need to run for your life.
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