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aromanholiday -> RE: Racism and the 'black bull' (5/1/2011 7:48:30 AM)
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ORIGINAL: tj444
So if a white guy wants to feel inferior then the bull has to be someone that symbolizes a guy that is bigger down there.
When I came across cuckolding erotica or porn online it was almost always presented from the weak male partner's perspective, in other words, it was a "guy fetish." What you said above, about inferiority, was precisely the locus of desire from the husband's or boyfriend's perspective: he was a submissive man who relished/desired being made to feel inferior and humiliated by his lack of access to "his" woman. This is at the core of a lot of humiliation fantasies: the acts make you lesser, not as human as other people. The most passionate male cucks I've known were not dominant and would not have enjoyed the fantasy if it had resulted in the woman feeling frightened, defiled, or raped. The more enjoyment she got from the act, the more humiliated/hot they felt because it signified their own inability to please her except by "miserably" watching her get her brains fucked out by superior male specimens. And if she started to talk to her husband about how much hotter the bull was and how much better a fuck he was, and how his rubbing his tiny little thing as he watched reminded her of a little dog trying to hump her leg, it would probably send the submissive over the edge.
When a woman has these fantasies (with herself as as the one being fucked in front of her mate), they often include rape and forced breeding and lots of suffering on the woman's side. I've written a story or two along those lines. Some dominant men have these fantasies as well, they view their ability to give their submissive to another man of their choosing (and often not a man she would choose), to be like offering another man a cigar. It's a form of sadistic control the brings home to the woman how little choice she has over anything, including who uses her body.
In some cuck fantasies, the husband is a short, skinny wimpy professional and the "bull" is a huge well-muscled blue-collar caucasian. He's crude, direct, and not very polite or differential: the opposite of the way the husband acts toward his wife--and the wife loves that. So it's not always about race, but there does have to be a strong contrast between the men that reinforces the cuckold's sense of inferiority.
Finally, while it's not common, some submissive women have cuck fantasies similar in feel to those of the submissive man's. We may imagine our master goes out one night, leaving us locked in a cage, and returns home with a gorgeous young dish he picked up at a club. Then he proceeds to give her a most wonderful screwing while the slave watches sadly from the bars of her cage, longing to be be the woman who is being fucked, feeling her inferiority, and perhaps being turned on by the fact that she's not "good enough" for him. (If a sadistic dominant man were having this fantasy, the submissive would probably not be turned on the least but instead very distressed by her rejection and his preference for a more beautiful woman.) The situation can be made more intense, much as it often is in the male cuck's fantasy, by the dominant praising the woman he is screwing, describing how much more sexier and attractive she is than the ugly lump in the cage who is only good for housework. Afterwards, if he's in a generous mood, the master may let her out of the cage so that she can clean them both up, then she's locked back inside, as the lovers fall asleep in each others' arms. It might be prolonged: in the morning the slave may have to serve them breakfast in bed, then get locked away while they shower together, have a morning screw, and then go out and enjoy a very expensive and fun date. Perhaps the slave is let out of her cage to clean up after them. Perhaps she'll hear all about the wonderful time he had with the babe later that day, and who knows, the woman may be back for a second evening of erotic fun. If the beautiful woman is also smart, it makes it even harder on the slave, as it strips from her another area where she can protect herself by feeling personally superior to the "dumb bimbo fuck."
The common denominator in all of these variations of the cuckold fantasy seems to me to be cruelty and degradation and the pleasures these bring those who are wired to appreciate them. Race/ethnicity is a tool that can be used to increase the intensity of such emotions, particularly if the one being cuckolded has a racial attitude, but it doesn't have to be present. Given the fact that it does appear in so many of these fantasies, it suggests a lot of people have racial attitudes!
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