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imyourmasternow -> Virgin and power (4/29/2011 5:18:08 PM)
Alright, so I've been curious about something for a little now. I've been dom for as long as i can remember. I've been naturally dom since the beginning. and I always love ways to have some power over the sub. Ive never had a virgin but this is something ive really been thinking about lately. People always put so much emphisis on virginity. And that girls will never forget the man they lose it too. And from what it sounds like is that the person that the girl loses it to will have a power over her no one else will ever have ever. So I really have been interested in finding a virgin. But i know that many girls dont want to let people know that they are virgins because i know many guys dont like them. I just love the idea of getting a girl as young as possible, and with zero experience and training her to be my ultimate slave and whose only purpose is to serve me, and thats all she has ever known. So i was just wondering if anybody out there is like that, or if they know someone like that. i know this is on the extreme end of things but thats what i love. the extreme end of this stuff. Plus there is more info on my profile. pm me if this is you.

Palliata -> RE: Virgin and power (4/29/2011 5:22:08 PM)
Ok so here's where I'm fuzzy. Why do you capitalize "I" half the time, but not the other? It begins a sentence at one point and remains uncapitalized, as if you were making some sort of philosophical statement about capitalizing the beginning of sentences, or else you think that two capitals cancel each other out. Do you think that? Please don't think that.

imyourmasternow -> RE: Virgin and power (4/29/2011 5:29:23 PM)
No. I was just in a hurry. I'm actually a writer but I just didn't have time to go back and check my work. I'm in between doing other stuff now. That's why. Don't think about it to much. It's the message, not the grammer that is important.

Ninjaroo -> RE: Virgin and power (4/29/2011 5:35:04 PM)
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coookie -> RE: Virgin and power (4/29/2011 5:37:25 PM)
lol hate to burst your bubble but most people that i know speak poorly of the first. My first has no "special power" over me. The first time is rarely special with fireworks blah blah. Now perhaps my first love as i will always have a lovely spot in my heart for him though it is more like the childhood bf you had. I think that you are reading too many romance novels. Oh and just fyi, the youngest girl you could get here in Canada legally is 17 as there is a 5 year max rule with anyone under the age of 18. I am unsure how it works in cali though you may want to familiarize yourself with the law. i really need to stop reading under his account .. sorry

Lucylastic -> RE: Virgin and power (4/29/2011 5:44:31 PM)
TO the OP, now why would you want to do that to a perfectly innocent woman? BTW no, its not extreme, its actually all too common, heading to wards illegal, but you sound jaded and not thinking enough already with the big head But hey thats just my 2cents

littlewonder -> RE: Virgin and power (4/29/2011 5:49:42 PM)
I'm going to assume you're awfully young.....

NocturnalStalker -> RE: Virgin and power (4/29/2011 5:52:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: coookie lol hate to burst your bubble but most people that i know speak poorly of the first. My first has no "special power" over me. The first time is rarely special with fireworks blah blah. Now perhaps my first love as i will always have a lovely spot in my heart for him though it is more like the childhood bf you had. I think that you are reading too many romance novels. Oh and just fyi, the youngest girl you could get here in Canada legally is 17 as there is a 5 year max rule with anyone under the age of 18. I am unsure how it works in cali though you may want to familiarize yourself with the law. i really need to stop reading under his account .. sorry This is true. Virgins are clingy and use you as a future story for other guys to buy into and feel sorry for.

juliaoceania -> RE: Virgin and power (4/29/2011 6:02:59 PM)
Believe it or not, being there first won't necessarily make it a lasting impression, nor will it insure you a place in her heart... on the other hand, being there last will mean you will be on their mind for the rest of their life...

DesFIP -> RE: Virgin and power (4/29/2011 6:10:42 PM)
My first was a manipulative creep. The only power he held over me was that for some years the thought of him made me nauseous. Is that what you're looking for? Beyond that, a very young girl with no life experience can't be trained to be your lifelong slave. After a few years she will resent you for not allowing her to flower at her own rate, to come to decisions about what she does and doesn't want on her own. To be sure that she is living the very best life for her. I will say that men who seek immature, inexperienced girls do so because they are insecure and fear that a woman who has known other men will see through their facade. You would do better to spend time working on yourself and becoming someone who can actually inspire submission in another.

Delilya -> RE: Virgin and power (4/29/2011 6:13:11 PM)
Yes, grammar and spelling do count. If I were a young virgin, I would wonder how you could train me, when you don't even have a command of spell check. In what other areas would you be sloppy and believe that it didn't matter? How would you train me when you have no self discipline?

ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Virgin and power (4/29/2011 6:19:58 PM)
. . .but, but, he's been dom for a loooooooong time (he's 22 years old).

Lucylastic -> RE: Virgin and power (4/29/2011 6:21:31 PM)
that will teach me not to check out profiles first!

sheisreeds -> RE: Virgin and power (4/29/2011 6:25:12 PM)
My first was a one night stand, he had no idea, I have to think hard to remember his last name though we were friends for a year. I was kinda hoping for more though really didn't care too much. He really liked me, but I heard his girlfriend was the kind that would stab either one of us if she knew. The next and last time I saw him 3 months later I was with my first dominant boyfriend they had broken up and my first looked quite uncomfortable. Man he had so much power and control. Unless you're in a cheesy movie directed towards 13 year old girls, or are super religious the v word is just a word dude. It's like 2011. PS and if you're going for 13 year old girls you got a whole other problem.

SailingBum -> RE: Virgin and power (4/29/2011 6:30:40 PM)
Hell Im still a virgin drop me a line BadOne

Missokyst -> RE: Virgin and power (4/29/2011 6:33:12 PM)
This is funny timing! I just had a post up on my yahoo group about the effect the first had on my life. There is an actor that looks a lot like he does and I could not watch CSI last night because of it. What effect did the first have on me? The sight of him or anyone similar makes me feel like cowering in a corner or running from the room. Was that the effect you are going for?

Selectivelight -> RE: Virgin and power (4/29/2011 6:39:35 PM)
I've got to be honest. I've always wanted a virgin. Even if only for her first time. (Though I really am not the kind for one-night stands.) I would make it the single most memorable evening of her life. Home cooked Italian, a bed covered in rose petals, candle-lit bubble bath, an hour's worth of massage (Quite talented and educated massage, mind. I'm no amateur.), and cuddling, and kissing, and ... and romancing. I honestly don't care much about the sex. [Ah hell, I guess I should edit to say: Of course it's going to be good. With as much practice as I get it had damn well better be!] I just want a chance to be a woman's memorable, cherished first. Not some one night stand where the chick doesn't even remember the guy's name. Not a memory as a manipulative creep. I think that's where I start sounding absolutely crazy though. Though my partners are sitting next to me, laughing at me and saying things like "Crazy and wonderful." and "I can't believe you wonder what we see in you." So maybe crazy isn't so bad.

Kalista07 -> RE: Virgin and power (4/29/2011 6:53:23 PM)
I think the thing the OP is missing here is HE is most of what the typical majority of us have experienced here as our first times... Creepy, icky, hot soapy shower producing rememberances!! Kali

imyourmasternow -> RE: Virgin and power (4/29/2011 6:53:59 PM)
yeah, i do want to point out i am not looking for anyone that is a child or whatever. that is disgusting.

BurntKitty -> RE: Virgin and power (4/29/2011 6:55:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt . . .but, but, he's been dom for a loooooooong time (he's 22 years old). I lust you. OP, my first was a coworker at a fast food joint. He had "no power over me". He was a 25 yr old living in his mom's home and I was 18 about to move out on my own. Tell me, who had the "power"? Did we continue? Hell no, I wasn't interested in a guy using me for a financial gain.

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