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leakylee -> RE: who has had bad experiences as a slave here? (5/16/2006 10:58:50 AM)

So many times it seems that the negative expierences can derivie from both parties, in terms of a relationship. Whether it is lack of communication, lack of honesty, failed dynamics, if one honestly sits back in retrospect, true fault can never be laid on one partner or the other. At least not in my experience. Harsh treatment on the other hand, is just that. It is wrong no matter what the situation. But anything else, I have just chosen to learn from the mistakes. smile pruddy and go on.. hehe..

love and light
lee



Phoenixandnika -> RE: who has had bad experiences as a slave here? (5/16/2006 11:10:43 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SirMise

I have read positive experiences and know it happens, but there is no "bad experience" place to post.
I would believe that for every positive experienc that there is one or two bad ones as well. Am I wrong?
I think it would be rather enlightning to know and to warn others as well.
Peace, me



Post about your positive experiences with meeting other Collarme.com members IN PERSON ONLY. If this is the "postive experience board " you refer to in your post that is there in my opinion to support CM. To show that people from this site do meet and have postive outcomes from meeting in r/t.
 
As far as not having a "bad experience board" Your right there is not technical board for people to post bad experiences though they are posted on just about every forum within CM. I think the reason there isn't a forum labeled "bad experinces" is it would open the door to flame wars and deragatory remarks about other CM users in my opinion and that is something typically is frowned upon.
 
I don't know about your ratio of good vs bad experiences, though I chalk that up to personal perception. In the end our lives are not all good or bad so yes people will have experiences they label both.
 
However, I would ask this if you learn something about life, your choices, or yourself that helps you grow is it truly a bad experience or a learning experience?
 
Blessed Be,
Phoenix's Nika



spectreandnectre -> RE: who has had bad experiences as a slave here? (5/26/2006 8:36:07 AM)

my only bad experience stems from not communicating, where both of U/us quite talking about everyday things and things got pretty bad it took U/us quite awhile to overcome these things and are finally getting O/our shit together.  W/we talk quite regularly and take time for O/ourselves too.



DominantCPL -> RE: who has had bad experiences as a slave here? (5/27/2006 4:11:22 AM)

Everyone here has had bad experieces at one time or another.  The thing is we all learn from thoes mistakes and move on we remain positive and dont dwell on he past.  No 2 or 3 or 4 people are going to get along all the time even in everyday life.  We all learn something new everyday, and learn for it.  So take the good with  the bad and move on youll be glad you did.



Divinesub -> RE: who has had bad experiences as a slave here? (5/28/2006 10:57:58 AM)

HMMMM . . . . . I don't know, would finding out that your "Master" was on the DL and then have him threaten your life if you ever told anyone about it count?  If so then, I have had a bad experience in this life - but now that I am working with all of the facts, I know that he wasn't really a Master, he was just using the life to have multiple sex partners and to hide the fact that he is bi-sexual (which is silly to me because there are plenty of bi-sexual and gay Masters in the community).



DesertRat -> RE: who has had bad experiences as a slave here? (5/30/2006 9:45:14 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SirMise

I have read positive experiences and know it happens, but there is no "bad experience" place to post.
I would believe that for every positive experienc that there is one or two bad ones as well. Am I wrong?
I think it would be rather enlightning to know and to warn others as well.
Peace, me


You're not making sense, Kevin. When there were threads warning others of your sleazy behavior as Fastlane, you took very strong exception to that. And now you think it's a good idea?

I know two girls who have been stalked and harrassed by you, one quite recently. One has received multiple obscene phone calls. Those are just the ones I know of! Since you're one of the major perps of bad experiences, why would you (in either of your identities) want a forum devoted to them?

Bob



Lashra -> RE: who has had bad experiences as a slave here? (5/30/2006 9:53:41 AM)

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ORIGINAL: fastlane

Bad Boys Bad Boys whats you gonna do, whats you gonna do when they come for you......................Kevin!

Tie them up and spank them. If they are still bad, I'll get the cane. That usually turns them into good boys[;)]

~Lashra



Lashra -> RE: who has had bad experiences as a slave here? (5/30/2006 9:59:13 AM)

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ORIGINAL: ravn

well, not truly sure, this girl was in training with her first Master at the time..does having Your skull cracked for back-talk count?

be well
ravn

Yeah Id chalk that up as a bad experience

~Lashra



KatyLied -> RE: who has had bad experiences as a slave here? (5/30/2006 11:05:30 AM)

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And now you think it's a good idea?


Isn't it ironic, don't ya think?

(Unfortunately I replied seriously to this thread before I realized who the op was, and it's too late to edit out my reply)



sylphgossamer -> RE: who has had bad experiences as a slave here? (5/30/2006 1:08:39 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DesertRat
quote:

ORIGINAL: SirMise

I have read positive experiences and know it happens, but there is no "bad experience" place to post.
I would believe that for every positive experienc that there is one or two bad ones as well. Am I wrong?
I think it would be rather enlightning to know and to warn others as well.
Peace, me


You're not making sense, Kevin. When there were threads warning others of your sleazy behavior as Fastlane, you took very strong exception to that. And now you think it's a good idea?

I know two girls who have been stalked and harrassed by you, one quite recently. One has received multiple obscene phone calls. Those are just the ones I know of! Since you're one of the major perps of bad experiences, why would you (in either of your identities) want a forum devoted to them?

Bob


sounds like some boys never learn, especially when it comes to leaving things alone or keeping their mouth/fingers shut. sirmise/fastlane appears to be in this category, eh?

of course, he is the one who is alone now, isn't he? i've heard the girls involved are now both in very committed caring relationships. seems the good move on.



DesertRat -> RE: who has had bad experiences as a slave here? (5/30/2006 6:48:52 PM)

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ORIGINAL: sylphgossamer
sounds like some boys never learn, especially when it comes to leaving things alone or keeping their mouth/fingers shut. sirmise/fastlane appears to be in this category, eh?

of course, he is the one who is alone now, isn't he? i've heard the girls involved are now both in very committed caring relationships. seems the good move on.

 
Right you are sylphette! I know for a fact (intimate personal knowledge) that one of those girls is blissfully tethered in a very loving relationship, and that she is adored by her present Dom. So, yes, the good move on to better things.

Bob



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