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What do you feel? - 5/5/2011 4:48:02 PM   
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Hi

When I submit, it takes my mind away from thoughts of work, money, bills, mortgage blah blah etc... I feel like a vessel, or an object, being used, my thoughts and focus are on what I have to do for the Domme and nothing else matters, it kind of puts me at peace. Do other subs feel the same or is it something different?

Also if you are a Dominant person, what is it that you feel? What do you get from dominating someone? I can't imagine it. Is it similar?
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RE: What do you feel? - 5/5/2011 5:19:46 PM   
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Mostly power,
That words can be translated into 100 meaning, let your mind do its work
Right now, I do not feel anything.
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RE: What do you feel? - 5/5/2011 5:34:18 PM   
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quote:

Do other subs feel the same or is it something different?

Different

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RE: What do you feel? - 5/5/2011 5:38:21 PM   
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When I dominate an inferior lifeform I get hard. 

Duh.


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RE: What do you feel? - 5/5/2011 5:40:33 PM   
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quote:

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When I dominate an inferior lifeform I get hard. 

Duh.


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RE: What do you feel? - 5/5/2011 5:51:39 PM   
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oh the thrill of control,
like the blitzkrieg on the roll,
is the sweetest taste i've known, oh yah.
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RE: What do you feel? - 5/5/2011 5:55:35 PM   
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It depends on what i am submitting to. When i submit to his physically sadistic side i feel pain and often i amaze myself how far i am able to go. When i submit to being his cleaning slave i feel irritation lol because i hate cleaning. When i submit submit sexually i lose myself in the sensations. There are more feelings and more opportunities of submitting but you get the idea.

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RE: What do you feel? - 5/5/2011 6:43:44 PM   
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Since the majority of my submission revolves around keeping the house, paying the bills on time, and working, submission doesn't take my mind off those things.  But it does often bring me a sense of peace.

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RE: What do you feel? - 5/5/2011 8:08:01 PM   
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depends on what he requires of me that day, our moods, etc....some days I wonder what the hell did I get myself into, other days I'm at peace, some days I'm not sure what to think and most days it's just life.

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RE: What do you feel? - 5/5/2011 8:26:07 PM   
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It really depends on the circumstances.  Sometimes, when scrubbing the bathroom, I think "This is a drag, I'd rather be kicking back," but I also feel good about what I'm doing, whether he notices or not, because I like to know he comes home to a clean house and never has to think about taking care of it.

Sometimes when I have a lot to do on a given day, I feel rushed.

When I'm cooking for him, I feel happy, because I love to cook for him.  Except when the whole family sometimes thinks they need to do XYZ in the kitchen when I'm cooking up a storm in there, then I have to hold back a little frustration.

When I'm just sitting at his feet watching TV with him (this is actually a service to him), I feel relaxed and happy to be near him.

When I'm massaging him, sometimes I feel tired, since he tends to want this at the end of the day when I'm sleepy.

When I'm submitting to his sexual/sadistic whims, I'm pretty swept away in bliss.  Or sometimes a little scared.


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RE: What do you feel? - 5/5/2011 9:46:01 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: BrilliantMind

Hi

When I submit, it takes my mind away from thoughts of work, money, bills, mortgage blah blah etc... I feel like a vessel, or an object, being used, my thoughts and focus are on what I have to do for the Domme and nothing else matters, it kind of puts me at peace. Do other subs feel the same or is it something different?


When I make dinner I tend to focus on not burning anything.  It doesn't make me feel used or a vessel.  It's just something that needs done and I do because serving is part of what I do. 

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RE: What do you feel? - 5/5/2011 10:40:55 PM   
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How do I feel? It all depends on what I'm doing at that point in time. Really.

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RE: What do you feel? - 5/6/2011 12:44:50 AM   
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No.

For me, the mask of civility drops away, there's a heightening of focus and and an intense awareness of my responsibility for her well-being.

It's also hot as fuck.


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RE: What do you feel? - 5/6/2011 4:20:04 AM   
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When I bottom, if it goes just right, I stop thinking and just feel the sensations. But submission just means letting him take the lead. So even though I had no great desire to run into town last night, I found my shoes and purse and went.

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RE: What do you feel? - 5/6/2011 4:21:13 AM   
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It's a thrill, a rush of adrenaline. I get flush with power, a little in love with myself for being able to inspire submission in another human being. More than anything else, though, I become acutely aware of the bond of trust which has formed between us, the instantaneous and reckless connection so rare to find in vanilla life which D/s somehow facilitates despite my often having known the person for a matter of hours. It's all but a spiritual or religious experience in many ways, which is odd since I am neither remotely religious nor remotely spiritual.


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RE: What do you feel? - 5/6/2011 4:47:51 AM   
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I just want to do everything I can think of to please my Love.... but then, I do have to obey,
And obeying without questioning is sooooo far from normal to me. *lol*
But my Love knows, for him I surrender.

And then will do what is required.

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ORIGINAL: MaxsBoy

Since the majority of my submission revolves around keeping the house, paying the bills on time, and working, submission doesn't take my mind off those things.  But it does often bring me a sense of peace.


Oh please, do come over :) I'll have more peace for you over here


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RE: What do you feel? - 5/6/2011 5:16:27 AM   
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while i definitely find a welcome level of peace and a renewal of my own energy as a result of my submission, i also find that i am hyper focused on all of the sounds, smells, and sensations around me. Like being alive on a higher level.

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RE: What do you feel? - 5/6/2011 5:29:37 AM   
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ORIGINAL: lisub4one

while i definitely find a welcome level of peace and a renewal of my own energy as a result of my submission, i also find that i am hyper focused on all of the sounds, smells, and sensations around me. Like being alive on a higher level.


Sorry, I ment no offence, just a little fun


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RE: What do you feel? - 5/6/2011 5:30:57 AM   
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I dunno what she feels throughout, but at the end(chortles) she feels like she has a dick in her ass....cuz she does!

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RE: What do you feel? - 5/6/2011 7:42:24 AM   
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ORIGINAL: BrilliantMind
Also if you are a Dominant person, what is it that you feel? What do you get from dominating someone? I can't imagine it. Is it similar?
I don't feel much really. I dominate Carol because it's practical. Ownership is a different thing in our house and that does generate feelings but they're hard to describe -- good, primal, "all is right in the world". Your phrase "at peace" isn't too far off how owning Carol makes me feel.

Carol feels very different from you regarding submission. Mostly I think it annoys her although she likes the end result of pleasing me.


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