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RE: Orgasms - 5/11/2006 4:35:46 PM

MasterBenedict

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Hey there, picsess!
All I can say is...
BRAVA!!

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RE: Orgasms - 5/11/2006 5:05:01 PM

KittenWithaTwist

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I usually don't experience orgasms when I play. Even during sexual play, it's rare for me to orgasm. It took a long time for me to realize that it really isn't that important to me or to my partner whether I orgasm or not. As long as we're enjoying ourselves, that's really all that either of us need to be happy.

Like you said though, my partner does enjoy it when I orgasm, so sometimes he'll pay particular attention to my spots and force me into one of those screaming, crying "yup I definitely had one" type of things.

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RE: Orgasms - 5/12/2006 6:43:44 AM

becca333

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Worry? I have lists of things to worry about. I worry at Olympic level.

And ....I want him to be happy and having a great time, not getting fussed about things that aren't serious.

Can you see the irony in the fact that you're doing what YOU want to do (not make it all about you) in order to make YOU feel ok (because you feel awkward getting attention and pressure put on you) by not giving him information or being fully communicative?

You might be couching it by wanting to just let him do what he wants (and I believe you mean that) but ultimately you are serving only yourself and YOUR desires by choosing to withhold information and not giving "the truth, the WHOLE truth, and nothing but the truth."