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RE: Kidnapping into sex slavery - 5/9/2011 3:06:17 PM

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to the op...A good roll of tp carrys more legal weight then a slave contract,The mail I receive every day requesting such a situation is huge.I don't have the time for this fetish 24-7 but have had some lovely young sluts for a weekend..Bounty

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RE: Kidnapping into sex slavery - 5/9/2011 3:08:27 PM

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lol.. i was thinking the same thing, Bounty.

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RE: Kidnapping into sex slavery - 5/9/2011 3:11:52 PM

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Forgive me... what's "tp"?

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RE: Kidnapping into sex slavery - 5/9/2011 3:12:58 PM

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curses, Thought you'd say that ;-)

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RE: Kidnapping into sex slavery - 5/9/2011 3:14:43 PM

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OP: Every female who reads your fantasy is thinking

"Wouldn't it just be easier to have a goldfish?"

You don't escape from life into fantasy. You only get to escape once, at the end...and depending on your belief system, even that may culminate in a reckoning...

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RE: Kidnapping into sex slavery - 5/9/2011 3:15:29 PM

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Goes to show ya,Great minds think alike smile..Bounty

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RE: Kidnapping into sex slavery - 5/9/2011 3:19:57 PM

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Not to beat up on the guy,There are case of actual kidnap in our ls every years, and the word consensual rape kidnapper thing is role play while the people that are actual kidnapped against there will are still in slavery.We should speak out and be watchful in our communitys...Bounty

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RE: Kidnapping into sex slavery - 5/9/2011 3:23:46 PM

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ORIGINAL: missiveman
But I'd like to get kidnapped by a Domme who's heterosexual, and not into threesomes. I think that's reasonable.

You and about a million others. Are you familiar with the term "do me queen?"

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RE: Kidnapping into sex slavery - 5/9/2011 3:26:25 PM

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TP =testicle play?
Hey Missiveman welcome to the boards, I would not say you are unnattractive or to old, so dont let that bring you down, what I see is a little short sightedness on the reality scale.
Your fantasy is fine, with one big caveat, forced sex slavery gets to be reallly hard to do on a day to day basis after the blossom has gone. it certainly is not never ending forced smothering or face sitting or denial or chastity every day.
While I love all that fun stuff, you have to take into account real life after a certain amount of time. for a few months yes, a year, doubtful, five years no way.Something is gonna get in your way, something is going to change, health issues, job issues, family issues.
Take those into consideration. Very very few people could keep up that kind of "play" day in and day out without getting bored, changing things around even dynamic changes. Fantasy is fantasy for a reason.
Reality bites very very often. keep your feet planted and be prepared to be yourself and more, because it will not last. disappointment is one thing, completely disregarding human nature and expectations is asking for trouble.
That said, I hope you can find what you look for eventually and be happy
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RE: Kidnapping into sex slavery - 5/9/2011 3:26:32 PM

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But Looey, in all this world ain't there a million mistresses with just that desire?

Only problem, they are not all on collarme.

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RE: Kidnapping into sex slavery - 5/9/2011 3:33:03 PM

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So let me get this straight.

You want to be kidnapped - then volunteer to stay and have a contract notarized.

You want to be forced into sexual slavery - except you don't actually want to be forced to do sexual things you don't enjoy.

You want to be dominated - into doing what you've fantasized about for years.

Honey, you don't want a Domme, you want a top for some fun sex games. And yeah, you'll probably have to pay for it. Unless the girl is really ugly. Like...really fucking ugly.

There are men younger and hotter than you willing to pay hundreds of dollars for this sort of roleplay. That's why you're not getting much response - you're looking for a sex based relationship. I mean, I wish you luck and all, but I don't think you'll have much unless you're willing to be her financial slave too.

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RE: Kidnapping into sex slavery - 5/9/2011 3:35:39 PM

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I have fantasized about this for years. My profile shows my kink in this area. However, I have been unable to get anyone seriously interested in my request. Why?
As far as legalities, that can be covered by a slave contract, even notarized, so that it is shown that this is my sincere desire. But all I get is pro dommes and women wanting me to sign up for other bondage sites.
I just want to be "forced" into sex slavery by a woman. That's all I want! Is that too much to ask?

Its hard to believe you're serious but yes its likely way too much to ask. There is legal risk and probably lots of time and expense involved in fulfilling your fantasy of being kidnapped.

If you're looking for a lifestyle Domina it might help to worry a bit less about what you want ... just a suggestion.

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RE: Kidnapping into sex slavery - 5/9/2011 3:36:38 PM

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TP= toilet paper

OP i think generally there are more people looking for partners with elements of d/s versus "real slavery" which is illegal.

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RE: Kidnapping into sex slavery - 5/9/2011 3:50:32 PM

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Thank you for the clarification

<god I am thick sometimes>

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RE: Kidnapping into sex slavery - 5/9/2011 4:02:19 PM

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I just want to be "forced" into sex slavery by a woman. That's all I want! Is that too much to ask?

Let me put it to you in a different way that might make it more clear why you're not getting a lot of takers.

Let's just say that you decided to try out your fantasy of being a male Dom. Suppose a female sub/slave came to you and said that she wanted you to "force" her to quit her job and to stay at home all day and shop, watch soap operas, and eat ice cream. She also wanted you to "force" her to use your credit card to do all of her shopping. But as part of her "forced" servitude, she set hard limits on cooking, cleaning, or doing anything that might actually be beneficial to you. Would you be enthusiastic about owning that "slave"?

Sounds pretty silly, doesn't it? Yet, that's essentially what you're doing. You have a fantasy that's all about you, and that offers little to nothing for the Domme. Yet you seem perplexed about why there isn't a long line of women waiting to take you up on your amazing offer.

Trust me, women can get sex any time they want to. So forced sex with you is sort of a booby prize.

Instead of offering a fantasy that is solely based on your desires, why not offer them something that they might actually enjoy?

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RE: Kidnapping into sex slavery - 5/9/2011 4:07:22 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: missiveman
I just want to be "forced" into sex slavery by a woman.

quote:

ORIGINAL: missiveman
You're not supposed to push someone past their hard limits.

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ORIGINAL: missiveman
As far as legalities, that can be covered by a slave contract, even notarized, so that it is shown that this is my sincere desire.

LOL this is funny. Where to begin?

Dude, chicks don't work that way, sorry. And contracts don't mean anything. Force isn't very forceful if it's always gonna be just what you want. Drop the word 'slavery'. you're looking for a kinky girlfriend who is aggressive in bed and doesn't let you cum, I'm guessing.

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RE: Kidnapping into sex slavery - 5/9/2011 5:25:32 PM

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I actually know someone who paid to be kidnapped for the weekend and be used as a slave. He paid in advance. He's still waiting and it's been 4 years. He can't complain to the cops. It is illegal to sign away your rights and no matter what you say, getting beat on is illegal. He got so very whiny and told everyone how he got taken. He's no longer welcome at play parties and munches.

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RE: Kidnapping into sex slavery - 5/9/2011 8:47:31 PM

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My point is that there just have to be a few women dominants who want to kidnap and enslave a man. I'm just trying to find one, that's all.

Yeah, but I like young, hot, pretty boys with long hair who hit the gym AND who are smart and geeky and really fun to be in the same room with. You're not ugly, but you look kind of like Mr. Rogers. And that's not my ideal of a fantasy sex slave.

Grow the hair, hit the gym, sculpt a six-pack, get contact lenses and upgrade the wardrobe. It'll help.

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RE: Kidnapping into sex slavery - 5/9/2011 8:53:00 PM

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I seek total and complete domination by a female dominatrix.

I need to be kidnapped, tortured, spanked mercilessly, and then forced to have sex with her.

This is my only wish, my dream, my destiny.

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I just want to be "forced" into sex slavery by a woman. That's all I want! Is that too much to ask?

Criminy, listen to yourself! I, I, I, me, me, me. However...it's not too much to ask if you're willing to whip out your high-limit credit card. Just pay for it and get it over with so the enlightened ones can get back to their regularly scheduled programming.

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I've thought about going to some munches to see if I can get anyone interested in it, so that they can see that I'm really serious about this. Maybe I'll do just that.

Go in there with an agenda like that and you will be banned. Munches are generally light-hearted social events where people get acquainted as people, not kinks. They ARE NOT opportunities to present do-me petitions.

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But I'd like to get kidnapped by a Domme who's heterosexual, and not into threesomes. I think that's reasonable

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Yeppers, quite reasonable to make that request while negotiating scene and price. Cha-ching!!!! That'll be an extra $300 to keep another boy out of it for the weekend.

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My point is that there just have to be a few women dominants who want to kidnap and enslave a man. I'm just trying to find one, that's all.

Still no light coming on here...

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I have a lot to offer, so maybe I should change to profile to list my POSITIVE points, like my interests and what I'm really good at, and just MENTION the kinks. Do you think that would work better?

Ahhh, finally a glimmer of hope for you. That is the ONLY way you will get it to work without paying a professional. And if I were you, I WOULDN'T EVEN MENTION your kinky laundry list in your profile AT ALL. The time to discuss that is AFTER you've connected with a woman as a person first, and AFTER you've taken her wants and needs to heart (that means mostly VANILLA, cupcake) and AFTER she has invited you to express yours. That's the way it works if you're not paying. The end.

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RE: Kidnapping into sex slavery - 5/9/2011 11:59:53 PM

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Bro,

What you want isn't unrealistic. But the quickest way to get it is going to be to pay for it.

My advice is to mix in the "and I'm fucking paying for this shit to happen to me" vibe into your fetish... make it part of the humiliation/control..

Good luck man.

I'm sorry, what part of it is realistic?

What I'm getting from the OP is that he wants to be a full-time, for-the-rest-of-his-life sex slave. No outside contact - he even states that the prospective mistress could restrict him "like no email, so I can't send for help." There are a number of reasons that this won't work.

1 - someone, somewhere, will notice that he's gone missing ... now, they may or may not care, but they WILL notice and may file a report. Even someone with no family or friends still has contact with people who will say "hey, where did so-and-so go?" after awhile.

2 - no contact with the outside world will make him quite the bore in short order. Not to mention that the only way to truly prevent ALL contact with the outside world is to keep him in a locked cell with no windows 24/7 (no phone, no internet, no windows, etc.) Who wants to deal with that hassle, or with the lack of interesting conversation that results from understimulation?

3 - When someone outside does find out, the dominant in question (as I said before) has now opened herself to the potential for blackmail (if the person who finds out is so inclined) or legal action, because no matter what the OP says, it's illegal and he doesn't have to be the one to file a complaint for charges to be brought. Even if he tried to stop it, they would bring in psychological experts who would testify that he was suffering from Stockholm Syndrome and his testimony would be basically worthless.

4 - He's already admitted that he is only interested in one thing (with some serious restrictions in place on it) ... he adds that he has other things to offer as an afterthought - and that's all it ever would be. No relationship that wasn't exactly as he wants it would work. I would venture to guess that about 95% of the guys who come on here wanting this type of fantasy are the same ... "I want this, I want that, I want now - and oh yeah, up-size the fries" I'm sorry, but for a real relationship to work out long-term, there has to be something more to it.

5 - even if he were (insert favorite hot male super-star here), being a full-time, nothing else sex slave wouldn't work. Sometimes, she won't want sex; sometimes, he won't be able to perform for some reason or another; people get sick; people get old - what then?

For short-term, yeah, fine ... role play can be fun - although I still stand by my statement that none of the women who have replied to him so far would be remotely interested. For long-term? no - sorry ... completely unrealistic.

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