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RE: Kidnapping into sex slavery - 5/14/2011 2:17:36 PM

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I have a checkered past, having abuse that was prevailant, but thanks to hypnosis I am able to deal with it quite well. Not every hypnotist or hypnotic suggestion is there to 'screw you up'. Sadly, like most things, people do not do any homework or investigation and simply jump first and ask questions later.

But maybe it is even more responsible to not recommend something where you don't really know how it is going to affect somebody else, what you do with your own psyche is your thing, but to sell hypnosis as the holy grail is plainly irresponsible, each person reacts differently, it helped you and more power to you, luck of the draw, it could have gone the other way as well. I find it a bit strange that you consider the option of him paying for the fantasy as "dangerous" - I mean really??? What do you think will happen? They will really keep him as a prisoner forever because that's really easy and simple? Oh yeah and because there aren't enough guys around who would volunteer for that... Calling earth, calling earth... It sounds a lot less dangerous than letting somebody mess with your memories and suggest that things happened to you that never happened...

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RE: Kidnapping into sex slavery - 5/14/2011 3:33:33 PM

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ORIGINAL: cloudboy
It might be easier to just get married.

No no...that would be kidnapping into sexless slavery.

So...*awkward pause* ...I uh...wanted to clarify that I was not talking about MY marriage! Not in any way!

My previous marriage was marked by a 10+ year hiatus in sexual relations which my now Lady Wife has done everything in Her considerable power to correct! A situation for which I am very grateful!

And so it was an expression of humor only, not a reflection of my situation!

Otter should be careful of what he types...She is reading!

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RE: Kidnapping into sex slavery - 5/14/2011 3:39:15 PM

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So...*awkward pause* ...I uh...wanted to clarify that I was not talking about MY marriage! Not in any way!

I wondered when you were going to fix that obvious faux pas.

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RE: Kidnapping into sex slavery - 5/14/2011 4:53:22 PM

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You're starting to get there, but you still have it backwards. You're saying "This is what I can offer IF I get what I want." Try "This is what I have to offer. Let's see if we're compatible. If so, I'd like to talk about a kidnapping kink I have."

Lead with yourself, NOT with your fetish. You'd be amazed what women will do for you, if they genuinely like you and have a relationship with you. Much more than they'd do for a random stranger with a fetish.

Great advice, and very true. I've dated doms who were barely allowed to get a toe over the line from vanilla because I didn't love them, and then there's my beloved, who beats me and restrains me and chokes me and makes me love it.

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RE: Kidnapping into sex slavery - 5/14/2011 5:44:01 PM

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Otter should be careful of what he types...She is reading!

LMAO Otter... you should know this by now

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