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RE: explain Race Play from your point of veiw - 5/12/2011 7:41:14 AM

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And I can understand that. Frankly, I'd be much more likely to be willing to participate in a fantasy you have about being raped by a black gangster if you first established that role-play was a part of our relationship. So if I had already pretended to be a pirate, an elf, and Zorro for you, then I would be much more open to playing a plantation slave or a gangster.

Whoa there. Who said I would be the one getting raped? You can be as gangsta as you like, homey. I'm still badder than you and you gonna be MY bitch.

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What offends me is when someone doesn't have the imagination to think of any other roles for me to play. The only ideas they can think of are for me to be a gangster, a plantation slave, or an NBA player.

Mundanes are so boring.

The fact is, people have sexual fantasies, and those fantasies tend to be about types of people rather than about actual individuals that they know. If you look like you would be easy to typecast in their fantasies, then that's what may well happen. I don't see any issues with indulging sexual fantasies. The key issue is confusing the fantasy with the real human being you're playing with, or making the fantasy more important than the human being who is doing it for you.

Your issue of being fetishized because you are black is essentially the same issue that femdoms face in being fetishized because we have breasts and a vagina. It is No Fun to be seen as nothing but a big black cock, on the same level as it is No Fun to be seen as nothing but tits with a whip. And people who treat other human beings as cardboard cut-out stereotypes rather than as real people with thoughts, feelings, ambitions, desires, needs, etc, are quite annoyingly shallow. Filter and avoid.

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RE: explain Race Play from your point of veiw - 5/12/2011 8:57:24 AM

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What offends me is when someone doesn't have the imagination to think of any other roles for me to play. The only ideas they can think of are for me to be a gangster, a plantation slave, or an NBA player.

Well, a little corrective surgury and you'd make a fine smurf.

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RE: explain Race Play from your point of veiw - 5/12/2011 10:09:08 AM

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Oh man, I've had this fantasy about the Blue Man Group.....

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RE: explain Race Play from your point of veiw - 5/12/2011 6:45:49 PM

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What offends me is when someone doesn't have the imagination to think of any other roles for me to play. The only ideas they can think of are for me to be a gangster, a plantation slave, or an NBA player.

Well, a little corrective surgury and you'd make a fine smurf.

Can I be Smurfette? She was always my favorite smurf.

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RE: explain Race Play from your point of veiw - 5/12/2011 11:54:46 PM

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i will admit to the occasional fantasy about a big, strong black man molesting the heck out of me, but not so much race play as just sometimes liking to be with other races. i'm native american. i rarely date non-native men. i have the same fantasy about a latino man though rarely white guys as well.. they're more common where i'm from so it's not as.. exotic. And i've been with black guys, i know they are not all huge in the penis department. I've dated men of practically all races, but i think it's the desire for the exotic difference in skin color that gives me that craving. i'm pale at the moment for being native, i know that, but i've had guys of various races enjoy me because to them, i was the exotic one. When it's just for sex temporarily or someone you know... it doesn't seem like that big of a deal. i have to admit, though, i have had on other dating sites, more black guys than white guys respond to me, i think in part because of my overall size. I'm not even 5'5" with heels on. Plus i'm heavier and it seems from my experience that more black guys enjoy a heavier woman than other races do.

As far as race play goes, though... i think it would be fun once in a while as a fantasy play with someone you knew and trusted than actually picking some random guy off the street and saying hey, you wanna make me your bitch tonight? or something along those lines. I don't what i would say for that, i really don't tend to hit on guys.

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RE: explain Race Play from your point of veiw - 5/12/2011 11:55:59 PM

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What offends me is when someone doesn't have the imagination to think of any other roles for me to play. The only ideas they can think of are for me to be a gangster, a plantation slave, or an NBA player.

Well, a little corrective surgury and you'd make a fine smurf.

Can I be Smurfette? She was always my favorite smurf.

i wanted to be smurfette ~pouts~

well maybe i can be smurfette's red sister lol

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