MissAsylum -> RE: The Pampered Black Queen (5/26/2011 4:32:01 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Charles6682 What you Ladies say about not wanting a guy only for your skin tone is something I do understand.I guess for me I do have a preference for darker skin women.However,I feel conflicted because of this.I don't only want to be with a girl because she is darker skinned than I am.I want that girl to know that I want to be with her because of who she is.I don't want her to think I could easily just replace her with another black girl or so on.I try to find that healthy balance. Yes, it is all about a healthy balance. For example, when it comes to dating, I tend to prefer either men with a Hispanic background of sorts, or Caucasian, specifically Jewish. This is just due to the fact the majority of the men I have dated in my life happened to be Hispanic (my boyfriend now is African-American and Hispanic) or the latter because I was raised in a Caucasian, jewish community. Its a learned preference, but it has not and will not reduce my willingness to date men from other races, because I have. I have to say, my problem is when some men approach me, it strikes me as black women are their "thing", and not a preference.
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