LadyPact
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TRJ, I don't think your post is going to be mistaken with trolling. People have a chance to get to know you and it's not like you pulled this one out of your bum. Might still need that flame retardant suit, though. I'm going to try to make this part a little easier on you. I could very easily be one of the folks that creeps you out. I'm sure from time to time, you get to read different experiences that I've wrote on different threads. Depending on how I've phrased something, it may sound like there's more to it than what I've written. I don't always remember to add a disclaimer, as in when I say I play with people. Sometimes, I'll remember to add the "meaning S/m play, not physical sex" part. Other times, I just get sick of saying it and I figure most of the forum regulars know I've said it before anyway. It gets redundant after a while having to repeat the same thing over and over on every discussion. Another thing that happens is that I might say something that sounds like it's wilder than what it is. Within the last week, I mentioned something about folks seeing Me naked. That was a story from a party that was a while back and we had access to a pool and a hot tub. It wasn't an orgy, but there's a great "this isn't the neighborhood for orgy noises after 10:00 PM" story that's funny as hell. Now, let's talk about actual sex. I'm poly. I have an active sex life with two people. I'm married to one and the other is collared to Me, which will be four years in November. We have what a lot of folks call a closed poly fidelity relationship. There really isn't the random fucking going on that some people might think there is. Do I have a right to do it as a Dominant in the dynamic with clip? Yes, I do. Do I have a right to do it in My agreements with My husband? No, I don't. How that latter part is laid out is rather entailed. I'll make an apology to you for not explaining all of the specifics. I've done that quite a lot in the past couple of weeks and not allowing the disruption that's happened on other threads will probably allow your discussion here to be better off. If you're curious, I'll invite you (meaning to OP or other people that I converse with regularly - this is not an open invitation for the world to ask Me about My sex life) to write Me on the other side and I'll address what I can.
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The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie. Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread
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