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Instrument of choice for punishment - 5/14/2011 10:46:43 PM

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The crop, whip,leather, and wooden paddle have been used on me for play and punishment. The wooden paddle gave me the most pain after a lot of hits. I have not experienced the cane. What instrument gave the sub/slave the most pain?

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RE: Instrument of choice for punishment - 5/14/2011 11:44:55 PM

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As a slave, I can say that the most pain given to me was by the clothes pins. Maybe it's because I don't have enough tolerance to it, but clothes pins to the nipples are hard for me. He times how long I need to have them on for, and it always leaves me in tears.

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RE: Instrument of choice for punishment - 5/14/2011 11:46:51 PM

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I don't interchange the words punishment and pain.

If you want to know the toy that clip hates the most, it's the ugly stick. (Some folks on the boards have met that particular toy.) I don't necessarily use it to punish him. Instead, it's more the toy that I pull out when I just want him to submit to pain that he doesn't like. It's a different rush for Me when I know he's taking that kind of pain purely because I want him to do so.

I don't use corporal for punishment. There may be some physical aspects to it, such as him having to remain in a kneeling position for longer than is comfortable while I am determining the best way to handle the transgression. If an area has gotten past all other forms of corrective action, I punish based on the offense with a method that is related to it specifically. Without there being a link to what the problem is, it's not effective.

As to what actually hurt the most, if asking about an isolated incident, I'd have to say it was either his brand or his cutting. If about a scene in it's entirety, I'd have to go with the night we captured the resulting bruises, welts, etc and labeled the photo album "another quality job by LP".

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RE: Instrument of choice for punishment - 5/14/2011 11:53:16 PM

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I use my voice. It says things like, "I'm disappointed in you., I expected better, You have failed, etc..."
Meanest thing I know-I have a tongue sharper than a hedge clipper

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RE: Instrument of choice for punishment - 5/14/2011 11:55:43 PM

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I was going to say "The Brain" but Kana kinda beat me to it.

By the way Kana,

Where are you again? Only I have these hedges..,.,

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RE: Instrument of choice for punishment - 5/15/2011 12:40:06 AM

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The worst punishment came from taking my books away for a week. It was awful!!!

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RE: Instrument of choice for punishment - 5/15/2011 7:00:34 AM

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quote:

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I was going to say "The Brain" but Kana kinda beat me to it.

By the way Kana,

Where are you again? Only I have these hedges..,.,

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RE: Instrument of choice for punishment - 5/15/2011 7:04:15 AM

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Just knowing he's not happy with me.

It tears me apart from the inside out.

A physical punishment is done and over with.

Knowing he's not happy with me lasts.

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RE: Instrument of choice for punishment - 5/15/2011 9:05:42 AM

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I do not believe in corporal punishment -- on either side of the kneel. Using physical punishment is *to me* far too close to being abusive. I did not hit or get violent with my children when they needed correction, I certainly would not chose that path with an adult. I have rarely ever punished, or been punished. I am not interested in any dynamic where I had to constantly rebel or had a sub who did. To me, that's just not a good fit.

The rare times I have punished, it was mental in some way and fit the "crime."

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RE: Instrument of choice for punishment - 5/17/2011 6:24:03 AM

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Because I like to leave a mark, I'd use a reversed cat toy that makes a welt.

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RE: Instrument of choice for punishment - 5/17/2011 6:56:09 AM

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Nothing can be as hurtful as my disappointment, displeasure and unhappiness. I wouldn't use it as punishment, but it sure wouldn't make his day.

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RE: Instrument of choice for punishment - 5/17/2011 12:18:32 PM

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I think what you are really asking isn't about actual punishment, but rather just what "tool" is the most painful. It depends where on me its being used, but over all I hate the cane the most, especially on my pussy.

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RE: Instrument of choice for punishment - 5/17/2011 5:57:01 PM

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Worst object for punishment...a dime. Standing there against a corner having to face the consequences of what he had done was worse suffering than any strike I could have inflicted.

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RE: Instrument of choice for punishment - 5/17/2011 6:13:09 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: falccon

The crop, whip,leather, and wooden paddle have been used on me for play and punishment. The wooden paddle gave me the most pain after a lot of hits. I have not experienced the cane. What instrument gave the sub/slave the most pain?

Heavy white nylon cane, or a swedish crop......pain wise.

The disappointment thing would be wasted on me because if he knows me, why on earth would he be disappointed with what he's got?

We don't play in that playground at all.

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RE: Instrument of choice for punishment - 5/17/2011 9:47:02 PM

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everyone has their own likes/dislikes about what pain is worst for them...
for me, it was a large paddle with holes in it....landing on top of the cane welts. Yup. Felt that for a good while. I love paddles...but not *that* one.

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RE: Instrument of choice for punishment - 5/19/2011 5:19:56 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: falccon

The crop, whip,leather, and wooden paddle have been used on me for play and punishment. The wooden paddle gave me the most pain after a lot of hits. I have not experienced the cane. What instrument gave the sub/slave the most pain?

I have extensive experience with a cane, but for some reason I always found heavy wooden paddles the most painful. Things like this do vary a lot from person to person.

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Original: LadyPact
If you want to know the toy that clip hates the most, it's the ugly stick. (Some folks on the boards have met that particular toy.) I don't necessarily use it to punish him. Instead, it's more the toy that I pull out when I just want him to submit to pain that he doesn't like.

Strange, I've seen his avatar pic and he doesn't look like he's been hit with an ugly stick.

(sorry, couldn't resist)

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