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RE: Arrogance - 5/16/2011 6:29:07 AM

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So here's a tangential question.
Do folks think that one needs to be arrogant to be a Dom/ Domme?

Personally, I think a little arrogance is required, if for nothing else, to possess the chutzpah to own another human being and be certain that you can run their life well.

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RE: Arrogance - 5/16/2011 6:30:43 AM

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Kana.. a little arrogance is good, IMO, as long as it is tempered by self-awareness and humor (and the ability to not take oneself too seriously).

I hope that made sense?

ETA: I hope you are well, life is good, and that the Kitteh is being kind to you ;) )

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RE: Arrogance - 5/16/2011 6:33:26 AM

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Are you sure the "23 years" is not a typo? The World Wide Web was not available to the public until 1992.......

I saw that as a humorous exaggeration. :) I am prone to those, myself.

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RE: Arrogance - 5/16/2011 6:37:35 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

Kana.. a little arrogance is good, IMO, as long as it is tempered by self-awareness and humor (and the ability to not take oneself too seriously).

I hope that made sense?

ETA: I hope you are well, life is good, and that the Kitteh is being kind to you ;) )

It did, and pretty much fits in line w/my thinking.
I wanted to try and pull a decent thread from the question.

Meanwhile, on a side note...
I'm currently fostering 2 kittens, a 3 week old and a 5 week old. They are soooooooooooooo cute (Though the lilone just peed on me when I was feeding her. I was holding her tight giving her the bottle thinking, "Man, he's warm, just throwing off heat today." when I suddenly felt the liquid soak through. Ewwwwwwwwwwww).

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RE: Arrogance - 5/16/2011 6:40:43 AM

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LMAO!!! PICS!! must see pics of the babies!!

Yeah, I think this COULD morph into a decent thread...

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RE: Arrogance - 5/16/2011 6:43:02 AM

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I often times, but not always, see calling someone else arrogant, as a reflection of the insecurity of the one doing the calling.

Not sure what the hell that means when I call myself, half in jest, an arrogant bitch. The way I feel when I think I am being arrogant is self assured and annoyed frustrated with others that just are not 'getting it'.

Seriously, if others want to see my self confidence as arrogance, I am totally cool with it. It was often hard won.

This...

It is not an accusation I hear much in the real world, but I have heard it a time or two on CM, usually from people who strongly disagree with my opinions, or "dominant" men that feel insecure

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RE: Arrogance - 5/16/2011 6:45:10 AM

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quote:

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Are you sure the "23 years" is not a typo? The World Wide Web was not available to the public until 1992.......

I saw that as a humorous exaggeration. :) I am prone to those, myself.

I havent looked at his profile myself, but based on what others have said, he apparently also claims 23 yrs in his profile, as well.... at least thats what I am seeing from prior posts..

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RE: Arrogance - 5/16/2011 6:46:54 AM

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I probably should skip answering this - I wouldn't want to come across as even more arrogant than I already do.

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RE: Arrogance - 5/16/2011 6:50:01 AM

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Pdx.. love your sig line..

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RE: Arrogance - 5/16/2011 6:53:41 AM

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I probably should skip answering this - I wouldn't want to come across as even more arrogant than I already do.

Nahhhhh, let your inner arrogance shine.
Me, I'm arrogant...but I try to mix it with compassion and reality.

GT-check your mail on the other side in 5 for pix

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RE: Arrogance - 5/16/2011 7:04:10 AM

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got it and replied...

Arrogance has such a fine line between being attractive (which, IMO, Kana has mastered -pun not intended), and being, well, just arrogantly arrogant.

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RE: Arrogance - 5/16/2011 7:10:06 AM

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RE: Arrogance - 5/16/2011 7:10:31 AM

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Greedy, I think I would label it different - confidence is the attractive thing, arrogance is the ugly one

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RE: Arrogance - 5/16/2011 7:12:58 AM

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LadyC.. thats another very fine line, IMO.

When I first moved to FL, there was a guy I knew who managed to balance on the microscopic line between arrogance and self confidence.

However, I also realize that the determination of which is which is also VERY subjective....

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RE: Arrogance - 5/16/2011 7:19:17 AM

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Its threads like this that make me work so hard to be intensely modest. Its not easy, let me tell you! I have so much I could be justifiably arrogant about that being so perfectly modest requires a lot of work.

And of course, as many here have posted, there is a fine line between one woman's strutting peacock and another's dream date.

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RE: Arrogance - 5/16/2011 7:20:57 AM

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MIchael! How are you?>

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RE: Arrogance - 5/16/2011 7:26:50 AM

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Thank you GreedyTop. That's been my favorite quote for years.

Kana,
Seriously? Let it shine?
Ok, I totally admit to being arrogant. I have been called cocky, arrogant, overly confident and an asshole and what's it gotten me? Laid - a lot!
Women love confident (alpha) males. They swarm to the cocky, bad-boy, types. Why? Because we are arrogant. Because they love the confidence.

Men, for the most part, chase after the cool, confident, female the same way. Who wants to be around a simpering whiny little bitch? Not me.
And anyone that thinks submissives aren't confident are delusional so let's not go there.

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RE: Arrogance - 5/16/2011 7:28:04 AM

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I am pretty fucking fantastic actually. Discovered that I like chains this weekend.

Here's a tip for anyone who likes knives too, take a smaller 1/2 chain, long one, put it in the fridge, slide the short end up under her ass, and then slowly drag the links, one by one, up through her cunt, the links act as knots and she can feel the pop of each one as it slips over her clit, then when you have slowly pulled it taught and she is about to cum, pull out that knife, the long one that terrifies her, and with the chain lifted just a bit over her body so it is taught against her clit, slide the blade of the knife down the links. The sight of the blade, sharp and lethal will send her to the edge and the rapid vibration of the chain against her clit will drive her mad with lust.

Been a VERY long time since anyone inspired me to create new fetishes, it takes a truly amazing woman to do that.

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RE: Arrogance - 5/16/2011 7:31:15 AM

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damn you, MIchael..

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RE: Arrogance - 5/16/2011 7:33:56 AM

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I am pretty fucking fantastic actually.

Is it arrogance if it is truth?

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