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Just for Them.... - 5/11/2006 6:42:35 PM

slavejali

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Dont know if this has been talked about before.

How many slaves/submissives out there really get hot from just purely being an object for your Masters/Mistresses desires in play? I know that is a really really strong trigger for me. I really dont give a fuck about my own desires when it comes to play...my biggest thing is that I'm being used...thats what makes it really hot.

And for the Master/Mistresses, do any of you just simply get hot because of the ability to use your slave in whatever way you want, not really caring if they are getting anything out of it? (Ok granted to start the relationship your compatable in the beginning so you actually know they are getting something out of it...so I'm not meaning you dont care about them or anything like that.)

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RE: Just for Them.... - 5/11/2006 6:48:42 PM

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The POWER to be able to use someone for your own lust without any consideration for them can be a real turn on. It is about the POWER.

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RE: Just for Them.... - 5/11/2006 6:51:56 PM

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God yes, to feel the POWER behind the domination...nodnodnod hot hot hot.

I just LOVE that raw primal feeling.

It's very difficult when I get into these feelings...my belly actually aches and I feel this incredible energy raising up in me....

I guess this topic is about primal stuff...I'm gonna have to start intellectualising or I'm gonna get myself in a messed up state.

That's another question actually..as a submissive/slave...do you find you have to realy force yourself to change your thoughts when you get those kinda primal urges...like we cant just demand to be used...which is how I'm feeling right now....and I'm glad Master is at work because Ive got time to get myself together...how do you deal with these feelings when they arise?

Like my cycle is...when i get these really primal feelings, if they arent taken up...I will end up crying my eyes out in frustration..unless I can catch myself and redirect my thoughts...etc

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RE: Just for Them.... - 5/11/2006 7:01:17 PM

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We do very much get that feeling but long before we are with any of the Subs infact it starts when we pack the toy bag and the car but increases as the drive to who evers lace shortnes and that same rush is with us when we know they are coming this way to be out here.
Just kowing that in wich ever direction the travel is that on arrial and some rest either of us can do what we wish with out question to them and never haveing to make them the Sub get something inreturn except as you stated their pleasure at the original meeting.
Thank you also slavejali for all your well thought out posts

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RE: Just for Them.... - 5/11/2006 7:01:26 PM

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What really drives me completely out of my mind is sensing that power, that absolute control - and knowing that at that moment, i am something they want. They could have anyone, anything - and they chose me.

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RE: Just for Them.... - 5/11/2006 7:08:50 PM

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My pleasure MisDiane and SirHugh..and thanks for sharing your thoughts.

frog: yes being absolutely desired...desired enough to want to inflict incredible pain and sensation and just fucking used up completly.

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RE: Just for Them.... - 5/11/2006 7:22:55 PM

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When as a Master, and you are the Master at that point, you decide to use them. Your personality, persona and temperment changes.

The look in their eyes...they know what is coming. That look is so intoxicating. It just provokes you to a more primal state of mind.

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RE: Just for Them.... - 5/11/2006 7:34:27 PM

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This is a tough one... because if I am doing something that makes me hot to be using him in any way I desire.... then he will likely be getting a lot out of the fact that he is being used in any way I please for my pleasure. I think it's a win - win situtaion for the most part.

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RE: Just for Them.... - 5/11/2006 7:37:40 PM

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It's one of my major fantasies but it's difficult for me to follow through with to the end. I'm usually more comfortable in situations where I'm an object, rather than a sex toy, if that makes sense.

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RE: Just for Them.... - 5/11/2006 7:49:19 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: slavejali

Like my cycle is...when i get these really primal feelings, if they arent taken up...I will end up crying my eyes out in frustration..unless I can catch myself and redirect my thoughts...etc

this is me, too... and, no, you can't demand to be used- but begging is allowed, thankfully. =)

becca

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RE: Just for Them.... - 5/11/2006 7:54:02 PM

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Objectification can be a very hot thing to play out. I prefer it for limited time periods because I really like the high service level Fox can provide and he needs to be a fully functioning foxboy to do that.

There are many times when I'll just put my feet on him, tell him to offer his body so I can write on it or color on it, sometimes even just tell him to dance for no particular reason and without music just cause I want him to.

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RE: Just for Them.... - 5/11/2006 8:03:52 PM

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Yeah, I do get very hot when I'm about to be used by him. It starts when we are preparing for a scene and I see the transformation come over him. The look in his eyes that tells me I'm in for it. He normally looks at me with such love, but when he goes into what I call, "Dom mode" it's a whole different party. I love it! I crave!!

I understand about the crying too. With him away this week I'm about to go nuts! The emails and phone calls are getting more hotter with promises of what I'm in for once he returns home. I have been crying off and on all day from sheer frustration and missing his touch. I need a beating!!

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RE: Just for Them.... - 5/11/2006 8:09:00 PM

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I love being used....great turn on.....is it getting warm in here!

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RE: Just for Them.... - 5/11/2006 8:15:19 PM

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quote:

Original: becca
this is me, too... and, no, you can't demand to be used- but begging is allowed, thankfully. =)

In our household, begging isnt allowed, Master equates begging with whining :(

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RE: Just for Them.... - 5/11/2006 8:21:34 PM

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Yeah, I love being used as a footstool or a table...especially when I know that he likes it too and that, in a very short time, I'll be used in other ways as well. It's a tremendous turn on...that desire and being desired.

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RE: Just for Them.... - 5/11/2006 8:22:40 PM

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I see stuff like this as the dilemma's of a slave....the energy is so strong within you...you totally want to demand..but you can't..and so it whirls and whirls around inside of you...and you just go out and hang the washing out or something...its so fucked up in so many ways...but you live for it.....fuck

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RE: Just for Them.... - 5/11/2006 8:23:11 PM

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jali-

i have to be very careful to not be whiny about it... and, actually, i think the number one reason Master allows it is because He knows it's so freakin' HARD for me...
since i have a bit of guilt about asking for things, since it seems like- ta-dum!- whining/complaining. *sighs* i've finally, 2 years into this, gotten to where i CAN do it... i still have plenty of "if it were what pleased Him, He'd already be DOING it" moments. So i suppose i see where your Master is coming from. *sighs again* Is curling around His legs and rubbing your nekkid self all over Him as you make pleading eyes allowed?

becca

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RE: Just for Them.... - 5/11/2006 8:30:14 PM

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Nothing like a good place to set your beer after a good....

You get the idea...LOL

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RE: Just for Them.... - 5/11/2006 8:31:33 PM

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I'm totally not participating in any threads regarding pain anymore...i think thats what started it..combined with that stupid thread about "Its all about me" or whatever the hell it was....I'm so bloody furstrated...i kinda wrote this thread..cuz people ask all the time about mashochists etc...thought when I was feeling it wold be a good time to write about it....see I am thinking logically...yes I am..yes I am..

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RE: Just for Them.... - 5/11/2006 8:34:39 PM

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quote:

...do you find you have to realy force yourself to change your thoughts when you get those kinda primal urges...

Thoughts? What thoughts?

When I'm in full blown primal power space, I am most definitely not thinking.. I'm reacting to the power.

Hot.. it seems such a mild word for that particular space. ;)

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