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male vs female domestic sub - 5/17/2011 2:20:15 PM   
Daggerandpez


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RE: male vs female domestic sub - 5/17/2011 2:23:47 PM   
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RE: male vs female domestic sub - 5/17/2011 3:53:13 PM   
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RE: male vs female domestic sub - 5/17/2011 3:58:11 PM   
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Status: offline 		i think more women are looking for relationships, and not just service. males, who have more difficulty finding partners, are more interested in diversifying.
and then yeah -- there's what Arpig said.

also, men are far more likely to form an actual fetish out of an event, outfit, action, etc. women are less likely. so a man may have a very vivid fantasy of being an invisible servant for some powerful person, and that's all he needs, whereas a woman is less likely to be motivated purely by the fantasy/fetish.


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RE: male vs female domestic sub - 5/17/2011 3:58:54 PM   
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RE: male vs female domestic sub - 5/17/2011 4:09:57 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I think there are far more unrealistic bottom males that would like to pretend they are domestic s types, just so that they can weasel their way into a dominant woman's vicinity.


Bingo!

In My experience, there are actually far more females who are willing to do domestic service without the kink necessarily being involved.  Here's a little guide to go by:

1.  Do you know that the person you are looking at has *really* done this type of service or is it just promises of what they *will* do?  (I mean an actual reference of someone who has allowed them in their home that you can meet and talk with.)

2.  Does what you're reading include a butt plug, a maid's uniform, or promise of doing it naked?  (This especially applies to those who want to put on a cute outfit and prance around with a feather duster.)

3.  Do they automatically have a scenario of how you can handle the situation if they don't clean properly?  (Which makes you wonder how well they are cleaning their own house if you have to *punish* them in order to do the job right.)

4.  Are they doing it for barter?  (The clean in exchange for play.)

While there certainly are male domestics out there, the rest of them can't pass that short test above.


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RE: male vs female domestic sub - 5/17/2011 5:28:31 PM   
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Your clothes get all wet if you don't scrub naked.
and my panties will get all wet watching you scrub naked. its a viscous circle, lets just let it go round a few more times.

hannah lynn


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RE: male vs female domestic sub - 5/17/2011 5:30:33 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Daggerandpez

it seems to me that there are far more real domestic males than females...why do you think that is?


Maybe you haven't met enough people in the real world yet? Not sure. Why do you think you feel that way?


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RE: male vs female domestic sub - 5/17/2011 6:39:45 PM   
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RE: male vs female domestic sub - 5/17/2011 6:40:58 PM   
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[/quote]
Bingo!

In My experience, there are actually far more females who are willing to do domestic service without the kink necessarily being involved.  Here's a little guide to go by:

1.  Do you know that the person you are looking at has *really* done this type of service or is it just promises of what they *will* do?  (I mean an actual reference of someone who has allowed them in their home that you can meet and talk with.)

2.  Does what you're reading include a butt plug, a maid's uniform, or promise of doing it naked?  (This especially applies to those who want to put on a cute outfit and prance around with a feather duster.)

3.  Do they automatically have a scenario of how you can handle the situation if they don't clean properly?  (Which makes you wonder how well they are cleaning their own house if you have to *punish* them in order to do the job right.)

4.  Are they doing it for barter?  (The clean in exchange for play.)

While there certainly are male domestics out there, the rest of them can't pass that short test above.

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i think you are right on point...ive asked people many of those same questions

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RE: male vs female domestic sub - 5/17/2011 8:06:52 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I think there are far more unrealistic bottom males that would like to pretend they are domestic s types, just so that they can weasel their way into a dominant woman's vicinity.


Bingo!

In My experience, there are actually far more females who are willing to do domestic service without the kink necessarily being involved.  Here's a little guide to go by:

1.  Do you know that the person you are looking at has *really* done this type of service or is it just promises of what they *will* do?  (I mean an actual reference of someone who has allowed them in their home that you can meet and talk with.)

2.  Does what you're reading include a butt plug, a maid's uniform, or promise of doing it naked?  (This especially applies to those who want to put on a cute outfit and prance around with a feather duster.)

3.  Do they automatically have a scenario of how you can handle the situation if they don't clean properly?  (Which makes you wonder how well they are cleaning their own house if you have to *punish* them in order to do the job right.)

4.  Are they doing it for barter?  (The clean in exchange for play.)

While there certainly are male domestics out there, the rest of them can't pass that short test above.


Right on the mark, LadyPact!
I clean for a variety of houses--in one, there is discipline involved--but that was something that was carefully negotiated and it was something we both very much wanted to have in the dynamic. I clean for other houses (fully clothed unless they have a strong preference for another "uniform") with zero expectation of any type of play.

I've seen one or two male "dress-up maids" come and go in the Household.  You can tell in the first five minutes usually.  Servants in the House always strip down to at least boy-shorts/jockstrap, but their excitement is short-lived when, after the strip, they are directed to the sink full of dishes......  then the counters.....and floors.....

It's that priceless, shocked look of:  "OH! you mean you ACTUALLY expect me to clean your house?!"

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RE: male vs female domestic sub - 5/18/2011 2:35:52 AM   
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ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather

quote:

Your clothes get all wet if you don't scrub naked.
and my panties will get all wet watching you scrub naked. its a viscous circle, lets just let it go round a few more times.

hannah lynn



You might want to perv' the profile, in that case.

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RE: male vs female domestic sub - 5/18/2011 5:52:19 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Daggerandpez

thishereboi...ive been extremely active in the SoCal community and Daddy is a will known Male Dom in the LA community...


Then why do you feel there are far more real domestic males than females? And why did you agree with Lady Pact that there were actually more females?


< Message edited by thishereboi -- 5/18/2011 5:53:14 AM >

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RE: male vs female domestic sub - 5/18/2011 7:14:22 AM   
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RE: male vs female domestic sub - 5/18/2011 7:29:57 AM   
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You might want to perv' the profile, in that case.
yum!!


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RE: male vs female domestic sub - 5/18/2011 10:07:46 AM   
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Status: offline 		Many more women do / are expected to do the housework long before they ever get into D/s. Something like 90% of wives in the US are responsible for cleaning the toilet in their house. It's hardly going to be the subject of an exciting sexual fantasy when it's something you do all the time anyway!

I do all the domestic work in my relationship because I'm happy to accept it as a consequence of our power exchange, but it doesn't turn me on. I have to be honest and admit I don't really know why domestic service turns anyone on. But YKIOK and all that...

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RE: male vs female domestic sub - 5/18/2011 12:42:13 PM   
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Many more women do / are expected to do the housework long before they ever get into D/s. Something like 90% of wives in the US are responsible for cleaning the toilet in their house. It's hardly going to be the subject of an exciting sexual fantasy when it's something you do all the time anyway!



GREAT POINT!


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RE: male vs female domestic sub - 5/18/2011 12:44:00 PM   
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RE: male vs female domestic sub - 5/18/2011 12:49:38 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I think there are far more unrealistic bottom males that would like to pretend they are domestic s types, just so that they can weasel their way into a dominant woman's vicinity.



This.
 
Or else they want to prance about in a maid's outfit and impractical heels while they wave a feather duster around and pretend to be domestic. 

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RE: male vs female domestic sub - 5/18/2011 12:51:50 PM   
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Status: offline 		The guy in my house usually does it while wearing those drawstring pants, usually in a really weird fabric like plaid, and an old t-shirt with the sleeves cut off. Kinkyyyyyy.


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