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RE: Deal Breakers a Deal Breaker? - 5/17/2011 9:16:43 PM

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I'm not even reading the rest of this thread until everybody stops mentioning... that man.

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RE: Deal Breakers a Deal Breaker? - 5/17/2011 9:18:14 PM

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I'm not even reading the rest of this thread until everybody stops mentioning... that man.

Would that be a thread-breaker?

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RE: Deal Breakers a Deal Breaker? - 5/17/2011 9:39:46 PM

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I have to admit, the thread going in this direction is a revoltin' development, lock this fucker!

But, I wouldn't consider being a fan a hard limit, I would however, obtain leakproof headphones for you.

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RE: Deal Breakers a Deal Breaker? - 5/17/2011 9:50:57 PM

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LOL I don't actually HAVE any "he-who-shant-be-mentioned." But I do break out into spontaneous cheese-song every now and then.

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RE: Deal Breakers a Deal Breaker? - 5/17/2011 9:54:10 PM

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LOL I don't actually HAVE any "he-who-shant-be-mentioned." But I do break out into spontaneous cheese-song every now and then.

I was unaware that Barry Manilow was on par with Voldemort

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RE: Deal Breakers a Deal Breaker? - 5/17/2011 9:55:50 PM

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I had to look up who that was!

(Not a Harry Potter follower. Hmm, maybe Harry Potter is a deal breaker)

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RE: Deal Breakers a Deal Breaker? - 5/17/2011 9:59:25 PM

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Well, he is good, too good - one song and it's insideously burned into all your memory registers, you have to listen to 18 hours of Sex Pistols to get rid of it.

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RE: Deal Breakers a Deal Breaker? - 5/17/2011 10:01:38 PM

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LOL I don't actually HAVE any "he-who-shant-be-mentioned." But I do break out into spontaneous cheese-song every now and then.

I like to Escape every now & then.
That's why restraints are suggested....

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RE: Deal Breakers a Deal Breaker? - 5/17/2011 10:04:14 PM

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Well, he is good, too good - one song and it's insideously burned into all your memory registers, you have to listen to 18 hours of Sex Pistols to get rid of it.

Haha! True.

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RE: Deal Breakers a Deal Breaker? - 5/17/2011 10:05:26 PM

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I like to Escape every now & then.
That's why restraints are suggested....

Bad bad kitty.

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RE: Deal Breakers a Deal Breaker? - 5/17/2011 10:07:16 PM

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I will confess to a secret love of the Carpenters.

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RE: Deal Breakers a Deal Breaker? - 5/17/2011 10:16:48 PM

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ORIGINAL: NuevaVida

I had to look up who that was!

(Not a Harry Potter follower. Hmm, maybe Harry Potter is a deal breaker)

The call Voldemort "He who shall not be named"

And I am a major Harry Potter fan... I began reading them with my son to see what it was all about and got completely hooked

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RE: Deal Breakers a Deal Breaker? - 5/17/2011 10:18:58 PM

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I will confess to a secret love of the Carpenters.

Who can't love the Carpenters??

Wait, he who owns me doesn't love them. I learned that in the beginning, too, lol.

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RE: Deal Breakers a Deal Breaker? - 5/17/2011 10:20:04 PM

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The call Voldemort "He who shall not be named"

I learn so much on CollarMe.

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RE: Deal Breakers a Deal Breaker? - 5/17/2011 10:23:12 PM

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To get rid of Barry and others of his ilk, never mind the sex pistols, try Classical music. Blast it from the speakers in your car - this also helps to remedy those annoying fucks who insist on vibrating their surroundings with "gangsta rap"..I hate that shit.

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RE: Deal Breakers a Deal Breaker? - 5/17/2011 11:35:06 PM

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RE: Deal Breakers a Deal Breaker? - 5/17/2011 11:36:43 PM

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The call Voldemort "He who shall not be named"

And I am a major Harry Potter fan... I began reading them with my son to see what it was all about and got completely hooked

I started reading them to see if they were appropriate for my grandkids and got hooked.

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RE: Deal Breakers a Deal Breaker? - 5/17/2011 11:42:10 PM

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I've been wondering about the 'Deal Breaker' threads too and, likes been pointed out earlier - many are physical characteristics. How is that a deal breaker? That is a matter of taste not a deal breaker since you wouldn't get to the point of making any deal. Some listed earlier, you really should know prior to getting to the point of making said deal. And, if the issue is truly not known until you've entered in to such a deal - in the case of the behavior being exhibited from a slave - shouldn't the Master mitigate or teach the slave to change the behavior? However, if the behavior is from a Dom/ Master, the slave may very well have to break the deal though if it's that big of an issue and the two cared enough to follow through and enter in to such a deal - shouldn't the Master consider the slaves point of view/ feelings and consider changing or mitigating such behavior in himself?

This is all assuming there actually was a deal and isn't, as was pointed out earlier, just an overuse (and wrong) use of the word.

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RE: Deal Breakers a Deal Breaker? - 5/18/2011 12:50:45 AM

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The term is being overused and mis-used. A "deal breaker" is actually something that happens after you have made an agreement. Height cannot be a deal breaker because if you don't like someone's height you know it before you get in a relationship with them.

If they lie about their height, and you met them thinking they were a different height, then it could be a deal breaker.

However the term is commonly used to mean things we cannot tolerate. As opposed to things we must have.

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RE: Deal Breakers a Deal Breaker? - 5/18/2011 4:03:10 AM

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First time I heard this song, I cried like a baby. Heard it right after a funeral, and it just went "zing" right into my heart. Appropriately so.

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