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RE: Sex Slavery in The US: Why can't American Men Keep ... - 5/18/2011 10:52:22 PM   
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Is the average American male ever accused of doing anything good anymore?It would seem as if all American men are this evil breed of humans that are set on taking over the world.

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RE: Sex Slavery in The US: Why can't American Men Keep ... - 5/18/2011 10:53:22 PM   
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Aren't you?

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RE: Sex Slavery in The US: Why can't American Men Keep ... - 5/18/2011 10:54:05 PM   
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You should read the thread and get an idea of what spawned it.... I do not think American men are evil. I only date them after all!

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RE: Sex Slavery in The US: Why can't American Men Keep ... - 5/18/2011 10:57:17 PM   
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Not all of them are evil... ~sighs~ dammit!

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RE: Sex Slavery in The US: Why can't American Men Keep ... - 5/19/2011 7:25:10 AM   
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I can tell you it's going to go from bad to worse, it's an economic thing: desperate times make desperate people.

Indeed.

I can't say I'm convinced by the alleged economic origins though - Neanderthals ceased being desperate when they became extinct many millennia ago. Nonetheless, I can understand your sense of desperation. Many people mistakenly feel that resistance to change is natural.

The good news is that it's a malady that some concentrated informed thinking by an open mind will cure .....

I'm sure you're horribly wise, but this is still wishfull thinking - it's a statistical thing, and it's largely stress related, homes fall part, parents argue and divorce, dreams die. Test scores begin to fall and crime rates begin to rise roughly Three years after a recession sets in.

The crime rate here, in the Eighties, rose to appealing levels, the murder rate broke the previous record set during the Great Depression, kids murdered each other over basketball shoes and Leather Jackets.

Expectations of the future and a pehenomena called perception of inequality have a lot to do with it - didn't help that the Eighties were when all the rules changed, it was no longer enough to just "work hard", and we began shifting into the Two tiered economy, and you had people living on the street and egregious displays of "conspicuous consumption" side by side - it's like rubbing salt in an open wound - you will get a reaction formation. It's never wise to tease a cornered animal, if you don't give them a back way out, they'll go through you.

The young typically have the hardest time with this, they haven't experienced economic cycles, they don't think very far ahead, they mostly accept what they see immediately as reality, again, lacking the experience to put it into perspective, and they adapt to what they see.


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You’ll probably find it saves an awful lot of time if you accept that a need doesn’t equate to an entitlement in this area, and that this ‘need’ is neither paramount over the rights or humanity of others, nor mandated by biology. Whether by accident or design, that is the underlying position conveyed by your posts to me.


I don't have a position, not the way you perceive, this is just human behavior: and its predictable, but only in a rough statistical way. The incidence of homosexuality is roughly stable for instance, and has probably been stable for thousands if not millions of years, it has remained stable in spite of repeated attempts to eradicate it, of which there have been many - it's an adaptation, a relatively benign one, it serves or served some adaptive purpose, it's biology, it's not amenable to modification by social means.

Rape, I think you'll find is also a remarkabley stable statistic, across cultures, but it can go up or down depending on the attitudes of a particular culture. Psychopathy is an adaptation, and it has well known psychological and physiological triggers, i.e., it too probably has a stable incidence, but can rise and fall depending on conditions, and it's a long term problem, as it may be heritable.

Some things never change is what I'm telling you, it's part of the behavioral diversity of humans, and there's not a damn thing you can do about it, except not actively encourage it to spread, and try to channel the less desirable adaptations into more productive areas.

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RE: Sex Slavery in The US: Why can't American Men Keep ... - 5/19/2011 7:30:53 AM   
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No, you argued that women in the United States were not coerced or threatened in order to get them into it, and I showed how an extremely high percentage of them are in fact sexually abused, victims of incest, go into the life at the age of 13 or 14, are coerced into it, and threatened if they try to leave.

You seem to think it is a better lot than a sex slave from Asia, and that these women are somehow less of a victim in their predicament. I assert that the majority of the time that this is not true. It is probably a small minority of women that do this because they want to.



No, julia....... I do not assert it's better, I said it's different.. I never said anything about the victimization of either group.

I do claim that there are plenty of outroads available to prostitutes and damn near close to none for woman who are part of the sex slave industry.



"About 40% of prostitutes are former child prostitutes who were illegally forced into the profession through human trafficking or once were teenage runaways"

http://sex-crimes.laws.com/prostitution/prostitution-statistics

You do know that about 100% of sex slaves are illegally forced into the profession through human trafficking, right ?
See..... that's a difference.


"Those charged with human trafficking with the intent of selling commercial sex are regarded as the most heinous of prostitution related criminals. Human trafficking is the illegal taking of people for the purpose of forced labor. The most common type labor in human trafficking is prostitution work. The law reserves the very serious charges for human traffickers because it is a violation of federal law. Persons charged with trafficking are subject to significant time in prison and very hefty fines. "

http://sex-crimes.laws.com/prostitution

And you do see that they are prosecuted under a different law than other forms of prostitution, right ?
Another difference.

Those were my " points" in my first response to you, before you spun it. The Title of your thread, which you chose is " Sex Slavery in the US: Why can't American men Keep it in their Pants ". The meat and potatoes of your OP is about prostitution. You can spin this into never neverland and I will still maintain that Prostition on it's own is not Sex Slavery.

In your OP you write :

"The other part of this? The men that go to these places for some exotic "Asian" sex, even knowing these women do not have a choice , are the root of the problem"

You, yourself differentiate between consentual and non consentual prostitution/sex slavery. I guess you lost track of one of your own premises when you started spinning mine.

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RE: Sex Slavery in The US: Why can't American Men Keep ... - 5/19/2011 7:41:17 AM   
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ETA : My neice knew what a pimp was at 14, maybe she is the odd one. But I think with all the references to pimps in Rap Music and slang talk, most kids have a decent idea of what it is. Pimp and varietions on the word are pretty popular with todays youth.


I get your point but the fact is most teenagers really do NOT know what a REAL pimp truly is. The music makes it sound like a pimp is a man who has a lot of money, fancy cars, fancy clothes, women and bling-bling. Rap music especially overglamorizes the "pimps and ho's" image to a point where a lot of young people (girls and boys alike) think it is a desirable lifestyle. Most have not a clue about what the prostitution industry really is like.

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RE: Sex Slavery in The US: Why can't American Men Keep ... - 5/19/2011 7:54:05 AM   
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Is the average American male ever accused of doing anything good anymore?It would seem as if all American men are this evil breed of humans that are set on taking over the world.
A few bad apples spoil the barrel.

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RE: Sex Slavery in The US: Why can't American Men Keep ... - 5/19/2011 8:05:05 AM   
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I'm not trying to rationalize it Tweakabelle, but if you really want to do anything about it, you need to know how it works, panic and platitudes have proven ineffective.

This is rationalization.

While you're at it, google [pedophile bush], make of it what you will (also see, Yale), [Dyncorp human trafficking], or look up some of the recent investigations of child services, i.e., it's not all just a bunch of rednecks and Chinese massage parlors, it seems there's a whole underground culture here.

If you can say anything, it's that this sort of thing seems to correlate with strict religious morality, i.e., it splits into a surface of strict regulation and an underground with minimal social controls.

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RE: Sex Slavery in The US: Why can't American Men Keep ... - 5/19/2011 8:11:04 AM   
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About 40% of prostitutes are former child prostitutes who were illegally forced into the profession through human trafficking or once were teenage runaways"


How many prostitutes are CURRENTLY children... meaning still underage?

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RE: Sex Slavery in The US: Why can't American Men Keep ... - 5/19/2011 8:19:11 AM   
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See also the Jack Abramoff CNMI scandal.

A lot of this stuff did not get reported, the press focused on the bribery and casino scams.

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RE: Sex Slavery in The US: Why can't American Men Keep ... - 5/19/2011 8:38:49 AM   
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About 40% of prostitutes are former child prostitutes who were illegally forced into the profession through human trafficking or once were teenage runaways"


How many prostitutes are CURRENTLY children... meaning still underage?



Lots and lots.
What's your point ? Whose arguing with you that child prostitution is not a problem or that it doesn't exist ?

Nice dodge to my post, tho.

You accuse, I respond, you ignore and respond with a new question.
Doesn't change the fact that in your OP you differentiate between prostitution and sex slavery. You actually made the differentiation between a person who enters prostitution willingly and those who are forced into it against their will. Apparently you have changed your mind, that's OK.. Just say it and be honest about it.

And btw many, not all, of the child prostitutes fall into the category of sex slaves/human trafficking. You see.... it's another: a portion of your group falls into my group scenario.

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RE: Sex Slavery in The US: Why can't American Men Keep ... - 5/19/2011 8:57:36 AM   
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About 40% of prostitutes are former child prostitutes who were illegally forced into the profession through human trafficking or once were teenage runaways"


How many prostitutes are CURRENTLY children... meaning still underage?
You can start here - pimping a minor was a misdemeanor in Georgia until 2001 - apparently, it's not prohibited by the bible.

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RE: Sex Slavery in The US: Why can't American Men Keep ... - 5/19/2011 8:58:33 AM   
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My point has never been that there aren't people who engage in prostitution for the helluvit. My point was never that there there is no difference between consensual prostitution where the woman makes a rational decision to sell her ass for cash...or because she gets pleasure from it. I never said there were not woman out there that were prostitutes who have control over their sexual decisions...

My point, which I think you have dodged, is that a LARGE number of women (and these days some men) that enter this profession had about as much "choice" as a sex slave that came here from some Asian country. You seemed to think this is not true, because even though their lives are ruined, they could somehow find a way to pick themselves up and dust themselves off and start all over again. Unless you or someone you know has been through this, I seriously do not think you understand the psychological and emotional damage that results. I also do not think you understand the plight of women who do try to find straight work, especially if they have an arrest on their records from their past. I do not think you understand how society looks down on these women. And I think you overestimate the "help" that is out there for them.

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RE: Sex Slavery in The US: Why can't American Men Keep ... - 5/19/2011 9:02:43 AM   
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Atlanta is supected to be the hub of child prostitution in the US, which the lax laws probably contributed to.

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The main issue in Atlanta is that many young women are becoming more stable as soon as they enter the prostitution trade. What happens is that children below 18 who find life miserable and money absent resort to prostitution in order to be independent and self-sufficing. After which they eventually develop a strong and loyal bond with a pimp who looks for the customers for her.

As a manifestation of trust and loyalty, child prostitutes often do not cooperate with the police when they are caught. They are keener to protecting their jobs as well as the identities of their pimps.


Economics.

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RE: Sex Slavery in The US: Why can't American Men Keep ... - 5/19/2011 9:03:51 AM   
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ORIGINAL: xssve

quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

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About 40% of prostitutes are former child prostitutes who were illegally forced into the profession through human trafficking or once were teenage runaways"


How many prostitutes are CURRENTLY children... meaning still underage?
You can start here - pimping a minor was a misdemeanor in Georgia until 2001 - apparently, it's not prohibited by the bible.




This is what I am talking about.... we are not as evolved as we believe ourselves to be

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RE: Sex Slavery in The US: Why can't American Men Keep ... - 5/19/2011 9:39:44 AM   
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To the OP,

Perhaps you should ask Juanita Broaddrick?


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RE: Sex Slavery in The US: Why can't American Men Keep ... - 5/19/2011 9:42:31 AM   
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Perhaps you should ask Brianna Broitzman and Ashton Larson, et al. 

Or Larry E. Craig, et al.

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RE: Sex Slavery in The US: Why can't American Men Keep ... - 5/19/2011 10:21:10 AM   
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Is the average American male ever accused of doing anything good anymore?It would seem as if all American men are this evil breed of humans that are set on taking over the world.




If the good Lord ...or mother nature...had decided to give particular chemicals to women rather then men it would be women abusing men. This problem is not a mans failing it is chemistry and human nature. The problem and the blame should be shared by both sexes not just one.

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RE: Sex Slavery in The US: Why can't American Men Keep ... - 5/19/2011 10:23:00 AM   
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To the OP,

Perhaps you should ask Juanita Broaddrick?




So, of course, you had to make this a partisan thread

I could list all of those who allege sexual assault by people you cheer for, but that would imply I give a shit about Bill Clinton, his legacy, or that he was probably the best republican president we have ever had

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