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Charnegui -> RE: Any s's ever respond to those first 'Dom you right away' emails? (6/11/2011 9:04:43 AM)

Yeah did so and when it is going to bother me, I can be the one that's un-polite.
In that way I can check if someone is worth to talk with or not. And if he/she can read in fact.



jbcurious -> RE: Any s's ever respond to those first 'Dom you right away' emails? (6/11/2011 10:38:10 AM)

My first feeling with such contacts is stupidity, or insecurity... neither will work for me so ignore.  On occasion one comes through that seems to have a bit of wit or sarcasm to it, these I'll reply to if I'm in the mood for a bit of a banter... sadly these often can't take what they want to dish and it ends up in childish replies which is when I just ignore.



Blindcub -> RE: Any s's ever respond to those first 'Dom you right away' emails? (6/13/2011 2:30:24 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

When you are starving, you will eat dirt.



I found out your statement is quite true....



aConcreteRose -> RE: Any s's ever respond to those first 'Dom you right away' emails? (6/16/2011 4:30:15 PM)

No, those types of people are never able to make me feel comfortable enough of my safety to meet them. They always seem to be focused on only their needs, and my safety ALWAYS comes first with me.



Back2theFuture -> RE: Any s's ever respond to those first 'Dom you right away' emails? (6/16/2011 4:45:18 PM)

Not really because serisouly just because I am submissive to one woman does not mean that I am everyone's whipping dog.
That is just seriously rude.



nevaehangel -> RE: Any s's ever respond to those first 'Dom you right away' emails? (9/1/2011 12:48:54 PM)

Honestly the only reason I EVER responded to Daddy's first email was because he didn't act like that, that all he wanted to do was fuck me, he actually took the time to get to know me on a very platonic plane and then we moved into a more D/s relationship, with me being the first one to actually call Him Daddy....It just naturally came out.



Arpig -> RE: Any s's ever respond to those first 'Dom you right away' emails? (9/1/2011 1:34:56 PM)

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my safety ALWAYS comes first with me.
Selfish little bitch aren't you? [:D]



ummmmNo -> RE: Any s's ever respond to those first 'Dom you right away' emails? (9/7/2011 6:33:07 PM)

It really depends. For the most part, I ignore them. Now, if they are raunchy and witty, or just plain absurd, I will reply.

Personal favorite: This was my first message from this guy. He offered to marry me and knock me up. It was very romantic.



tiggerspoohbear -> RE: Any s's ever respond to those first 'Dom you right away' emails? (9/7/2011 6:36:19 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ummmmNo
It really depends. For the most part, I ignore them. Now, if they are raunchy and witty, or just plain absurd, I will reply.

Personal favorite: This was my first message from this guy. He offered to marry me and knock me up. It was very romantic.

Ain't romance just grand? [:D]



ummmmNo -> RE: Any s's ever respond to those first 'Dom you right away' emails? (9/7/2011 6:38:24 PM)


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ORIGINAL: tiggerspoohbear

quote:

ORIGINAL: ummmmNo
It really depends. For the most part, I ignore them. Now, if they are raunchy and witty, or just plain absurd, I will reply.

Personal favorite: This was my first message from this guy. He offered to marry me and knock me up. It was very romantic.

Ain't romance just grand? [:D]




You're right! Why didn't I take him up on his super awesome, cool offer?!



tiggerspoohbear -> RE: Any s's ever respond to those first 'Dom you right away' emails? (9/7/2011 7:23:13 PM)

Cuz you iz a smart cookie? [:)]



ummmmNo -> RE: Any s's ever respond to those first 'Dom you right away' emails? (9/7/2011 7:44:23 PM)

That made me think of lolcats and then smile. Thank you!



tiggerspoohbear -> RE: Any s's ever respond to those first 'Dom you right away' emails? (9/7/2011 8:38:52 PM)

I love the kittehs website.  Spend a lot of time laughing there.  



mons -> RE: Any s's ever respond to those first 'Dom you right away' emails? (9/15/2011 5:20:00 AM)

You all have made me laugh and yes feel sad for some of you, but you have learn
As a dominant I find it sweet but sometimes too sweet when they call me their Mistress
and send me photo of their body parts I do not care of nude pic!  Some go to far one
man sent a pciture of his lips, so we do also get strange things also!  I delete, block ,
hide, but the ones who are new I thank them for writing it hurts when no one answers
them at all , now mind you these are the nice one I will write!



mons -> RE: Any s's ever respond to those first 'Dom you right away' emails? (9/15/2011 5:21:26 AM)

my last letter was me has no name

mons ( sleepy)



oneluckysub -> RE: Any s's ever respond to those first 'Dom you right away' emails? (9/15/2011 8:05:42 AM)

I have gotten these messages and will respond just so they know that I have received the message and read it. I will respond appropriately. Usually with something like "I dont talk BDM with strangers. Try getting to know me and we can see where this goes."

The vast majority of the time, I don't hear back. I guess those people are just looking for an easy target.

Those that come back with more "Dom talk" get blocked and deleted.





ProlificNeeds -> RE: Any s's ever respond to those first 'Dom you right away' emails? (9/15/2011 10:12:10 AM)

I never respond to a stranger trying to assert dominance over me, if they have something else of value in the message worth responding to, then I will respond, but if it is only that whole 'bow to me' or worse 'I want to obey your every desire!' (Yes I get those too) then I just delete them without so much as an auto-response.



XMariahMadnessX -> RE: Any s's ever respond to those first 'Dom you right away' emails? (9/15/2011 6:11:32 PM)

If somebody messages me, expecting me to instantly be their sub because they are a 'twue dom/me', I reply with as much snark as I can muster. I will call you by your username until you have proven to me that I should call you Sir/Ma'am. It probably wont come to that, unfortunately, because I already have a 'Sir'... but I may call you that if you're a good friend and I feel (like i said earlier) that you have proven that you deserve it.



GracieN -> RE: Any s's ever respond to those first 'Dom you right away' emails? (9/21/2011 5:00:20 PM)

I can't help myself when I get one of those.There will always be a sarcastic response to THOSE types.
Maybe subs should open a school for those ill-mannered, misinformed people? Dom etiquette, anyone?



Greta75 -> RE: Any s's ever respond to those first 'Dom you right away' emails? (9/21/2011 6:42:58 PM)

Depends on how it's done. And I think end of the day, how the approach of the dom is really draws a big picture of his style and personality.
Some people can dom from the start with finesse and can be endearing, and some can just appear to be out right immature and childish and inexperience.

So, I think end of the day, just be true to yourself and it would be easier to meet the correct match that way.



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