LadyHugs
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Dear oyknee1, Ladies and Gentlemen;
Lass, there are many ways to spank to which, the passive or soft hand is kinder than a disciplinary hand. I really hope that you negotiate with your Mistress. It seems in your post, it is really something that you are not ready to take in her view of what is a step up or ladder increase.
I have a 16 page handout for those attending my workshop, that has anatomy education as well. And, perhaps I can give some tid bits on what you can do as a slave to help with the impact, if anything else.
Here is an excerpt of my copyrighted work on spanking, that is given out in my workshop in spanking, paddling and caning.
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Positioning the slave is important to the delivery, the comfort or lack of comfort for the slave and the one who administers a spanking.
For those who are more “weighted” than most, the lap will not be comfortable for the dominant or slave. It is recommended they rest against a spanking horse. If one is not available, one may use pillows as to stack them under the slave’s hips as to make the bottom as north as possible and the crown of the buttock’s cheek the tip of the position. Arms of couches or love seats work well. Standing is an option however; when the slave leans, it will provide a more round target that will fit the hand better.
For those who have a lap and are able to go over a lap, there are several positions that can be done.
The classical English spanking over the knee has the individual across both legs, the slave’s hands grabbing the ankle of the dominant, as the spanks. At times, a dominant may have to use a stool as to keep their legs level and not have the slave slide off.
The modern English spanking position over the knee, is where the individual is over one leg of the dominant, to which the dominant takes his leg and ‘traps’ the slave’s legs under and the arm of the slave the furthest away from his body is placed behind their back and held in place.
The Classical English Caning position, although used for caning will work wonderful for spanking and paddling as well. By having a person stand, with legs apart and bent over, as to put their hands onto the seat of the chair to support and steady themselves, will allow a stronger hand or stroke to be applied to the slave’s buttocks.
Standing Supported position, is where the slave stands, is either in bondage equipment or against a wall or table, and is spanked.
Standing Unsupported position is freestanding spanking, where they stand on their own and are spanked. Much like a child being spanked in a store.
Flat or Prone Position. In this position, a slave is laying on their belly, usually on a rack or in a bed. Their buttocks are not lifted by pillows or sleeping bag rolls.
Dealing with disabilities. Another area which is not discussed or taught is spanking with disabilities. Regardless if you are a dominant or submissive, disabilities will govern how a person is spanked. There are options that those with disabilities can use as to enjoy spanking.
Those who are wheelchair bound can be lifted out and placed upon a stool, steadied by a table, wall or something solid. By positioning their buttocks back as to slightly overhang on the stool, the “sweet spot” is exposed as well as the buttocks cheek.
For those dominants in a wheelchair, spanking still can be done from their wheelchairs and other options may be for the slave to stand in position in front of the chair and adjust their position in freestanding position as to allow a fluid spank stroke by the dominant to occur. The slave can also bend over and place hands upon a chair seat as to offer a spanking position in this manner.
Those who are bed bound dominants, a slave can prop their Master’s pillow up into a seated position or inclined moderately. Then lay across their lap to be spanked. The slave’s buttocks should be positioned as to be on the edge of the Master’s hip or thigh and not so the Master’s hand has to move across their body.
Those who are sight disabled can be helped into a position as dominant or submissive, as to spank in a variety of ways. The main key is free slaves that can position and adjust to the dominant’s technique and leaving the dominant’s technique unchanged. This works with whips and any other corporal administrations.
Those with hearing issues, still have their sight. However, there may be an occasion where an individual is deaf as well as blind. Being positioned and comfortable is most important. Free slaves can adjust again to the technique of the blind and deaf dominant, which leaves the dominant’s technique undisturbed as well.
The major summary of working with disabilities, is to not alter the technique of the one who is disabled. Only the one who is able adjusts.
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I will add, that when you have thighs closed the pain will be more than when you have thighs open. A relaxed neck, head and body will absorb the impact better than stiff body but, as I notice lass, you're tensing up as you know what is coming, so it just makes it even more punishing on you physically, as well as mentally and emotionally, as you dread the experience.
Respectfully submitted,
Lady Hugs
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