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tazzygirl -> RE: unfair punishment (5/22/2011 9:27:39 PM)
quote: We have lots of conversations that go somewhat like this: Kana-Do X,Y,Z Lilone-That's not fair Kana-WTF. This is slavery. There's nothing fair about it. Heard many times when I said something wasnt fair... A fair is a place where pigs win ribbons. You are not a pig.

defiantbadgirl -> RE: unfair punishment (5/22/2011 10:10:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ranja when you are being ignored and excluded as a punishment and you are convinced the treatment you are getting is unfair do you give in and keep a low profile and sit it out all meakly? or do you make an effort to try and get your point across to the 'authority' and witnesses and try to find justice for yourself? or do you pretend to be all submissive and take your punishment untill you see an opportunity to take 'revenge' and then hit back? do you think it makes a difference in attitude towards this dilemma as to whether you are sub of Dom? Depends on the situation. I'd have to know more information before I could give you an answer on what I would do.

HannahLynHeather -> RE: unfair punishment (5/22/2011 11:10:03 PM)
oh suck it up buttercup. its not the end of the world for shit's sake. so your posts have to be approved, big fucking deal. i got moded as well for an exchange. and just like you i felt that the others in the exchange should have been moded as well but they weren't. i wrote and bitched, i got an explanatory message back a few days later. i used the the intervening time to cool off some, and i actually read the response when it arrived. and you know what? they were right! not only were they right to spank me, they were right to not spank the others involved. i have no idea what thread you got spanked over, i missed it, but i'm willing to bet that the mods had the right of it. even if they weren't right, you really are being friggin petty. i mean i love this place and i really enjoy posting freely. but for fuck's sake its just a frigging internet forum!! don't you have anything better to do than bitch and moan about how unfair things are? go for a walk, go out dancing, get laid, read a book. christ on a cupcake girl, your life must be pretty fucking wonderful if this looms so large on your horizon that you can spend all this energy and emotion on it. hannah lynn

ranja -> RE: unfair punishment (5/23/2011 2:21:34 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: gungadin09 OKAY, CALL ME A DOUCHE. i believe in abiding by the rules or paying a price. i usually don't have a problem following the rules around here. Which rules do you think are unfair? Feel free to email me privately if you wish. pam Hey Douche (smiley), i have not too much of a problem abiding by the rules either... i have been posting here for about 4 years and i am not someone who willy nilly antagonises people or start attacking first time posters But I have been slapped by moderators before over some very childish instance in which the other person was really very rude (to me) but my quite funny comments (if i say so myself) got pulled... the rude comments still stand somewhere in the archives... it was about marble eggs... i personally don't mind it too much when people don't abide by the rules a little bit, i certainly won't be running to the mods ... for instance over all these instances when the usual suspects start treating the boards like chat rooms... or pretending they are mods themselves and tell new posters they are stupid for responding to a thread that is as ancient as three months... and when people don't abide by the rules and the 'attack' seems against me- i am fine fighting my own corner if indeed i can be bothered... the problem starts when someone goes running off to the authorities and then the boss stepping in- in favour of one and not the other spoiling a perfectly entertaining exchange over minor (not the child version) issues it is not like we were discussing state secrets or illegal activities and the exchange remained fairly close to the original topic too, personal as it got i have seen it happen here before, threads being pulled and comments erased and sometimes i think it is a great pity, as i was enjoying the exchange very much. Like others here it baffles me at times why certain comments get pulled but other stand And when it happens to you personally it feels more baffling still i have no problem suffering the occasional bit of 'injustice' and i have no reservations apologising when i am wrong I do have somewhat of a problem however... like many subs it seems... with being ignored and excluded especially when i think it ain't right.

ranja -> RE: unfair punishment (5/23/2011 3:10:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RedMagic1 I think you were put on moderation because you were behaving like a catty teenager. I also think exactly one person was behaving that way, which would probably explain why exactly one person was put on moderation. So, to respond to your op, I believe the proper course of action is for you to thank the mods for doing the right thing. i accept that some might see my behaviour was like a 'catty teenager', others might just have seen it as funny... and i think the cat fight had started long before you saw what you saw... and that is the problem... quite a lot of it has gone... which is a pity quote: I do think it is human nature to sometimes not see how we are being seen by others, as well as sometimes holding onto the idea that we are right. The OP evidently feels her behavior was no different than that of other people's. Everyone was repeatedly warned. Not everyone made the appropriate shifts in behavior. I would have meekly taken my 'punishment' untill i saw my 'opponent' posting and even starting a new thread. So i asked the Mods again and again why personal comments my way stood, but my personal comments back were pulled and considered against TOS... i did NOT get an answer... So i started posting again... under this [awaiting approval] sign, to make a point. Now i am even allowed to start my own thread i think in the hope that it will teach me a lesson... but this whole affair teaches me that freedom of speech is a farce and some people are allowed to make digs at people but others are not.

gungadin09 -> RE: unfair punishment (5/23/2011 6:24:00 AM)
FR Please tell me that [awaiting approval] is a joke. pam

ranja -> RE: unfair punishment (5/23/2011 7:03:13 AM)
Hello Pam it does indeed seem a total joke... it is not though i will remain 'under moderation' until my posting habits change i am allowed to post in my own punishment thread and these posts get 'approved' fairly fast... all the others i post remain [awaiting approval] eventhough i just respond to the questions on the boards with my opinion... nothing untoward and if anything ever so slightly hints at questioning my punishment or even a slight joke to my formidable 'opponent' the comment gets pulled... Others have questioned on the boards why i am [awaiting approval] all these posts have been pulled

NuevaVida -> RE: unfair punishment (5/23/2011 8:02:50 AM)
Understanding now that your original question has nothing to do with D/s relationship punishment - I think it's kind of in poor taste to ask a question disguised as another, but I'm weird like that. I haven't been put on moderation before but I have had posts yanked which had me frowning because I thought they were pretty damn mild in comparison to what I've seen allowed to remain out there. I emailed the mod about it, wasn't really satisfied with the response I got, chalked it up to "what will be, will be" and moved on. Because, in the big scheme of things, my post really wasn't that nice. And even though it was nicer than other posts which have remained standing, it still wasn't the kind of post I want to be putting out there. So I got smacked. So what. It made me rethink what I'm putting out there and if that's a good representative of who I am. If other people want to be mouthy and be allowed to be mouthy, then I suppose that's representative of who they are. But I can only compare myself to my own standards for myself.

BOUNTYHUNTER -> RE: unfair punishment (5/23/2011 8:12:57 AM)
WHO said that a M/s relationship if fair or should it be..As a Master I will listen according to what they have to say, to make amends if they screwed up...The punishment should fit the crime..So a Dom must weight the punishment and the tole on the relationship.AS those that view my profile must see that I am not for perhaps 98% of the subs slaves here on cm or fet.Yes I am sever very sever..those that approach know what to expect..Bounty

VideoAdminAlpha -> RE: unfair punishment (5/23/2011 9:26:08 AM)
I think that the OP has gotten the question answered as thouroughly as they would hope. I might be wrong, but after this period of time, there is not likely to be any different viewpoints posted, and since there is a huge statistical probability of this thread degrading because of the back and forth exchange of viewpoints on the part of some posters incurring TOS violations as has already happened, this thread is now locked. Have a wondrous day yall.

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