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True False or relative? - 5/24/2011 7:30:42 AM   
Idealynnbliss


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Status: offline 		I am very new to this "scene" And I am curious about a statement made to me in response to my request to learn how to Dom a man.
FYI I am not 100% into or desire Dom'ing a female sooooo

"You cant Dom a man if You cant Dom a female!"

Whats the good word Sirs?
Agree or not agree

Thank you in advance for anything you wish to share.
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RE: True False or relative? - 5/24/2011 7:33:32 AM   
Miyani


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Status: offline 		Complete and utter bull. If you don't want to dominate females, then don't. It won't affect your ability to dominate males.

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RE: True False or relative? - 5/24/2011 7:38:42 AM   
Idealynnbliss


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Status: offline 		I had the same feeling!
Thank you for sharing your thoughts.

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RE: True False or relative? - 5/24/2011 7:39:50 AM   
ChatteParfaitt


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quote:

"You cant Dom a man if You cant Dom a female!"


Agreed, the statement stinks of pure bull crappy.

I am more than capable of domming a female, it's just that most of the time I don't want to. My gender preference is for males.

People are going to tell you all kinds of crap, since baiting newish fem dommes is a hobby for some. Take everything said by those you don't know and trust with a great big grain of salt.


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RE: True False or relative? - 5/24/2011 7:40:40 AM   
Rochsub2009


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Idealynnbliss

"You cant Dom a man if You cant Dom a female!"



WTF????!!!!!

What type of sexist, convoluted logic is that?  What does that statement even mean?

Are you implying that females are weaker, and so there is a natural progression that one must make in order to ultimately be able to dominate men?  Kind of like saying you can't do trigonometry until you first master algebra?

The logic of this statement fails for me.  I am a sub male who ONLY submits to females.  Many of the females that I've submitted to over the years had never dominated another woman.  So just based upon that sample set of one, your premise fails.

I think that had you posted this in the "Ask a Mistress" section, you would have found that many of the Dommes have never dominated a woman before.  Yet, they have male subs/slaves, which should be impossible based on your premise.

Or perhaps your actual premise was that a male Dom can't dom another man unless he can first dom a woman.  That would be a completely different argument than what I just addressed, but I think it would be equally baseless.

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RE: True False or relative? - 5/24/2011 7:42:30 AM   
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RE: True False or relative? - 5/24/2011 7:56:46 AM   
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Status: offline 		Sounds more like whoever told you that is trying to top you from the bottom.

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RE: True False or relative? - 5/24/2011 8:02:56 AM   
Idealynnbliss


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Status: offline 		Thank you all  very much for your thoughts....I already felt in my gut that it was utter BS... From Chaos comes clarity and
It is clear I need to listen to myself while I traverse these waters!

Thanks again I appreciate the input.

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RE: True False or relative? - 5/24/2011 10:38:26 AM   
PdxJ


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Ummmm. . . . . . you can't train a dog if you can't train a cat. lol! What?


< Message edited by PdxJ -- 5/24/2011 10:40:46 AM >

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RE: True False or relative? - 5/24/2011 11:19:28 AM   
coookie


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RE: True False or relative? - 5/24/2011 11:21:29 AM   
Rochsub2009


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RE: True False or relative? - 5/24/2011 11:46:02 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Disagree.  This tactic is called, "tell somebody crap because they don't know any better yet".

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RE: True False or relative? - 5/24/2011 11:46:46 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Let me guess. Was this from a les sub trying to get you to Top her?

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RE: True False or relative? - 5/24/2011 1:15:24 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		I bet it was from a male top trying to shake her so she would sub to him first as part of his 'teaching' her to dom. And that his present sub doesn't know he's looking for some female to top her for his wanking pleasure.

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RE: True False or relative? - 5/24/2011 1:18:43 PM   
PdxJ


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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

I bet it was from a male top trying to shake her so she would sub to him first as part of his 'teaching' her to dom. And that his present sub doesn't know he's looking for some female to top her for his wanking pleasure.


LOL - thanks, you made me spit coffee on my pc screen.


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RE: True False or relative? - 5/24/2011 1:27:33 PM   
NuevaVida


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RE: True False or relative? - 5/24/2011 1:58:18 PM   
Arpig


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quote:

Sounds more like whoever told you that is trying to top you from the bottom.
DING!!! We have a winner folks!!

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RE: True False or relative? - 5/24/2011 2:29:34 PM   
MarcEsadrian


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Idealynnbliss
I am very new to this "scene" And I am curious about a statement made to me in response to my request to learn how to Dom a man.

"You cant Dom a man if You cant Dom a female!"


This statement, I'm assuming, implies that female is less than male, and therefore the ability to dominate a female serves as a preliminary litmus test in one's ability to dominate a male. In my experience, comparing the tractability of the sexes in a simple hierarchic scale like that is too one-dimensional. Male and female, each respective to their aggregate archetypes, are two different "systems" biologically and socially, presenting thus two different castles to storm. Each sex (generally) has their own gimmicks, strengths and weaknesses. Then there is individual intellect and persona to account for beyond this, which complicates matters further.

I have no doubt the one you are quoting has "dommed" a female. Whether he has actually dominated a female is something I question. Women can be very complex, manipulative and subversive, once you buff away the veneer of their supposed docility—a veneer more than one woman has used as a mask in beguiling a man with an easily fluffed ego. Be warned, all ye who are so assuming; therein surely lies your Achilles heel.

"If you go to women, don't forget the whip."
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RE: True False or relative? - 5/24/2011 2:46:20 PM   
RedMagic1


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Status: offline 		A lot of men want to dominate women in the bedroom because they are unable to dominate other men in vanilla life.

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RE: True False or relative? - 5/24/2011 3:49:14 PM   
sunshinemiss


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quote:

ORIGINAL: NuevaVida

You can't have any pudding if you don't eat your meat.


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Excellent.

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