Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

RE: Financial Domination WTF?!?!


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Casual Banter] >> Off the Grid >> RE: Financial Domination WTF?!?! Page: <<   < prev  1 2 [3] 4   next >   >>
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
RE: Financial Domination WTF?!?! - 5/28/2011 8:43:54 AM   
SternSkipper


Posts: 7546
Joined: 3/7/2004
Status: offline
quote:

So as a dominant shouldn't you be taking care of your submissive rather than the other way around?


As long as it is agreed that slaves built the pyramids There will always be a bit of wiggle room on that one


(in reply to rulemylife)
Profile   Post #: 41
RE: Financial Domination WTF?!?! - 5/28/2011 8:53:41 AM   
LadyConstanze


Posts: 9722
Joined: 2/18/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: SternSkipper

quote:

So as a dominant shouldn't you be taking care of your submissive rather than the other way around?


As long as it is agreed that slaves built the pyramids There will always be a bit of wiggle room on that one





LOL, yes, a guy just has to declare that he is submissive and there we go, gets his kink a la carte and a free ride in life... I guess it could happen, if somebody would eliminate all the thousands of good looking, less demanding, less tight arsed subbies and dommes would have to fight for the dregs...

_____________________________

There are 10 kinds of people who understand binary
Those who do and those who don't!

http://exdomme.blogspot.com/2012/07/public-service-announcement.html

(in reply to SternSkipper)
Profile   Post #: 42
RE: Financial Domination WTF?!?! - 5/28/2011 9:01:54 AM   
tazzygirl


Posts: 37833
Joined: 10/12/2007
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: slave2k

Oh, it is different alright! You see, the other Fetishes don't drive you to Poverty if you do them with the right person. DUH!
Besides it can get addictive just like GAMBLING and you lose it all. Even your Self-Respect.



Do you have studies that state a man is driven to poverty by financial domination? Statistics of any kind?

I was financially dominated in a previous relationship. Every dime I made went to him for him to decide how to spend it. It takes major trust.

When I left, he took me to the bank, withdrew money, and handed it over to me. It wasnt a fortune as he paid all the bills out of the household account... but I had no doubt I paid half and he gave me back the rest.

It sorta works like that in many relationships.

Perhaps you should look into the difference between that type of financial domination and the fairy tale one you are describing.

_____________________________

Telling me to take Midol wont help your butthurt.
RIP, my demon-child 5-16-11
Duchess of Dissent 1
Dont judge me because I sin differently than you.
If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

(in reply to slave2k)
Profile   Post #: 43
RE: Financial Domination WTF?!?! - 5/28/2011 9:02:22 AM   
FullCircle


Posts: 5713
Joined: 11/24/2005
Status: offline 		Besides Aliens built the pyramids, did no one watch SG1?

_____________________________

∞ ﮒuקּƹɼ ƾɛϰưϫԼ Ƨωιϯϲћ.

(in reply to LadyConstanze)
Profile   Post #: 44
RE: Financial Domination WTF?!?! - 5/28/2011 9:03:37 AM   
tazzygirl


Posts: 37833
Joined: 10/12/2007
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: rulemylife

quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl


I dont believe financial domination is wide spread. I do believe there are many who fake it simply as a means to get money. I do believe those who are "into it" do so with their minds on the kink and not the dollar signs.


There is the difference right there, I don't believe it is a kink.  I believe it is a lot guys getting exploited by greedy bitches.

And if you don't think it is widespread try popping onto the red profiles.

It will open your eyes.



"greedy bitches"? How many men do you think practice this as well?

Sorry, I have no idea what a red profile is.

_____________________________

Telling me to take Midol wont help your butthurt.
RIP, my demon-child 5-16-11
Duchess of Dissent 1
Dont judge me because I sin differently than you.
If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

(in reply to rulemylife)
Profile   Post #: 45
RE: Financial Domination WTF?!?! - 5/28/2011 9:07:45 AM   
LadyConstanze


Posts: 9722
Joined: 2/18/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: FullCircle

Besides Aliens built the pyramids, did no one watch SG1?


Forgot all about that, bummer, I don't watch much TV

The funny thing is that if a guy claims he's a subbie and is a financial burden on the domme, that's alright, she should take care of him... I don't mind taking care of my pets, I like to think that my partner and I take care of each other, but taking care of a bloke because he's sexually submissive? HUH? Why? So I have to do more work and he less - how dominant would that be? I think a lot of guys don't want dommes, they want sugar mommies....

_____________________________

There are 10 kinds of people who understand binary
Those who do and those who don't!

http://exdomme.blogspot.com/2012/07/public-service-announcement.html

(in reply to FullCircle)
Profile   Post #: 46
RE: Financial Domination WTF?!?! - 5/28/2011 9:20:29 AM   
tazzygirl


Posts: 37833
Joined: 10/12/2007
Status: offline 		Its called... paying him to sub to you, LC, which is perfectly ok, according to some. But god help you if you "demand" your sub to pay his own way or help in the bill department.

If you are paying a man to sub to you, how is THAT any different than prostitution?

_____________________________

Telling me to take Midol wont help your butthurt.
RIP, my demon-child 5-16-11
Duchess of Dissent 1
Dont judge me because I sin differently than you.
If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

(in reply to LadyConstanze)
Profile   Post #: 47
RE: Financial Domination WTF?!?! - 5/28/2011 9:31:20 AM   
LadyConstanze


Posts: 9722
Joined: 2/18/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

Its called... paying him to sub to you, LC, which is perfectly ok, according to some. But god help you if you "demand" your sub to pay his own way or help in the bill department.

If you are paying a man to sub to you, how is THAT any different than prostitution?


Well, because then they'd even get paid for doing something they enjoy - just like pro dommes do, the only difference is that when they're the prostitutes, it's alright because by the power of the mighty dick (even if it's not so mighty in most cases) if a guy wants something, he should have it, immediately and for free, ffs, especially if he declares himself a submissive, it's his right to demand immediate service (and possibly payment).

_____________________________

There are 10 kinds of people who understand binary
Those who do and those who don't!

http://exdomme.blogspot.com/2012/07/public-service-announcement.html

(in reply to tazzygirl)
Profile   Post #: 48
RE: Financial Domination WTF?!?! - 5/28/2011 9:48:13 AM   
tazzygirl


Posts: 37833
Joined: 10/12/2007
Status: offline 		Hmmm... advocating topping from the bottom.

How come we gals cant get that kind of treatment?

_____________________________

Telling me to take Midol wont help your butthurt.
RIP, my demon-child 5-16-11
Duchess of Dissent 1
Dont judge me because I sin differently than you.
If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

(in reply to LadyConstanze)
Profile   Post #: 49
RE: Financial Domination WTF?!?! - 5/28/2011 9:54:55 AM   
LadyConstanze


Posts: 9722
Joined: 2/18/2005
Status: offline 		Nah, just making fun of the guys who think what's alright for the ganter can't be acceptable for the goose

_____________________________

There are 10 kinds of people who understand binary
Those who do and those who don't!

http://exdomme.blogspot.com/2012/07/public-service-announcement.html

(in reply to tazzygirl)
Profile   Post #: 50
RE: Financial Domination WTF?!?! - 5/28/2011 10:58:10 AM   
peppermint


Posts: 5171
Joined: 10/18/2005
From: Montana
Status: offline
quote:

I don't think you will find many guys who are on here begging someone to take their money.


Strangely,  just the other day I was reading the profile of a guy who was into a financial domination thing with his Domme.  He was loving it!!!  He talked about how he just loved to spoil her and buy things for her!!  I may not understand the kink.  You may not understand the kink.  However, it's his kink.  Let him enjoy what makes him happy. 

(in reply to rulemylife)
Profile   Post #: 51
RE: Financial Domination WTF?!?! - 5/28/2011 11:55:23 AM   
tazzygirl


Posts: 37833
Joined: 10/12/2007
Status: offline 		I love to spoil the man in my life.... something I have always done. But, one guy I spoiled started expecting it, then demanding it. It no longer became something I enjoyed and started becoming a chore. Ended that relationship.

_____________________________

Telling me to take Midol wont help your butthurt.
RIP, my demon-child 5-16-11
Duchess of Dissent 1
Dont judge me because I sin differently than you.
If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

(in reply to peppermint)
Profile   Post #: 52
RE: Financial Domination WTF?!?! - 5/28/2011 12:27:03 PM   
juliaoceania


Posts: 21383
Joined: 4/19/2006
From: Somewhere Over the Rainbow
Status: offline
quote:

So as a dominant shouldn't you be taking care of your submissive rather than the other way around?


Ideally people in all relationships take care of each other.

_____________________________

Once you label me, you negate me ~ Soren Kierkegaard

Reality has a well known Liberal Bias ~ Stephen Colbert

Great minds discuss ideas; Average minds discuss events; Small minds discuss people. Eleanor Roosevelt

(in reply to rulemylife)
Profile   Post #: 53
RE: Financial Domination WTF?!?! - 5/28/2011 12:30:38 PM   
juliaoceania


Posts: 21383
Joined: 4/19/2006
From: Somewhere Over the Rainbow
Status: offline
quote:

greedy bitches"? How many men do you think practice this as well?


Oh, but that is different because men are supposed to control the money in a relationship

_____________________________

Once you label me, you negate me ~ Soren Kierkegaard

Reality has a well known Liberal Bias ~ Stephen Colbert

Great minds discuss ideas; Average minds discuss events; Small minds discuss people. Eleanor Roosevelt

(in reply to tazzygirl)
Profile   Post #: 54
RE: Financial Domination WTF?!?! - 5/28/2011 12:46:29 PM   
LadyConstanze


Posts: 9722
Joined: 2/18/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

quote:

greedy bitches"? How many men do you think practice this as well?


Oh, but that is different because men are supposed to control the money in a relationship


I'm willing to bet that about 80% of those "hot young fin dommes" demanding tribute for an IM chat are guys who nicked the pictures from porn sites...

_____________________________

There are 10 kinds of people who understand binary
Those who do and those who don't!

http://exdomme.blogspot.com/2012/07/public-service-announcement.html

(in reply to juliaoceania)
Profile   Post #: 55
RE: Financial Domination WTF?!?! - 5/28/2011 12:56:45 PM   
FullCircle


Posts: 5713
Joined: 11/24/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl
Sorry, I have no idea what a red profile is.

Admit it....you've never noticed the red ones because you're too focused on those in the black! Admit it!

_____________________________

∞ ﮒuקּƹɼ ƾɛϰưϫԼ Ƨωιϯϲћ.

(in reply to tazzygirl)
Profile   Post #: 56
RE: Financial Domination WTF?!?! - 5/28/2011 12:57:56 PM   
Contentment


Posts: 63
Joined: 5/27/2011
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

Its called... paying him to sub to you, LC, which is perfectly ok, according to some. But god help you if you "demand" your sub to pay his own way or help in the bill department.

If you are paying a man to sub to you, how is THAT any different than prostitution?

Are you suggesting that there isn't anyone on the site that would be a prostitute if it was legal in their state?

Just saying.

Other end of this, is if the sub and dom are living together. Shared expenses are more than reasonable. Tipping the scale in favor of the dominant was bound to happen at some point.

Personally, I'm cheap and content with the lower end of things. I am dominant, but financial domination (aka financial dependence) would really bug me. That said, I'm not opposed to free food or lodging if offered.

(in reply to tazzygirl)
Profile   Post #: 57
RE: Financial Domination WTF?!?! - 5/28/2011 12:58:40 PM   
tazzygirl


Posts: 37833
Joined: 10/12/2007
Status: offline 		Im guessing you mean that sub male profiles are in red? Hmmm.. didnt I already post that I noticed a few who stated on their profiles they wanted to be financially dominated?

True, I had to take out the Dominant part of the search feature. No offence, fellas, but make subs just dont do "it" for me.

_____________________________

Telling me to take Midol wont help your butthurt.
RIP, my demon-child 5-16-11
Duchess of Dissent 1
Dont judge me because I sin differently than you.
If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

(in reply to FullCircle)
Profile   Post #: 58
RE: Financial Domination WTF?!?! - 5/28/2011 1:00:25 PM   
tazzygirl


Posts: 37833
Joined: 10/12/2007
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Contentment


quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

Its called... paying him to sub to you, LC, which is perfectly ok, according to some. But god help you if you "demand" your sub to pay his own way or help in the bill department.

If you are paying a man to sub to you, how is THAT any different than prostitution?

Are you suggesting that there isn't anyone on the site that would be a prostitute if it was legal in their state?

Just saying.

Other end of this, is if the sub and dom are living together. Shared expenses are more than reasonable. Tipping the scale in favor of the dominant was bound to happen at some point.

Personally, I'm cheap and content with the lower end of things. I am dominant, but financial domination (aka financial dependence) would really bug me. That said, I'm not opposed to free food or lodging if offered.


My post was a take off from someone else's and meant to be a bit snarky.


_____________________________

Telling me to take Midol wont help your butthurt.
RIP, my demon-child 5-16-11
Duchess of Dissent 1
Dont judge me because I sin differently than you.
If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

(in reply to Contentment)
Profile   Post #: 59
RE: Financial Domination WTF?!?! - 5/28/2011 1:07:48 PM   
FullCircle


Posts: 5713
Joined: 11/24/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl
Im guessing you mean that sub male profiles are in red? Hmmm.. didnt I already post that I noticed a few who stated on their profiles they wanted to be financially dominated?

True, I had to take out the Dominant part of the search feature. No offence, fellas, but make subs just dont do "it" for me.

Wrong guess.

_____________________________

∞ ﮒuקּƹɼ ƾɛϰưϫԼ Ƨωιϯϲћ.

(in reply to tazzygirl)
Profile   Post #: 60
Page:   <<   < prev  1 2 [3] 4   next >   >>
All Forums >> [Casual Banter] >> Off the Grid >> RE: Financial Domination WTF?!?! Page: <<   < prev  1 2 [3] 4   next >   >>
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.094