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RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) - 5/30/2011 5:36:59 AM   
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Status: offline 		This was a great thread, and Leatherist's second post on it settles the penetration/dominance argument as fqr as I am concerned.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_1842423/mpage_1/tm.htm

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RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) - 5/30/2011 5:38:58 AM   
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Ya.

And I was remembering a conversation I was half listening, to one night in a gay nightclub, at a table of mostly gay men. They were discussing how vaginas scare the hell out of them. They all said they adore women, and find breasts delightful and fascinating, but that the vagina was like a scary monster that wanted to devour their dicks. One guy, that had actually been married and fathered children said he used to have dreams in which the vaginas has sharp teeth.

Somehow I don't see a scary, sharp toothed, dick devouring, monster as all that submissive.

I think, as with everything, it is all about perception. The chest thumping knuckle draggers, and the women that love them, are never going to change their perception. I am okay with that as I don't have to own either one of them. Just walk around them rather like the nutty homeless man that wanders along the side walk near where I work....babbling his nonsense. Just because they say it, and just because it is their reality, does not make it truth or reality to me. No matter how loudly they babble.

AND.........for me personally, I don't care of they agree with me and my reality or not. I've got all the legal rights I need so their beliefs.....just don't matter. Their babble matters not to me. However.....over and over again it is made apparent that MY beliefs do matter to them. If that was not the case, they would not take so much time babbling on and on, with such vehemence. This is where my inner sadist rubs her hands in glee. Watching their words spew forth, imagining their fingers furiously typing away, the muttering, blood pressure sky rocketing. And I smile.

WIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


*howling with laughter*




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RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) - 5/30/2011 5:54:50 AM   
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Cackling more like.... :-) Ha wimmin, 'we're' herd behaviour much? Or is it an attempt to call your coven to arms?


My comment was not addressed to you, but you're right, you busted us. Even now we are channeling our (many) cats in an attempt to align our chakras . As soon as the moon goes into Venus there will be a bad moon rising. Oh yeah. Que CCR, please.


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RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) - 5/30/2011 6:20:48 AM   
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RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) - 5/30/2011 6:22:20 AM   
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Status: offline 		Except now you've thrown down the proverbial gauntlet........ a 'weal twue manly man' in full control of himself and his actions, will NEVER be able to resist!

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RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) - 5/30/2011 6:26:25 AM   
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Except now you've thrown down the proverbial gauntlet........ a 'weal twue manly man' in full control of himself and his actions, will NEVER be able to resist!


I've got the shields up, but I don't know if I can hold her any longer, Captain *said in my best Scottie voice*  she can't take the strain. We have to go into warp speed.


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RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) - 5/30/2011 6:31:10 AM   
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Status: offline 		Mr. Spock: Mr. Scott, since the Enterprise is obviously functional, I suggest we return to our starting place at top warp speed.
Lt. Cmdr. Montgomery 'Scotty' Scott: Aye, but it'll take a while to get there.
Mr. Spock: In that case, Mr. Scott, I suggest we start at once. Can you give me warp 8?
Lt. Cmdr. Montgomery 'Scotty' Scott: Aye, sir. And maybe a wee bit more. I'll sit on the warp engines myself and nurse them.
Mr. Spock: That position, Mr. Scott, would not only be unavailing, but also... undignified.

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RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) - 5/30/2011 6:33:50 AM   
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Mr. Spock: Mr. Scott, since the Enterprise is obviously functional, I suggest we return to our starting place at top warp speed.
Lt. Cmdr. Montgomery 'Scotty' Scott: Aye, but it'll take a while to get there.
Mr. Spock: In that case, Mr. Scott, I suggest we start at once. Can you give me warp 8?
Lt. Cmdr. Montgomery 'Scotty' Scott: Aye, sir. And maybe a wee bit more. I'll sit on the warp engines myself and nurse them.
Mr. Spock: That position, Mr. Scott, would not only be unavailing, but also... undignified.


Shesh Lady C, that is so NOT a dominant position. Try to get with the program here.

Edited because I garbed up my quotes I was laughing so hard, imaging all the males fantasizing about Lady C "nursing the engines."







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RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) - 5/30/2011 6:34:12 AM   
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RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) - 5/30/2011 6:36:05 AM   
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Mr. Spock: Mr. Scott, since the Enterprise is obviously functional, I suggest we return to our starting place at top warp speed.
Lt. Cmdr. Montgomery 'Scotty' Scott: Aye, but it'll take a while to get there.
Mr. Spock: In that case, Mr. Scott, I suggest we start at once. Can you give me warp 8?
Lt. Cmdr. Montgomery 'Scotty' Scott: Aye, sir. And maybe a wee bit more. I'll sit on the warp engines myself and nurse them.
Mr. Spock: That position, Mr. Scott, would not only be unavailing, but also... undignified.


"This thread is dead, Jim."  Dr. Leonard "Bones" McCoy.


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RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) - 5/30/2011 6:42:29 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LordOdhinn

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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze

Mr. Spock: Mr. Scott, since the Enterprise is obviously functional, I suggest we return to our starting place at top warp speed.
Lt. Cmdr. Montgomery 'Scotty' Scott: Aye, but it'll take a while to get there.
Mr. Spock: In that case, Mr. Scott, I suggest we start at once. Can you give me warp 8?
Lt. Cmdr. Montgomery 'Scotty' Scott: Aye, sir. And maybe a wee bit more. I'll sit on the warp engines myself and nurse them.
Mr. Spock: That position, Mr. Scott, would not only be unavailing, but also... undignified.


"This thread is dead, Jim."  Dr. Leonard "Bones" McCoy.



(Shouldn't you be arguing for the other side? You going to be accused of not being a real true dom now. Aligning with the pussy. Oh wait. You *like* pussy.)

We have no choice, it's the Vulcan mind meld or nothing.


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RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) - 5/30/2011 6:43:51 AM   
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Status: offline 		And the only quote I know......

Dammit Jim! I'm a doctor not a rocket scientist!

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RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) - 5/30/2011 6:45:05 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

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(Shouldn't you be arguing for the other side? You going to be accused of not being a real true dom now. Aligning with the pussy. Oh wait. You *like* pussy.)

We have no choice, it's the Vulcan mind meld or nothing.



It wasn't melding minds, I was thinking of....*Big Grin*

Not that I want to denigrate Heather McL's thoughtful thread,mind you.


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RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) - 5/30/2011 6:45:35 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

 
Shesh Lady C, that is so NOT a dominant position. Try to get with the program here.

Edited because I garbed up my quotes I was laughing so hard, imaging all the males fantasizing about Lady C "nursing the engines."




I don't have a Scottish accent, I wanna be Spock and if I can't be Spock (with the exquisite ears and eyebrows) can I be Bones?

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RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) - 5/30/2011 6:47:27 AM   
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RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) - 5/30/2011 6:48:53 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LordOdhinn

Not that I want to denigrate Heather McL's thoughtful thread,mind you.


Yeah, I feel badly for contributing to the derailing of her thread. :\

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RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) - 5/30/2011 6:50:04 AM   
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Whenever you get back to this, Awareness, since you brought up the issue of responsibility in communication, I am getting a sense for why you draw so much fire. Example: Heather taking offense. She has been marginalized for significant sections of her life, based on statements from the boards, and nevertheless is now starting to figure things out in an impressive way. It is beautiful to watch. She is in a state of becoming, between naive and worldly. However, what she hears from your words is that you consider her naive, end of story. So she takes offense, because she is conditioned to think you must be like everyone else who tried to put her back in her place. She isn't asking why people post, and so she does not understand that the fact that you provided several measured responses means that you respect her as a mature adult. In a nutshell, the things that "go without saying" are worth saying, especially when talking to someone who does not have a history of privilege.

And, Heather, I think I "get" him now. You may still disagree with him (and me) but I am confident he was not condescending to you. He was talking to you the way he would talk to a mature adult, and played a role in cleaning up the thread.

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RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) - 5/30/2011 6:51:15 AM   
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Status: offline 		Yes, but I get to be Scotty and I nominate Lat as Captain Kirk. Okay, who's Spock?
Sylvere?

Since LO aligned with the wimmins he gets to be Uhura, the sexy black com specialist.

Some tanning lotion, some hair removal, a full body mod . . .he'd be great, trust me.





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RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) - 5/30/2011 6:53:12 AM   
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Yes, but I get to be Scotty and I nominate Lat as Captain Kirk. Okay, who's Spock?
Sylvere?

Since LO aligned with the wimmins he gets to be Uhura, the sexy black com specialist.

Some tanning lotion, some hair removal, a full body mod . . .he'd be great, trust me.







Please, please, can I be Spock? I even have a pic of me with pointy ears, I promise I dig it out... It's on one of the other computers...

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RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) - 5/30/2011 7:01:39 AM   
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Status: offline 		Okay you can be Spock. But then who's going to be Bones? We need someone to shake their head vigorously and say: Are you out of your Vulcan mind?

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