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ORIGINAL: lally2

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ORIGINAL: Whiplashsmile4
Logically, I can not ignore what I saw (actions) not matching up with words. The way my mind works, I'm going to be asking questions similar to this...

"Okay If you're too sick to cut the grass, how is it that you're well enough to go jogging in the park?"

not my business at all, but whats with the present tense, i thought the whole point of this thread was to let em have it broadside - you know Asta La Vista Baby - and leave.

so actually, in a way, youve kinda manipulated us a tad - and this other bird - pot kettle black?

• People pretending to be going through difficult financial difficulties and are in great need of money. The sob line stories used to Quicky Con people out of money. Notice, I said pretending. This does not apply to people that honestly are faced with these issues for real.
  
• People making up stories to touch the heart as a means to establish an emotional connection with another person. It's a way of basically winning somebody's heart over.
  
• People setting another person emotionally off balance, and wear them down. This is not uncommon with Anti-Social Personality Disorder.
  
• People doing it for their own enjoyment and Jollies, to play with other people on the emotional level.
  

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

If you think it's gonna be a 'crazy bitch night' you take a cab, you pay with cash, you don't use your real name and you don't take them back home with you.

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also, look how hannah is now [Awaiting Approval]...that shit has got to cheer anyone the fuck up!

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Truth be told domi, I'd rather see you [Awaiting Approval], at least what she posts comes from who she is, rather than from an assumed persona. Maybe its just me, but I prefer reality-based honest opinion, however misguided, to the pseudo-street braggadocio of an imaginary character.

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You think Domi isn't being himself?... Actually, he is a funny guy, and I do not see his posts as not genuine. If you do not like him, that's your beeswax, but many of us do.

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ORIGINAL: Whiplashsmile4

It's been a long time, since I started a thread of any great substantial depth. I'm not the same person per se that I once was. I have more than one reason for starting this thread. Dare I admit, even ulterior motives. So what I have to express not only goes out to people on the message board, it's also with the intention of 2 specific people to read.

The topic being "The Bullshit Game of Empathy", which in itself seems to be a reoccurring theme on the message board. Those crafty clever excuses/lies people pull out to avoid the truth, not accept responsibility or just plain touch your heart. However, with the added touch of emotionally manipulating your compassion. Worse, yet if you don't fucking play along then you're made out to be the bad person, or worse yet you actually end up feeling bad.

Generally speaking, this where somebody either

• fabricates a complete story...or
  
• uses something awful that really has happened as an excuse.

After all how mad can you be at somebody, that stood you up, when there was a death in the family? When there car broke down and they had to walk for miles (elaborate story with lot's of details). Even more amazing is how they use past stories of shit that did really happen at one time to feed you, so that way they can keep their story straight.

What better way to tap into making somebody care about you, then to play upon their own human compassion even?

Suddenly, you become more concerned about the other persons welfare and well being as opposed to having hard feeling over something that's petty in comparison.

Some people actually bait and lure people into their world by laying out a completely false sob story on their profile. I'm not saying that all sob stories ain't real. Some of them actually are. However, for some people they know full well that they are hoping to bait somebody in.

I'm writing from a more generalized point of view right now. So it gives people in general something to seriously think about.

Some people won't think twice about making up stories about Cancer, Pregnancy, Medical Issues, Deaths, Family Crisis and a slew of other bullshit. This is Empathy Manipulation at it's extreme. Not everybody is extreme. I personally dealt this madness in it's extreme form. Worse yet, how the game is played on you will, and I assure you this will bring you down.

The none extreme forms of it, is using something that really happened as an Excuse.

• Such as their Car really did break down in the rain, however they did not bother calling you as promised, yet they could call all kinds of people looking for help on their cell phone.
  
• Somebody being so sick they can't IM with you because they need their rest to recover, yet can spend time otherwise online reading things and interacting with other people.

The whole "Ferris Bueller" run around, instead of being straight up with you about shit. It's pretty amazing the amount of lies or untruths people tell, which are centered around manipulating the empathy of another person.

I'd like to still like I'm a half way decent human being that sincerely cares about people. That my give-a-damn is not fully busted. However, I find it difficult to ignore it. When my gut instinct Spidey senses are off the charts, and things don't add up right. Yet I'm expected to be that good kind, loving and understanding person. This just pisses me off now days!

What I really despise with passion, is when you confront somebody on this, and they accuse you of creating Drama or trying to make you feel like shit about it. I despise it was a passion that I'll burn the bridge with a gasoline, pull the pin on the hand grenade and get things the fuck over and done with. Why? Because I deserve and simply want better, and I expect better. If you sincerely want to see how much of a heartless bastard I can be, play this game with me and you're ass is gone. I don't give a shit about how patient and understand us Doms are supposed to be. I will roll the way I need to be, to be true to myself.

Which is another Bullshit game people play!! Dominants or submissive are supposed to be this that or another fucking way. I will assure anybody I'm more than happy to stand out from behind whatever label or title and give them a piece of the real human being that's me.
I'll crank up Alice Coopers "No More Mr. Nice Guy" with an attitude too.

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

Whip, my brother, way too much emotional involvement.

This is like 'Nam out here, man! You can't afford to get too close because a lot of these fuckers ain't gonna be around here in the morning.


Dude, be glad this shit is behind you, if not, in time it soon enough will be.

Here is a tip...Stop fucking the crazies! Look, my brother, I know that fucking "the crazies" is some of the best fucking pussy one can ever obtain, but the long term costs are never worth the few memorable squirts.


Remember this shit that you are currently going through the next time you are staring a va-jay-jay square in the eye. Before you dive head first into the fucker take a very good look at the fucking thing that fucker is attached to. Is it sane? If not, just drop your goop and then tell them that your name is willbeurdaddy and get the fuck out of there.

Once your blood pressure has leveled off and the stroke has passed you are going to see how you really screwed the pooch on this one.

You believed the bitch but ignored all of the signs. You were looking at her slit instead of listening to her words and tracking her actions.

Another great thing about the crazies is that they are in fact fucking crazy. They will always blame others for all of their misfortunes, they will routinely complain about exes, they will have problems with their coworkers if they even some how manage to have a job.

Dude, consider yourself blessed. You are now free and clear of the killing zone. You got the fuck out alive.

I got to tell you...There is nothing as exciting as fucking in a minefield. Of course until your dick gets blown the fuck off.

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I draw the line at pee.

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ORIGINAL: HeatherMcLeather

Wouldn't having sex with any of the women on here sort of count as sex with a "bonkers" girl? Lets be honest about it, "Pull my hair, call me names, tie me up, hit me, and pee on me, then you can fuck me" isn't generally considered the most sane and stable approach to sex. [:D]

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ORIGINAL: HeatherMcLeather

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I draw the line at pee.

OK, but "Pull my hair, call me names, tie me up, and hit me, then you can fuck me" is only marginally less crazy [:D]