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Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: The Bullshit Game of Empathy (5/31/2011 8:29:09 PM)
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ORIGINAL: DesFIP
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ORIGINAL: Whiplashsmile4
- People doing it for their own enjoyment and Jollies, to play with other people on the emotional level.
Isn't that sadism? And you're surprised to find that here?
I'm glad getting the rant off your chest is helping some. However do keep in mind that the only person you will hurt by becoming a distrustful, suspicious person in response to this is you.
You aren't with the other person anymore, nothing you say will affect them. But by doing everything out of a reaction, instead of being in charge of your own actions, you allow them to still control you, every minute of every day. And that's not good for anyone, but it's laughable in someone who claims to be dominant.
DesFIP,
I assure you everything I'm doing not is out of reaction. I'm very much in charge of my actions, and I'm keenly aware of my choices and options. I also assure you, that this is not controlling me, let along controlling me every minute of the day. What I do express is that it's changed me as human being, where I look at things a little bit differently.
If I see a certain pattern of behavior unfolding in front of me. I'm not sorry in calling Bullshit for being Bullshit. How in the world does this somehow make me out of control? Even more so when I aware of the consequences of either... A. Pretending to not notice it B. calling bullshit on it?
So how exactly does this make it laughable from a human perspective as well as from a Dominant perspective? If somebody drops something on my foot, expect to hear a noise out of me. If they have intentionally stepped on my foot, prepare for a confrontation. Geeesshh, somehow I'm not Dominant if I respond or react to something?
Oh wait, us Doms.. are like statues made of Stone or Iron. We are all perfect creates shaped in the image of GODS. I keep forgetting that..
I am more than happy to wear my Human Being Label, if it makes my posting more to anybody's personal tastes and flavor. I'm not wanting to be everybody's Dominant either. Let along cater to being the stereotype image of it either. :-) I'll take the title of mere mortal human being in their minds.
Besides, I already straight up mentioned in a previous post... that I felt more like mush that had been chewed up and spat out onto the sidewalk... and it had left me feeling anything but Dominant for awhile.
I do get it what you're trying to express to me. I sincerely do. That can be me a distrustful and suspicious person. In some regards I am a little less trusting, or rather require a little more out of the Trust building process. There are some people I trust 100% then again, that's a solid trust that's been built over time. Not freely handed out my flyers in a parking lot somewhere.
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