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LadyPact -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/29/2011 6:31:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PhilSlave Actually everything i've said is true. Mostly though i've asked questions, and made a few statements. :-) Out of curiosity, how did the girlfriend sitting beside you react when you posted this question? I find I migrate to bdsm after vanilla relationships because I desire structure for a while with less emotion. Is this what BDSM is? http://www.collarchat.com/m_3692523/tm.htm

Arpig -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/29/2011 6:43:23 PM)
quote: Really creepy stuff. The more I think about it, the more..... weird it becomes. Nope, sorry. Wait till you chat with me, that's really weird and creepy shit. So, tell me about your little sister.....

CreepyStalker -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/29/2011 6:46:30 PM)
I think I see a solution to this issue... Give ME this lady's phone number instead. Yes, it is creepy of me to want that, but I'm honest about my creepiness so it's totally fine. I'll talk to her for a while and explain exactly how much fun she could be having if she abandons her vanilla ways and embraces some kinky possibilities. Inevitably she'll be won over by my enticing suggestions and I'll persuade her to join me, VC, Heather and Hannah in our extensive lesbianism. Phil will no longer have a girlfriend so the issue of verifying her existence will no longer be a problem. Plus, there'll be one more lesbian in the world. It's a win-win situation.

VaguelyCurious -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/29/2011 6:50:49 PM)
Mmmmm, extensive lesbianism...

Arpig -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/29/2011 7:10:55 PM)
You do know that the 4 of you are going to haunt my dreams for years to come.....extensive lesbianism...yes, I'm all for that!

tiggerspoohbear -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/29/2011 7:21:39 PM)
OMFG, Phil, do us all a favor, get yourself out into the world and leave us the hell alone. I can't call you a troll, there's only one Green One. And you sure as hell ain't him. But you are weird and creepy, and well, just weird and creepy with all your ridiculous threads. I don't like weird and creepy folks, they make me feel.............weird and creepy. [8D]

Icarys -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/29/2011 7:23:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious Mmmmm, extensive lesbianism... Ewww gross

SexyBossyBBW -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/29/2011 9:47:36 PM)
Why in the world would that be weird?! M

littlewonder -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/29/2011 10:10:27 PM)
dude, shut off the computer and get a life.

myotherself -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/29/2011 11:26:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact Maybe if she doesn't want to say anything, she could just tap the mic a few times. Tap, tap, tap. Maybe there's more than one of them! Sisters, perhaps? [8\|]

WyldHrt -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/30/2011 1:40:03 AM)
Could you perhaps use the words 'weird' and 'creepy' a few more times, OP? I don't think that you have made your point just yet. [8\|] I know many folks from the boards IRL, most of whom (I hope) would be happy to confirm my existence should someone ask, and those are just my friends. I really don't see the big deal about asking a partner to say 'hi', esp if I were to post that said partner was reading the boards with me.

PhilSlave -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/30/2011 1:41:30 AM)
It makes me smile so many 'regular posters' see nothing strange in it. I guess being online so much sensitises you, to things which to others offline more. Just seems strange and weird.

tiggerspoohbear -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/30/2011 2:47:31 AM)
Well you've changed weird to strange. You're expanding your vocabulary, good for you. Now learn to expand your mind and quit fretting about anyone stalking you, we really couldn't care less. You'er just not worth pursuing. So stop thinking you're all that and a bag of potato chips. Not gonna happen my friend.

PhilSlave -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/30/2011 2:49:33 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tiggerspoohbear Well you've changed weird to strange. You're expanding your vocabulary, good for you. Now learn to expand your mind and quit fretting about anyone stalking you, we really couldn't care less. You'er just not worth pursuing. So stop thinking you're all that and a bag of potato chips. Not gonna happen my friend. Calm yourself...... Obviously at least one poster wanted to know weird 'stuff' about me.

VaguelyCurious -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/30/2011 2:50:44 AM)
...so the fact that you have a girlfriend is 'weird stuff'? I'd call that 'fairly normal stuff'.

PhilSlave -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/30/2011 2:53:23 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious ...so the fact that you have a girlfriend is 'weird stuff'? I'd call that 'fairly normal stuff'. It is if they want to actually have a non poster talk to them yes. That's so weird as a number of others have agreed. I do understand the person asking weird stuff is a regular poster you converse with regularly though.

VaguelyCurious -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/30/2011 2:58:46 AM)
A non-poster who you specifically claimed was sitting right next to you reading and reacting, which suggests a level of involvement. I love that you're still cross about this in the morning.

Charnegui -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/30/2011 3:14:19 AM)
quote: So you're either a troll or a loser........or both. [sm=dontfeedtrolls.gif] That's exactly what I thought after reading just 2 pages [:D]

LadyConstanze -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/30/2011 3:27:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious quote: ORIGINAL: PhilSlave Weird even if she doubts my veracity to ask for proof from a third party and be that interested in someone's private life. That's not winding up 'dude', that's creepy. Nah. Pretty standard internet procedure - if someone's claiming either to be female or to be associated with a woman, you ask for a voice recording stating their username, and maybe the date or something. I've got one on my profile. She's not asking for intimate details, she's asking someone that you claim is sitting by you reading your posts to take a minute out of their life to pop in and say hello. Thanks VC! To the OP: Oh would that be me then? You know since you BRAGGED several times that your vanilla girlfriend knows all about you posting here, sits next to you and watches you post, I thought it would be prudent to actually verify that you DO indeed have a gf, now the chat or the voice recording would be completely anonymous, or do you think somebody could be outed or identified by a voice... I didn't ask for verification of your other exaggerated claims... Why do you have such a problem with recording the voice of your gf, stating she sits with you and reads your posts on CollarMe and you are only playing at BDSM and she dommes you if you request it? It would be an easy way to show you are not bullshitting, which is frankly something we all suspect you to do... Are you making this big deal out of it (mind you, you kept mentioning the gf, we didn't bring her up, you did) because she might not exist?

PhilSlave -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/30/2011 3:29:55 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze quote: ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious quote: ORIGINAL: PhilSlave Weird even if she doubts my veracity to ask for proof from a third party and be that interested in someone's private life. That's not winding up 'dude', that's creepy. Nah. Pretty standard internet procedure - if someone's claiming either to be female or to be associated with a woman, you ask for a voice recording stating their username, and maybe the date or something. I've got one on my profile. She's not asking for intimate details, she's asking someone that you claim is sitting by you reading your posts to take a minute out of their life to pop in and say hello. Thanks VC! To the OP: Oh would that be me then? You know since you BRAGGED several times that your vanilla girlfriend knows all about you posting here, sits next to you and watches you post, I thought it would be prudent to actually verify that you DO indeed have a gf, now the chat or the voice recording would be completely anonymous, or do you think somebody could be outed or identified by a voice... I didn't ask for verification of your other exaggerated claims... Why do you have such a problem with recording the voice of your gf, stating she sits with you and reads your posts on CollarMe and you are only playing at BDSM and she dommes you if you request it? It would be an easy way to show you are not bullshitting, which is frankly something we all suspect you to do... Are you making this big deal out of it (mind you, you kept mentioning the gf, we didn't bring her up, you did) because she might not exist? Look you asked something weird..... You can't defend it. It's weird and creepy. Stop stalking me.

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