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VaguelyCurious -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/30/2011 3:30:44 AM)
I think you and I have different definitions of the word 'stalking'.

PhilSlave -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/30/2011 3:33:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious I think you and I have different definitions of the word 'stalking'. Probably.

tiggerspoohbear -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/30/2011 3:52:15 AM)
Sorry Phil, but you don't know what being stalked is until you've really been stalked. I've been stocked online, my yahoo account was hacked, I was bombed with PMs to freeze my computer, my files were hacked, so was my PC and I was bombarded with viruses, trojans and worms. Personally stalked by an ex and his new g/f and 2 others, I spent 2 months sitting in the dark, terrified to watch TV or listen to the radio, wouldn't turn on lights at night and hid my car. I refused to park in my space and took to hiding it at the grocery store next door, various back streets and office buildings near to where I lived. I left my apartment only when needed and then was scared of who I'd find waiting for me in the underground garage, the stairwell and on my floor since I was right next to the exit staircase. No elevator, just a buzzer system that didn't allow you to identify who was coming, other tenants letting anyone in without knowing who it was. I was also threatened personally with physical injury at various times and had to involve the police on 3 different occasions. THAT'S being stalked. Not someone asking for you g/f to provide an anonymous voice recording. You (and by extension) she were not asked to meet someone in person or providing your phone # or address or any other personal information. No bank, credit card, SSN or anything else that would today be considered real personal info. That's not being stalked or "weird and creepy". From someone who's been there, had that done to me.

PhilSlave -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/30/2011 3:57:18 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tiggerspoohbear Sorry Phil, but you don't know what being stalked is until you've really been stalked. I've been stocked online, my yahoo account was hacked, I was bombed with PMs to freeze my computer, my files were hacked, so was my PC and I was bombarded with viruses, trojans and worms. Personally stalked by an ex and his new g/f and 2 others, I spent 2 months sitting in the dark, terrified to watch TV or listen to the radio, wouldn't turn on lights at night and hid my car. I refused to park in my space and took to hiding it at the grocery store next door, various back streets and office buildings near to where I lived. I left my apartment only when needed and then was scared of who I'd find waiting for me in the underground garage, the stairwell and on my floor since I was right next to the exit staircase. No elevator, just a buzzer system that didn't allow you to identify who was coming, other tenants letting anyone in without knowing who it was. I was also threatened personally with physical injury at various times and had to involve the police on 3 different occasions. THAT'S being stalked. Not someone asking for you g/f to provide an anonymous voice recording. You (and by extension) she were not asked to meet someone in person or providing your phone # or address or any other personal information. No bank, credit card, SSN or anything else that would today be considered real personal info. That's not being stalked or "weird and creepy". From someone who's been there, had that done to me. Is that why the sleep problems? I'm not going to share online, however, I have had things happen that let me know a great deal.... It ain't fun. Like I said I hope you're O.K.

thishereboi -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/30/2011 3:57:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: coookie She reads the forums and laughs with you ... she has interest. Phil you are being a silly little boy. He's lying through his teeth and pissed off because people are calling him on his bullshit. Personally I think he is the same troll who started a shitstorm of threads with the same veiled insults about 6 months or so ago. Same bullshit, same style, different name.

PhilSlave -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/30/2011 4:02:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: thishereboi quote: ORIGINAL: coookie She reads the forums and laughs with you ... she has interest. Phil you are being a silly little boy. He's lying through his teeth and pissed off because people are calling him on his bullshit. Personally I think he is the same troll who started a shitstorm of threads with the same veiled insults about 6 months or so ago. Same bullshit, same style, different name. Calm down boi, truly I am not lying and you can get my i.p. checked. Btw, the fact others share my views should tell you something.... It's not about me, it's about other things.

LadyConstanze -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/30/2011 4:03:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PhilSlave quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze quote: ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious quote: ORIGINAL: PhilSlave Weird even if she doubts my veracity to ask for proof from a third party and be that interested in someone's private life. That's not winding up 'dude', that's creepy. Nah. Pretty standard internet procedure - if someone's claiming either to be female or to be associated with a woman, you ask for a voice recording stating their username, and maybe the date or something. I've got one on my profile. She's not asking for intimate details, she's asking someone that you claim is sitting by you reading your posts to take a minute out of their life to pop in and say hello. Thanks VC! To the OP: Oh would that be me then? You know since you BRAGGED several times that your vanilla girlfriend knows all about you posting here, sits next to you and watches you post, I thought it would be prudent to actually verify that you DO indeed have a gf, now the chat or the voice recording would be completely anonymous, or do you think somebody could be outed or identified by a voice... I didn't ask for verification of your other exaggerated claims... Why do you have such a problem with recording the voice of your gf, stating she sits with you and reads your posts on CollarMe and you are only playing at BDSM and she dommes you if you request it? It would be an easy way to show you are not bullshitting, which is frankly something we all suspect you to do... Are you making this big deal out of it (mind you, you kept mentioning the gf, we didn't bring her up, you did) because she might not exist? Look you asked something weird..... You can't defend it. It's weird and creepy. Stop stalking me. REALLY? You mean you find it weird that I don't believe in your imaginary girlfriend (like most of us) and that I refuse to believe something a guy who pops up on the internet claims? Mind you a guy with a rather weird posting history, a guy NONE of us have ever met, a guy who claims something and is not willing to back it up, despite the fact that in no way it would compromise his anonymity? Stalking you? You must be joking! I just maintain your girlfriend and the rest of your claims are fictitious, as people pointed out, it would be very very easy to have this voice recording of your girlfriend up, just to show that you weren't bullshitting about this.... Stop side tracking and making wild accusations, it's a bank holiday in the UK, gf should have 2 minutes to make a voice recording, it's not going to interfere with anonymity in any way, shape of form, WHY ARE YOU SO AFRAID TO VERIFY THAT YOU ACTUALLY HAVE A GIRLFRIEND?

tiggerspoohbear -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/30/2011 4:03:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PhilSlave Is that why the sleep problems? I'm not going to share online, however, I have had things happen that let me know a great deal.... It ain't fun. Like I said I hope you're O.K. No, this happened years ago. I just suffer from insomnia, it has nothing to do with personal problems, it's a medical conditon. What I share online is nothing I'm ashamed of or worried about knowing, it usually answers serious questions where I think I can be of some help and make a person see that they're not the only one going through it.

PhilSlave -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/30/2011 4:04:18 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze Stop side tracking and making wild accusations, it's a bank holiday in the UK, gf should have 2 minutes to make a voice recording, it's not going to interfere with anonymity in any way, shape of form, WHY ARE YOU SO AFRAID TO VERIFY THAT YOU ACTUALLY HAVE A GIRLFRIEND? Stop stalking me. (modedit for excessive quotes-Mod21)

tiggerspoohbear -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/30/2011 4:05:11 AM)
Just. Not. Worth. It.

PhilSlave -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/30/2011 4:07:04 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tiggerspoohbear quote: ORIGINAL: PhilSlave Is that why the sleep problems? I'm not going to share online, however, I have had things happen that let me know a great deal.... It ain't fun. Like I said I hope you're O.K. No, this happened years ago. I just suffer from insomnia, it has nothing to do with personal problems, it's a medical conditon. What I share online is nothing I'm ashamed of or worried about knowing, it usually answers serious questions where I think I can be of some help and make a person see that they're not the only one going through it. Fair enough, look I wish you well. In regards to myself, i'm learning to share less personal stuff online. Shame really. I wish you well anyway.

thishereboi -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/30/2011 4:07:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PhilSlave quote: ORIGINAL: thishereboi quote: ORIGINAL: coookie She reads the forums and laughs with you ... she has interest. Phil you are being a silly little boy. He's lying through his teeth and pissed off because people are calling him on his bullshit. Personally I think he is the same troll who started a shitstorm of threads with the same veiled insults about 6 months or so ago. Same bullshit, same style, different name. Calm down boi, truly I am not lying and you can get my i.p. checked. Btw, the fact others share my views should tell you something.... It's not about me, it's about other things. You really don't know much about ip addresses, do you? And no, I am not a bit surprised.

LadyConstanze -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/30/2011 4:08:00 AM)
Hey, don't get your hopes up, nobody is stalking you, stop pretending you are, JUST BECAUSE YOU CAN'T BACK UP YOUR CLAIMS A very transparent method of side-tracking - you claim to have degrees? I doubt that too but the problem is we can't ask you to verify them, that would interfere with your anonymity, so I'm asking for something that will not... Funny how that scares you...

PhilSlave -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/30/2011 4:09:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze Hey, don't get your hopes up, nobody is stalking you, stop pretending you are, JUST BECAUSE YOU CAN'T BACK UP YOUR CLAIMS A very transparent method of side-tracking - you claim to have degrees? I doubt that too but the problem is we can't ask you to verify them, that would interfere with your anonymity, so I'm asking for something that will not... Funny how that scares you... Still stalking me I see.

LadyConstanze -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/30/2011 4:25:14 AM)
Stop lying, you are posting on a public board and you are unwilling to back up exaggerated claims... Funny that, you think repeating a lie over and over will make it more believable?

PhilSlave -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/30/2011 4:26:38 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze Stop lying, you are posting on a public board and you are unwilling to back up exaggerated claims... Funny that, you think repeating a lie over and over will make it more believable? You're still stalking :-) Calm down.

LadyConstanze -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/30/2011 4:28:33 AM)
Stop lying, I am posting on a public board where you are spreading lies. Calm down and back up your claims... Btw I reported some of your insults. In case you think I was breaking any rules, feel free to report me and we leave it to the moderators. How about that?

PhilSlave -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/30/2011 4:30:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze Stop lying, I am posting on a public board where you are spreading lies. Calm down and back up your claims... Btw I reported some of your insults. In case you think I was breaking any rules, feel free to report me and we leave it to the moderators. How about that? Calm down, why are you so angry and want my attention so much? Stop stalking me.

ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/30/2011 4:57:19 AM)
Is it too late in the thread to ask about butt hurt? I don't understand this phrase. Too much anal? Got a spanking? Bad headache where your brains reside? I'm feeling at a major disadvantage here, so someone please save me from my ignorance so I can participate in this enlightening thread.

NocturnalStalker -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/30/2011 5:39:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze Hey, don't get your hopes up, nobody is stalking you, stop pretending you are, JUST BECAUSE YOU CAN'T BACK UP YOUR CLAIMS A very transparent method of side-tracking - you claim to have degrees? I doubt that too but the problem is we can't ask you to verify them, that would interfere with your anonymity, so I'm asking for something that will not... Funny how that scares you... For all the intelligence a lot of you boast about possessing you sure do get riled up easy.

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