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RE: I have an offline real life gf, this has already ca... - 5/30/2011 10:56:55 AM

myotherself

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what can I say? I'm a culinary whizz!

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RE: I have an offline real life gf, this has already ca... - 5/30/2011 10:58:39 AM

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When inconsistencies abound, people are naturally going to wonder how valid your other claims are.

There must be some kind of cultural difference that I'm not getting. Over here, someone with a vanilla relationship who is interested in BDSM that doesn't include their primary partner, people are generally interested in that partner's views on the whole kink thing. Far too many cases of one person in the relationship coming onto BDSM sites without their partner's knowledge. It tends to be males who do this quite often.

As poly person, I've found that most folks who want to engage with Me in some way are also interested in My husband's views on all this. I had him create a profile here specifically for that reason. My sub has a profile here as well. It's very clearly Me that's pictured with them in both of their primary photos.

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RE: I have an offline real life gf, this has already ca... - 5/30/2011 10:59:35 AM

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what can I say? I'm a culinary whizz!

Uh huh. Now ask da bunny about those lil black thingies on her pizza.

I dare ya !!

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RE: I have an offline real life gf, this has already ca... - 5/30/2011 11:00:40 AM

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When inconsistencies abound, people are naturally going to wonder how valid your other claims are.

There must be some kind of cultural difference that I'm not getting. Over here, someone with a vanilla relationship who is interested in BDSM that doesn't include their primary partner, people are generally interested in that partner's views on the whole kink thing. Far too many cases of one person in the relationship coming onto BDSM sites without their partner's knowledge. It tends to be males who do this quite often.

As poly person, I've found that most folks who want to engage with Me in some way are also interested in My husband's views on all this. I had him create a profile here specifically for that reason. My sub has a profile here as well. It's very clearly Me that's pictured with them in both of their primary photos.

You can defend it all you want and I respect your right to have your view. To me, it's damn creepy thing to do.

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RE: I have an offline real life gf, this has already ca... - 5/30/2011 11:02:17 AM

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I can assure you, LadyP, that there are no cultural differences in this particular situation.

I would only hope that, if the OP ever finds someone, he will furnish proof to the other party.

But I won't hold my breath.

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RE: I have an offline real life gf, this has already ca... - 5/30/2011 11:06:02 AM

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No, it's a question based on interaction. I don't think it's creepy when folks ask Me how things work in My household. (By the way, you are rather obsessed with that word.) I still haven't figured out why you identify as a slave (from your user name) or why you would care to identify as a submissive. You also seem to have a disconnect about the fact that lifestyle Dommes on the site and a number of other issues.

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RE: I have an offline real life gf, this has already ca... - 5/30/2011 11:27:44 AM

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No, it's a question based on interaction. I don't think it's creepy when folks ask Me how things work in My household. (By the way, you are rather obsessed with that word.) I still haven't figured out why you identify as a slave (from your user name) or why you would care to identify as a submissive. You also seem to have a disconnect about the fact that lifestyle Dommes on the site and a number of other issues.

What do you mean disconnect and who says i'm submissive?

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RE: I have an offline real life gf, this has already ca... - 5/30/2011 11:28:56 AM

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Phil. YOU say you are, on your profile. YOU call yourself "slave".

Not that anyone ever lies on the internet, of course.

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RE: I have an offline real life gf, this has already ca... - 5/30/2011 11:29:20 AM

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Well, there's the profile. Lady C was good enough to post that. Plus, you just don't see many Dominant men who add the word "slave" to their screen name.

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RE: I have an offline real life gf, this has already ca... - 5/30/2011 11:31:39 AM

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Well, there's the profile. Lady C was good enough to post that. Plus, you just don't see many Dominant men who add the word "slave" to their screen name.

That profile is weird I think i must have been hackedzor. The screen name is political not sexual. I am a wage slave. :-)

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RE: I have an offline real life gf, this has already ca... - 5/30/2011 11:33:47 AM

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Hacked by whom? Really, Phil, I expected a better save from you.

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RE: I have an offline real life gf, this has already ca... - 5/30/2011 11:35:06 AM

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Did you come up with that one before or after you got busted?

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RE: I have an offline real life gf, this has already ca... - 5/30/2011 11:36:09 AM

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The screen name is political not sexual. I am a wage slave. :-)

On a BDSM site? Do you have any idea how ridiculous that sounds?

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RE: I have an offline real life gf, this has already ca... - 5/30/2011 11:38:05 AM

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The screen name is political not sexual. I am a wage slave. :-)

On a BDSM site? Do you have any idea how ridiculous that sounds?

The next logical question: does he care....

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RE: I have an offline real life gf, this has already ca... - 5/30/2011 11:38:40 AM

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That profile is weird I think i must have been hackedzor.

Incorrect.

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RE: I have an offline real life gf, this has already ca... - 5/30/2011 11:38:46 AM

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Of course he doesn't care.

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RE: I have an offline real life gf, this has already ca... - 5/30/2011 11:40:03 AM

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The screen name is political not sexual. I am a wage slave. :-)

On a BDSM site? Do you have any idea how ridiculous that sounds?

The next logical question: does he care....

No, but seriously - that's like going onto a craft forum, calling yourself 'Needles220' and then saying 'oh no I hate knitting, I'm only called that 'cuz I'm diabetic'. It's that level of stupid.

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RE: I have an offline real life gf, this has already ca... - 5/30/2011 11:42:06 AM

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No, but seriously - that's like going onto a craft forum, calling yourself 'Needles220' and then saying 'oh no I hate knitting, I'm only called that 'cuz I'm diabetic'. It's that level of stupid.

Agreed, but it's also funny as hell when somebody has to reach so far up their ass to even find that kind of crap.

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RE: I have an offline real life gf, this has already ca... - 5/30/2011 11:43:02 AM

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The screen name is political not sexual. I am a wage slave. :-)

Fine. Send me all your wages and shut the hell up.

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RE: I have an offline real life gf, this has already ca... - 5/30/2011 11:43:49 AM

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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

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ORIGINAL: PhilSlave

The screen name is political not sexual. I am a wage slave. :-)

On a BDSM site? Do you have any idea how ridiculous that sounds?

The next logical question: does he care....

No, but seriously - that's like going onto a craft forum, calling yourself 'Needles220' and then saying 'oh no I hate knitting, I'm only called that 'cuz I'm diabetic'. It's that level of stupid.