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Sex and Psychiatry ? - 6/2/2011 4:28:02 AM   
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After reading vast tracts of psychiatric papers and reports on the subject of sexual perversions, a question formed in my mind along the lines of what moral right do these people have to comment on the sexual practices of others ?

Now I do understand such research is useful in the cases where distress or  harm is being created, be that physical or mental, but judging by the plethora of theories that exist, they are just theories, no hard and fast facts, so I question their value.

But, I suppose, if we were to live in an ideal world, people and their perversions would be seen as just part of life, the live and let live scenario, but it seems we do not live in that idyll and we have a so called learned profession delving into the intimacies of others, perhaps even themselves via others, and that as I became aware a while in the past, many of the psychiatric profession possess psychiatric problems themselves and one whom I knew even said they entered the profession to understand themself, but is failing in that, as others are not themselves.

Now, my personal understanding of sexual perversion in myself is it is a question that needs and answer, so I may do what I do to gain that answer and then move onto the next question, but a lot of that has to do with my self defined spirituality, parallels of which I do not know if it exists elsewhere past, foreign or present. If I do not arrive at a satisfactory conclusion, the question takes a different method of approach and that I see as my evolving interests, but whatever answer there is to be obtained, will be obtained in the best method possible, that of enjoyment and pleasure.

Sexual perversion I view as the games adults play in order to well basically enjoy themselves as all work and no play makes jack a dull boy and dull in many ways, which can lead to problems the psych profession will be interested in. But also in that play is learning, for we need to learn and evolve as a result of that learning.

But the impression I am arriving at is that the psych profession is seeking to define people based upon just happen to fit theories and theories that have no answer except uppers, downers and further analysis under duress - what the courts can do on the advice from the psychiatric profession.

So, what are your views, does psychiatry have a valid moral right to be delving into the sexual perversions of people, or are they overstepping their duties ?


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RE: Sex and Psychiatry ? - 6/2/2011 4:39:53 AM   
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I've yet to meet a shrink who gave a damn what I did in my bedroom. In fact I had one I told I was a masochist and was hooking up with people to feed that need and his response was along the lines of well has it decreased your self-harm tendencies? Most of the professionals I've encountered haven't cared what I was doing as long as I was doing it safely. Of course there's always the random judgmental whore that you meet with once or twice and then fire fast as you can. But if you can normally just walk away from those people. No one makes you stay with a doc/therapist. If they're the wrong fit, they're the wrong fit. You're allowed to break up with them.

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RE: Sex and Psychiatry ? - 6/2/2011 4:52:54 AM   
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You know, the only conversation my ex psychiatrist and I had about sex was strictly concerned with the side effects of antidepressants on libido and ability to reach orgasm. My ex-therapist thought it made sense I was drawn to a power relationship as an antidote to all the stress I was under.

Neither of them cared at all about what I did until it affected how I could handle my life. Which is how you diagnose a paraphilia. If you've got a hardon for high heels, then spending Sunday morning oohing and aahing over the ads in the paper for stilettoes is fine. Not being able to pay your rent because you bought ten pairs of Jimmy Choos is not. Obviously if you wind up jobless and homeless because of your fetish for stillettoes, then you have a problem. If you decide two pairs of shoes is better than going on vacation to the Caribbean, you don't have a problem.

Are they as medical professionals morally bound to try to help the shoe fetishist who is in danger of living under a bridge when he walks in the office? Hell yes. And the one who hasn't gotten a date in four years because he never looks at a woman's eyes, only her feet, and he's lonely? Also yes.


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RE: Sex and Psychiatry ? - 6/2/2011 5:22:14 AM   
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I have to agree.

Psychiatry likes to present itself as a science, but it meets very few of the standards necessary for genuine scientific knowledge or practice. It's important to remember that psychiatry is based on unproven theories. These are, of course, as valid as any other theory and people can choose to believe in them or not. But they are not facts. It has never been proven that we have an unconscious, that it manifests itself in dreams or that we have unconscious sexual desires. (I'm pretty conscious of what turns me on actually, lol.)

Psychiatry also practices an interesting vicious circle when it comes to sexuality. It bases its definition of 'normal' on the values and standards of society. Yet it creates those same values and standards through its creation of the concept of 'mental illness' and what constitutes 'illness'. Prior to the rise of psychiatry in the 1800s, those who practiced flogging, self flagellation and other acts were thought of as unusual but not ill or a threat to society. It was psychologists and sexologists who created the labels 'sadism' and 'masochism' and declared anyone practicing them to be abnormal. This still holds true today, where sadism and masochism are considered 'paraphilas' in the psychiatric catalogues of many countries and organisations (such as the World Health Organisation).

It is interesting to note that, as Foucault so cleverly noted, psychiatry turned sodomy from a banned activity to a criminal lifestyle. Previously, sodomy had been a crime which anyone could commit. Now the homosexual was a 'sick' and stigmatised individual, whose mere existence was revolting to 'normal' society. Up until the 60s, psychiatry labeled homosexuality as a mental illness, and there are still psychiatrists who will try to 'cure' it.

And finally, oral sex was originally considered sadomasochistic by the psychiatrists. Not only was it abnormal, but one had to be sadistic to desire it, or masochistic to want to give it.

For interesting reading, I would consider Michel Foucault's The History of Sexuality, or Thomas Szasz 'The Myth of Mental Illness'. Szasz is very controversial, but he does a great job of exposing the utterly shaky foundations of the psychiatric profession. Failing that, wikipedia's entry on the anti-psychiatry movement is very enjoyable and enlightening for anyone who suddenly has a naked lunch moment regarding the psychiatric profession.

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RE: Sex and Psychiatry ? - 6/2/2011 5:47:04 AM   
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Very interesting post, thank you, for I was not aware that there was an anti psychiatry movement, but perhaps the existence of such has the added benefit that they keep check on the rampaging psych profession, who will, if it can control the minds of all, the politicians and law makers especially.

If it is accepted that the ultimate goal of everyone is to ensure they have the basics for survival, I can well understand those who seek to insert themselves in prominent and often well paid professions, therefore the ultimate need is self enrichment, not the welfare of others, and it is this reason why I feel we have to be aware of the theorists.


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RE: Sex and Psychiatry ? - 6/2/2011 6:18:56 AM   
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I have to agree.

Psychiatry likes to present itself as a science, but it meets very few of the standards necessary for genuine scientific knowledge or practice. It's important to remember that psychiatry is based on unproven theories. These are, of course, as valid as any other theory and people can choose to believe in them or not. But they are not facts. It has never been proven that we have an unconscious, that it manifests itself in dreams or that we have unconscious sexual desires. (I'm pretty conscious of what turns me on actually, lol.)


Psychiatry isn't a theory, it's a branch of medicine. You're confusing it with psychoanalysis.


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RE: Sex and Psychiatry ? - 6/2/2011 6:20:28 AM   
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Sadism is in the DSM IV and i think it should stay since it stipulates that there MUST have a non-consenting participant. Masochism is also there still and one of the stipulations for it to be considered a disorder that it causes the individual distress and dysfunction in their lives.

These terms are often misused (like fetish) and people get their panties in a knot.
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RE: Sex and Psychiatry ? - 6/2/2011 6:29:01 AM   
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what moral right do these people have to comment on the sexual practices of others ?


When those sexual perversions are pathological, they have every right and responsibility to research and and hopefully find treatments. This is people's mental health we're talking about, not the things we're doing for fun. Not suggesting their aren't biases/ignorance/misuses involved, but psychiatric diagnoses and DSM criteria have very little to do with BDSM.


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RE: Sex and Psychiatry ? - 6/2/2011 6:46:02 AM   
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does psychiatry have a valid moral right to be delving into the sexual perversions of people, or are they overstepping their duties ?

I am in principle opposed to any act that hurts and/or damages the body or mind, unless it occurs by an act of the Divine - which might use a human as a tool to effect that act.

Do moral rights exist? Morality does exist, but rights are either given or taken.

Scientists will investigate anything that takes their fancy. Some are awarded for their very peculiar research with an Ignobel Award.

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RE: Sex and Psychiatry ? - 6/2/2011 6:47:37 AM   
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what moral right do these people have to comment on the sexual practices of others ?


When those sexual perversions are pathological, they have every right and responsibility to research and and hopefully find treatments. This is people's mental health we're talking about, not the things we're doing for fun. Not suggesting their aren't biases/ignorance/misuses involved, but psychiatric diagnoses and DSM criteria have very little to do with BDSM.



So, have you ever questioned why it is you like what you like, your perversions, why them, and not others, for surely the psych profession can make suggestions, perhaps some of it founded and some of it unfounded, yet as a branch of medicine as you say, tell me, do they know everything, or is their approach to medicine made upon theories or actual fact ?

Because the DSM 'bible' exists, it is not to say it is correct, or else why so many revisions.

Does it not occur those things that we like, we enjoy might have a root, a reason why we like them, or is it you are just concerned with what you like, not why you like and not consider the possibilities that what you like might be seen as a problem by the wrong professional eyes, if ever through whatever reason you manage to come under their beady eye.

Hell, even masturbation was seen as a mental ilness at one time, and before that, the work of the devil, therefore could it be psychiatry just like religion can be an effective tool for use by those who dissaprove.

As to BDSM and the DSM bible having no relationship to each other, well just a simple google search reveals a different perspective ;

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RE: Sex and Psychiatry ? - 6/2/2011 7:06:09 AM   
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what moral right do these people have to comment on the sexual practices of others ?


When those sexual perversions are pathological, they have every right and responsibility to research and and hopefully find treatments. This is people's mental health we're talking about, not the things we're doing for fun. Not suggesting their aren't biases/ignorance/misuses involved, but psychiatric diagnoses and DSM criteria have very little to do with BDSM.



So, have you ever questioned why it is you like what you like, your perversions, why them, and not others,

While that's all well and good and interesting, it's a question for psychology and possibly sociology and anthropology. It's not the realm of psychiatry.


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for surely the psych profession can make suggestions, perhaps some of it founded and some of it unfounded, yet as a branch of medicine as you say, tell me, do they know everything, or is their approach to medicine made upon theories or actual fact ?


It's based upon evidence, as is all medicine. They do not know everything, that's the point of doing research.

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Does it not occur those things that we like, we enjoy might have a root, a reason why we like them, or is it you are just concerned with what you like, not why you like and not consider the possibilities that what you like might be seen as a problem by the wrong professional eyes, if ever through whatever reason you manage to come under their beady eye.


I indulge in consensual sadomasochistic activities with friends, which I can stop at any time. So no, this is not something that will be seen as a problem. My activities are a million miles away from those of the sexual sadist who kidnaps non-consensually tortures and rapes a random victim.

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Hell, even masturbation was seen as a mental ilness at one time, and before that, the work of the devil, therefore could it be psychiatry just like religion can be an effective tool for use by those who dissaprove.


I stated that it can obviously be misused, but that does not make it wrong in itself.


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RE: Sex and Psychiatry ? - 6/2/2011 7:32:12 AM   
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Psychiatry as a science is past it's infancy, but it's still in the toddler stage - psychiatry as a human institution is prone to all the flaws inherent in any and all human institutions, including political pressure, institutional bias, etc.

In my opinion, anthropology is a better starting point for psychology than anything else, that is the body of evidence of human behavior - you try to establish a baseline of "normal" behavior without looking at what people actually do, or have been doing throughout history, and you're just going to produce a subjective abstraction of current normative behavior, which is going to be prone to the entire spectrum of logical fallacy and cognitive bias - reason is a tool, to be applied to account for empirical evidence: logic in a vacuum is sterile and meaningless.

I recommend reading history instead, try Burgo Partridge's A History of Orgies for a start, it's much more entertaining - he editorializes a bit, but his reasoning is sound.

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RE: Sex and Psychiatry ? - 6/2/2011 7:57:43 AM   
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After reading vast tracts of psychiatric papers and reports on the subject of sexual perversions, a question formed in my mind along the lines of what moral right do these people have to comment on the sexual practices of others ?  Moral right?  Do they claim any?  Or do they offer theories about "why"

Now I do understand such research is useful in the cases where distress or  harm is being created, be that physical or mental, that's why they do it..... but judging by the plethora of theories that exist, they are just theories, no hard and fast facts, so I question their value.  see above italics as to their value

But, I suppose, if we were to live in an ideal world, people and their perversions would be seen as just part of life, the live and let live scenario, but it seems we do not live in that idyll and we have a so called learned profession delving into the intimacies of others, perhaps even themselves via others, and that as I became aware a while in the past, many of the psychiatric profession possess psychiatric problems themselves and one whom I knew even said they entered the profession to understand themself, but is failing in that, as others are not themselves.

Now, my personal understanding of sexual perversion in myself is it is a question that needs and answer, so I may do what I do to gain that answer and then move onto the next question, but a lot of that has to do with my self defined spirituality, parallels of which I do not know if it exists elsewhere past, foreign or present. If I do not arrive at a satisfactory conclusion, the question takes a different method of approach (so you are devising theories, examining them, rejecting, developing others-which is what psych theorist do....) and that I see as my evolving interests, but whatever answer there is to be obtained, will be obtained in the best method possible, that of enjoyment and pleasure.

Sexual perversion (why do you call it perverse?)I view as the games adults play in order to well basically enjoy themselves as all work and no play makes jack a dull boy and dull in many ways, which can lead to problems the psych profession will be interested in. But also in that play is learning, for we need to learn and evolve as a result of that learning.  learning, evolving, also knows as postulating theories.....

But the impression I am arriving at is that the psych profession is seeking to define people based upon just happen to fit theories and theories that have no answer except uppers, downers and further analysis under duress - what the courts can do on the advice from the psychiatric profession.  theories that often seem to fit......and have many useful ideas in addition to uppers, downers and further methods of therapy-which is as someone pointed out-different that psycholanylis

So, what are your views, does psychiatry have a valid moral right to be delving into the sexual perversions of people, or are they overstepping their duties ?  what are their duties in your opinion?  Moral right?  do most psychiatrsts deal with moral? or mental health-which usually involves terms like consent, phrases like "do no harm" etc
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RE: Sex and Psychiatry ? - 6/2/2011 8:22:32 AM   
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Psychiatry isn't a theory, it's a branch of medicine. You're confusing it with psychoanalysis.


Actually my post applies equally to both sides of the profession. The medical side of psychiatry is as bad, if not worse, than than 'talking cure' side, if only because talking causes limited damage. Lobotomies and electric shock treatment never cured anything, and neither will the latest batch of treatments. Psychiatrists prescribe medicine to people who have never been shown to suffer from any physical illness, and without that medicine having been proven to cure any physical illness. It is dangerous and profit driven, and just as unscientific as the psychological side of psychiatry.

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RE: Sex and Psychiatry ? - 6/2/2011 8:25:29 AM   
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What most people resent is the pathologising of human behavior. So, psychiatrists as has been mentioned above are medical physicians who concentrate on treating symptoms which are distressing to people and society. They also treat, sometimes involuntarily, people convicted of aberrant sexual behaviors, like sexual predators with children. All behavior runs a continuum so to speak. In my own study of BDSM, I've come to believe that consent is not a valid marker for health. At times, both the sadist and masochist can consent to uncounscionable behaviors. I have gone over the line myself at times in my submission and used the therapy couch to understand the why and to control the dangerous behavor.
Many pro dominas would tell you that some of their clients are physicians or other mental health workers. We are all prone to the dynamics of BDSM or D/s. If a particular professional mental health worker is shaming or demeaning, find another one who is open minded enough to actually help you.

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RE: Sex and Psychiatry ? - 6/2/2011 8:26:27 AM   
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If we are to just look at your statement, the flaws are obvious.

Years ago, blood letting was an actual medical treatment. Doctors (not psyciatrists) have since learned, it is a bad thing.

The term "hysteria" was originally attached to females and was a medical term.

Yes, pyschiatry once labled homosexuality a "mental illness." But they were trying to understand it, which is more than society as a whole was doing. It is a rarity today to find a reputable psychiatrist who still makes that claim. It's called progress.

In the medical community, fibromyalgia is still not wholly accepted as existing. This isn't a psychiatric thing, it is a MEDICAL THING.

The DSM doesn't contain simply unproven theories. Studies have been done over years, listing the common behaviors and situations that exist for the various mental illnesses listed. Therefore, like it or not, yes, much of it is "fact." Maybe not fact by what you want it to be, but fact all the same.

What moral right do they have? Pedophilia is a crime and it is a mental illness. Does your "live and let live" hypothesis work for that as well?

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RE: Sex and Psychiatry ? - 6/2/2011 8:29:04 AM   
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Psychiatry isn't a theory, it's a branch of medicine. You're confusing it with psychoanalysis.


Actually my post applies equally to both sides of the profession. The medical side of psychiatry is as bad, if not worse, than than 'talking cure' side, if only because talking causes limited damage. Lobotomies and electric shock treatment never cured anything, and neither will the latest batch of treatments. Psychiatrists prescribe medicine to people who have never been shown to suffer from any physical illness, and without that medicine having been proven to cure any physical illness. It is dangerous and profit driven, and just as unscientific as the psychological side of psychiatry.

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I guess you don't read the latest then. ECT (electric shock therapy) has been modified and has been a blessing for a great many people. It isn't the electric shock therapy of horror movies and documentaries of the 50s and 60s. It is a valid treatment. It is also a treatment of last resort.

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RE: Sex and Psychiatry ? - 6/2/2011 8:30:40 AM   
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So, what are your views, does psychiatry have a valid moral right to be delving into the sexual perversions of people, or are they overstepping their duties ?


Freud and Krafft-Ebing left their mark not only on the world of psychology and psychoanalysis, but broader western culture's mores and beliefs about sexual pathology. Combined with the mental straight jacket of religious institutionalization, that one-two punch made common western culture sexually dysfunctional in many respects—a curse we are just only know gaining traction upon in shaking off a little, but old habits die hard. Prevailing attitudes and myths of normalcy dictate what is considered normal or abnormal, and truisms about "normalcy" in psychoanalysis cater to that reality. In that respect, if we really believe in notions of freedom and liberty for each human being, we cannot justify majority consensus limiting what we can or cannot do for our own personal happiness, so long as it does not cause suffering or duress for those unwilling or uninvolved. It is for this reason the surrounding mainstream must be continually prodded to change and expand its thinking, to the degree it doesn't feel the obligation to police bedroom practices.

Psychoanalysts have a valid intellectual right to delve into clear pathologies that dangerously threaten people, however. Alternative sexuality is hardly where I'd begin my search for the base causes of these behaviors, however.

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RE: Sex and Psychiatry ? - 6/2/2011 2:52:34 PM   
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The best therapies are the ones that deal with your emotions and get to the root cause, psychiatry seems to be a lot more logical and doesnt usually get to the bottom of stuff

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RE: Sex and Psychiatry ? - 6/2/2011 2:58:38 PM   
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what moral right do these people have to comment on the sexual practices of others ?




Well the short answer to that is "They have as much moral right to comment on the sexual practices of others as any of us do".

The question might have been "what qualifies them to comment on the sexual practices of others?"

The answer to that one would be the fact that they've done a ton of research into those sexual practices and likely have done more of it than any of us have....

I think that times have moved on a great deal, there is far less "moral" judgement at play now, and much more "health-oriented judgement". As others have said - it's uncommon for a shrink (be she a Psychologist of Psychiatrist) to judge someone for enjoying kink if it didn't adversely affect their health or that of others.

Now... who decides whether an activity adversely affects your health or that of others.... I'd have an opinion, but it wouldn't be worth much, given how utterly unqualified I am to give such an opinion.

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