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What do people like about cbt? - 6/3/2011 8:49:09 AM

ryansub1

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Hi

As I have read more and more about domination... i've noticed that some dommes love cbt, and some subs actually enjoy receiving it...?

I suppose I can understand why dommes enjoy it, but why do sub men enjoy it? Surely it is very painful to be hit on the balls? I know some people enjoy a bit of pain like spanking and whipping, but being hit in the balls is excruciating.

Thanks in advance for any responses

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RE: What do people like about cbt? - 6/3/2011 8:52:18 AM

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It's called Masochism... nuff said.

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RE: What do people like about cbt? - 6/3/2011 9:01:31 AM

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i am also skeptical about the pain factor... but i am really aroused by it... for me the feeling is this

i am owned by my misstress.. and one day she feels like kicking my balls and hurting me.. perfect !! .. whoes toy am i anyway.. and what am i a slave for if not to be used and abused by my mistress.. i know that it will be painfull.. she knows its going to be painfull.. still i let her hurt me... its kinda trusting that person too.. so it adds to the feeling..

its like ... maam.. i trust u with my body... u can use it anyway u want... its for you that i am taking in all this pain...

I am thinking maybe its this feeling of having the right to abuse the slave is what turns on the domme too?.. buti dont know 4 sure..

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RE: What do people like about cbt? - 6/3/2011 9:03:11 AM

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As a male Dom, it makes NO damn sense to Me but different strokes for different folks and all that.

I much prefer cbTLC

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RE: What do people like about cbt? - 6/3/2011 2:20:55 PM

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I don't get it either, it's a limit for me :/

I find that being hit there isn't even about pain. It creates a feeling of sickness :X
I've never seen how that can be enjoyable

regarding masochism, I think there are some places on the body - buttocks, upper back, most muscles, which are fine to hit, cause a bit of pain, etc. There are other places where being hit is more than just pain and starts to go into the realm of injury and danger. I doubt any responsible dominant would punch their sub in the kidneys. I classify this pretty much the same way.

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RE: What do people like about cbt? - 6/3/2011 2:44:05 PM

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Like I said... it's called Masochism, and if you are a masochist, you most likely love it. Like a lot of other things we talk about daily, in here, it's not everyone's cup. Keep in mind though, that pouring hot wax on your own dick is a , mild though, form of cbt

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RE: What do people like about cbt? - 6/3/2011 2:52:54 PM

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I'm a sub and a masochist. I absolutely love receiving it.

I like the intensity of pain within my limits and I like to give control away to a woman. The control reasons are obvious, but it is a part of the body that isn't touched often (well...not by others) and the sensations are very different be they pleasurable or painful. That's what I really love about it.

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RE: What do people like about cbt? - 6/3/2011 3:00:30 PM

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CBT appeals to different people for different reasons, natch.

Some people play in highly ritualized and ornate scenarios, and I can see the appeal to those scenes although I have to be in the right frame of mind to enjoy them myself!

But from my own peculiar point of view, being kneed/punched in the nuts out of the blue is something that a) on one level I hate (because I'm being punched in the nuts! that's why!) but b) really fuckin' turns me on. Why? Because I'm a straight male masochist who is almost always at least several inches taller and appreciably physically stronger than my partner, but I really love the feeling of being overwhelmed and overpowered. Obviously there are plenty of hot, complicated ways to reach a state of being utterly overwhelmed and absolutely vulnerable but when it comes to something quick and dirty and sort of spur of the moment getting hit in the nuts by a girl who gets turned on hitting me in the nuts gives me that mixture of pain/vulnerability/misery and humiliation that really gets me off as a masochist. Best of all there is no need to suspend disbelief or roleplay anything!

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ORIGINAL: ryansub1

Hi

As I have read more and more about domination... i've noticed that some dommes love cbt, and some subs actually enjoy receiving it...?

I suppose I can understand why dommes enjoy it, but why do sub men enjoy it? Surely it is very painful to be hit on the balls? I know some people enjoy a bit of pain like spanking and whipping, but being hit in the balls is excruciating.

Thanks in advance for any responses

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RE: What do people like about cbt? - 6/3/2011 3:11:57 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ParappaTheDapper

But from my own peculiar point of view, being kneed/punched in the nuts out of the blue is something that a) on one level I hate (because I'm being punched in the nuts! that's why!) but b) really fuckin' turns me on.

ohhhh.....I totally neglected to mention that. I enjoy good stiff attention getters that come out of nowhere. A good surprise that can't be ignored and takes me completely off guard. A slap to the face or a good shot between the legs are a major turn on for me.

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RE: What do people like about cbt? - 6/3/2011 3:24:42 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ryansub1

I suppose I can understand why dommes enjoy it, but why do sub men enjoy it? Surely it is very painful to be hit on the balls? I know some people enjoy a bit of pain like spanking and whipping, but being hit in the balls is excruciating.

It's been my impression from the guys I've played with that serious whipping or spanking often hurts more than light CBT. (I'm guessing from your profile that you've never done either.) Bear in mind that being punched in the balls would be a rather extreme and risky form of CBT, while for most people something gentle would be more appropriate.

For a sexual masochist, CBT makes a certain kind of sense - you get your sexual stimulation and your pain at the same time. Also, some men seem to think of their genitals as the seat of their power, and enjoy having that power used against them. Other people hate it. Some of those love hating it so much that they seek it out.

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RE: What do people like about cbt? - 6/3/2011 7:08:59 PM

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Oh what the hell it, I'm going indulge in making a post on this thread.

Personally, I hate being hit in the balls cause it hurts like hell. I can deal with it to a limited degree, cause I have a Masochistic streak. However if it's extremely hard, My eyes are wanting to jump out my skull. I've taken it to the balls really hard from playing Street Hockey. I know the experience extremely well. It's not a pleasurable experience of any kind, though it's an intense mental ride. The state of head space it tosses you into is like temporary living Hell. The best part of it is the feeling from snapping out of it. So mentally I can perhaps relate partially to why some guys might enjoy it. I'm just not one of those.

However, when it comes to Cock torture. There are some form of it I Love and Hate. Damn, I know I must sound like one complicated Dude posting here at times. LOL

My first enjoyable experience with having somebody take hold of my cock in a hurtful rough way, one which blew my mind and their mind too, was when I was teenager. Messing around playing in a pool with a girl that lived in my Aunts neighborhood one summer. The whole splashing water and rough housing having fun. Slowly working up to more sadoMaso play in our play! Typical rough housing around play. Anyways, she started taking her fingers and digging her nails into my arms and such, discovering that it had Zero Impact on me. (keep in mind I have a Maso streak). So what's a girl to do, to try next in this battling game of rough house and fun play? LOL

She was full of herself believing she'd win this playful game, by taking her hand and grabbing my cock and squeezing hard with her finger nails digging into my meat! LOL LOL hahahaha... All it did was making me Harder than Hell!! She had this little smile of victory on her face at first. Thinking Uhhh Ahh.. I got you now!! I still remember her look turn to one of shock, then looking at my face.... Our eyes locked into deep contact, and me giving her a wicked smile!! hahahaha...

Then reality hitting her... and OMG You actually fucking like this!! It was at the moment when she finally realized, that I was not like the other guys she's played around with. Case in point where being Maso prevents others from truly siezing control or being able to win at topping your ass. LOL (ohhhh the first memories of when one encounteres new things or pleasures in life). I be honest I love my cock being played with hard at times. Not all the time, just makes things more interesting. Diversity is a bitch.

Now on the other hand, I'm not keen on having anything shoved or stuffed down inside my man-hood! Good lord, I discovered this years ago when I went for STD testing. I was asked if I wanted to take some other tests outside of HIV... and dumb ass me, agreed without knowing WTF I was getting myself into. I will say this, it's some mind blowing pain and I'm proud to have taken it like a man. However is nothing I want to repeat ever again, unless it's needed. Again, though I can understand the sensations and why somebody might seek it out. It's a bit like having your mind completely shut the fuck down and go off into LaLa Land...and coming back out of it with OMG I can't believe WTF just happened.

Personally, I like to stick with the kind of pain I find pleasure in, so I guess I'm sort of Masochistic but not really. Though I do pride myself on being able to take shit like a man, also take pride in the fact my pain tolerence is higher than most. Go figure.

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RE: What do people like about cbt? - 6/3/2011 7:17:31 PM

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Whip, I have to say that whoever did that test on you fucked it up, as will happen far too often in medical situations.

And--not all CBT is necessarily painful! Criminy, there iS more too it than ballbusting!

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RE: What do people like about cbt? - 6/4/2011 10:47:14 AM

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My amazing CBT toys!

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RE: What do people like about cbt? - 6/4/2011 1:56:15 PM

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i don't enjoy to be beaten on my balls but my genitals are ok to be tortured with stinging nettles, hot wax, electro shocks to name a few.

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RE: What do people like about cbt? - 6/4/2011 6:26:02 PM

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I believe its been best said on here a couple of times ..... masochism.

For me, why I like CBT ... its not only about the stimulation, but also about the psychology of surrender that I enjoy ... making myself totally vunerable and allowing a Domme to torture my manhood and know that Im at her mercy.

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RE: What do people like about cbt? - 6/4/2011 7:04:28 PM

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As has been said each to their own… I like cbt…ropes tied in imaginative ways and I especially like weights… love slapping with a crop within limits ..But sounding…needles…kicking…spiking are beyond my tolerance.

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RE: What do people like about cbt? - 6/4/2011 8:53:53 PM

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Come on, What is not to like. You have a lady who is actively playing with your private parts. Can it really be all that bad???? Any time the One eyed wonder worm has a playmate, he is extremely happy. He stands up straight and begs for attention. Some might even say he drools while standing at attention.

Personally anytime my One eyed wonder worm and his two pals that hang around with hime all the time get the hands on treatment of a lady, he will do just about anything :)

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