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juliaoceania -> RE: Proper Equitte? (6/11/2011 9:42:48 PM)
The funny thing is a lot of doms emailed me just because it said that I wouldn't respond without his permission first... and they took it as a challenge, as if he was trying to dominate them through me[8\|] ... those emails were just deleted with the rest of the spam in my inbox. Like I said, he never took any overt interest in what was mailed to me unless I drew his attention to it, he knew if I had "female" marked on my profile it was going to get attention. So if it bugged him he would have had me take it offline.

HannahLynHeather -> RE: Proper Equitte? (6/11/2011 10:11:02 PM)
quote: The issue was this woman wanted clip to pick up some person that neither the person writing us or clip had never met before, and drive him to her from fucking Nevada! On top of this, that person being picked up, had no other resource in the entire flipping state. Just because somebody else happens to be a Dominant woman doesn't mean that she gets to ask that kind of favor from another person just because they happen to be a submissive. now that changes a whole lot, the whole fucking thing actually. going back i can understand better, you did say "if he knew of any subs....", the significance of your wording escaped me. and i had no idea the distance was so far, the impression i got was that it was across town. so i take it back. please accept my apology. you're dead on, you didn't overreact. there's no fucking way in hell i'd allow anything like that. in fact the nasty reply i gave in the "rudest thing a domme said" thread was to a guy who wanted heather to find a slave for him. and passing on your regards to an owner is different, that's a no different than saying hi to a husband or wife of a couple you know. its a classy little politeness. hannah lynn

LadyPact -> RE: Proper Equitte? (6/11/2011 10:22:56 PM)
Hannah, I was really shooting the reply off rather quickly this morning because I had a gig this afternoon. Had I told the whole story (again) it would have been too long of an undertaking while the other half was <cough> gently reminding Me <cough> about what time we had to leave. No need to apologize. Had I taken the time for a full explanation, no confusion would have happened. The funny thing on this is that it is so rare that such an occasion will stand out. It works out exactly to three people that I've had clip block for being inappropriate in four years. (The other stories are nutcase types, too, so I won't bore you.) I mean, it IS the net and it's not always going to go well.

HannahLynHeather -> RE: Proper Equitte? (6/11/2011 10:33:11 PM)
quote: I also liked the fact I had to have his permission to answer people (I would ask if I could reply to people that would email me from the forum, even submissives, not because he cared, but it made me feel controlled, and I liked that feeling at the time). that's a really good point. i never even thought of that. typical self-centered domme eh? hannah lynn

VaguelyCurious -> RE: Proper Equitte? (6/12/2011 1:00:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Awareness Seriously though, I get what you're saying and I'm not undervaluing networking but I still have some scepticism about the odds of him getting a reply. Either way the odds are long for a man emailing women from this site. I'm highly sceptical about the odds being much affected by a woman's relationship status. The difference between 'long shot' and 'ever so slightly more/less of a long shot' is minimal. quote: Oh believe me I do. I imagine all this nattering on going back and forth constantly and I'm just glad I don't have to witness it because I'm positive the sheer volume would make my head hurt. It probably would. But it means that people know people, and that's a really valuable resource to tap into if you're willing to (in your case pretend to) be friendly and platonic. Hannah Lynn: quote: ORIGINAL: HannahLynnHeather of course you do, lesbians are simply superior. Do you know what you should have said after that? Of course you do. UP WITH EXTENSIVE LESBIANISM! PER LESBIA AD ASTRA!!!!! [8D][8D][8D]

NocturnalStalker -> RE: Proper Equitte? (6/12/2011 4:11:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: bhamliving Hello! First off, I am relitivly new to the D/s relationship dynamic. I do not claim to be a master, but since my enterance into the kinky world, I have come in contact, both directly and indirectly, with those who classify themselves as masters. For that reason, I have a question 1) What do you feel is the proper way to contact someone who has a master? Please include: - some unwritten rules that get assumed - some reasoning behind it (just informative, not to prove that your viewpoints are correct) As I said, I am new to this side, and don't want to step on anyone's toes or cross any lines that I do not know about. I appreciate everyone's on topic responses. - They are junkies and need to be shown the straight-edge way. I can save them. - They are with inferior men and every girl deserves a break in life. I provide this. So in essence, be an asshole.

RapierFugue -> RE: Proper Equitte? (6/12/2011 4:35:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss [align=center] Sunny Quote of the Day goes to RapierFugue Oh cool. That's the second one of those I've got. Spiffy :) I take it these can be exchanged for fabulous prizes?

sunshinemiss -> RE: Proper Equitte? (6/12/2011 4:43:08 AM)
Yes, phone sex with me. [:D]

RapierFugue -> RE: Proper Equitte? (6/12/2011 4:47:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss Yes, phone sex with me. [:D] Only by phone? <disappointed>

sunshinemiss -> RE: Proper Equitte? (6/12/2011 4:50:55 AM)
For you? Come here, big man! purrr

RapierFugue -> RE: Proper Equitte? (6/12/2011 4:52:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss For you? Come here, big man! purrr Are you in Japan?

sunshinemiss -> RE: Proper Equitte? (6/12/2011 4:54:55 AM)
Korea...

RapierFugue -> RE: Proper Equitte? (6/12/2011 4:56:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss Korea... Damn :(

FelineFae -> RE: Proper Equitte? (6/12/2011 5:03:29 AM)
It's only 23 hrs on a plane... kids' stuff.

HannahLynHeather -> RE: Proper Equitte? (6/12/2011 1:50:58 PM)
quote: It's only 23 hrs on a plane... kids' stuff. holy fuck! i didn't realize she was in ontario too! hannah lynn

Awareness -> RE: Proper Equitte? (6/12/2011 10:29:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious Either way the odds are long for a man emailing women from this site. I'm highly sceptical about the odds being much affected by a woman's relationship status. The difference between 'long shot' and 'ever so slightly more/less of a long shot' is minimal. That's a valid point, but the upside of a successful hit is greater. Or at least it seems that way to me. quote: It probably would. But it means that people know people, and that's a really valuable resource to tap into if you're willing to (in your case pretend to) be friendly and platonic. Nah, I'd feel all dirty and fucked up. Kind of how I feel whenever I think about having sex with Hanners. quote: UP WITH EXTENSIVE LESBIANISM! PER LESBIA AD ASTRA!!!!! [8D][8D][8D] Lesbians to the stars? Well that's a social movement I never thought I'd encounter in my lifetime.

VideoAdminTheta -> RE: Proper Equitte? (6/19/2011 11:02:20 AM)
Please refrain from making personal attacks and name calling. I will now be cleaning the thread and will hope you heed this simple warning. Thank you

LadyConstanze -> RE: Proper Equitte? (6/19/2011 11:44:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: bhamliving Hello! First off, I am relitivly new to the D/s relationship dynamic. I do not claim to be a master, but since my enterance into the kinky world, I have come in contact, both directly and indirectly, with those who classify themselves as masters. For that reason, I have a question 1) What do you feel is the proper way to contact someone who has a master? Please include: - some unwritten rules that get assumed - some reasoning behind it (just informative, not to prove that your viewpoints are correct) As I said, I am new to this side, and don't want to step on anyone's toes or cross any lines that I do not know about. I appreciate everyone's on topic responses. Read the profile, some might want you to contact their dominant first, if not, the same rule as in a non-kink environment applies - somebody is taken, hands off, you can have a conversation but you don't try to push into an existing relationship, bad style. Just common sense, really.

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