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aromanholiday -> RE: Full Control (6/17/2011 5:50:25 AM)
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ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep
for the life of me, i can't figure out what the 4th hole is? is that a family guy reference? haha
or do you mean your mind, perhaps? hahahaha ^.^
but no, this is basically what i'm talking about. i'm a horrendously selective person, but totally open to "contained sluttiness" =p and i dont really have a problem with those girls who AREN'T contained, because hey, maybe that's the right thing for them -- who knows! =p
LOL! "The mind" is an excellent answer to the fourth-hole question. Unfortunately I didn't think of that--perhaps my mind is something of a prude? [;)] No, all I meant by that was a reference to my own fetishistic interest in sounds insertion (among many other things). You might want to google "The Amazing Ty" sometime when you are bored. I imagine her videos are still in circulation. She was quite... inspiring to those of us with this interest, although probably all of those films should be stamped with a "Do not try this at home unless you know exactly what you are doing" warning. :)
I also do not care what other women's sexual habits are. If it makes them happy, I'm fine with it but I've never been influenced by it--I just continue doing things the way I feel is best for me. It's easy enough to avoid encounters with those whose sexual habits we don't appreciate, so why waste breath or thought on having a strong opinion about them? What bothers me far more about both sexes is insincerity, claiming to be something you are not. It's a terrible problem in sexual sub-groups, like BDSM, where people are looking for very specific things and others are only too happy to represent themselves as those things, whether they are or not.
I see the dislike of a slut voiced more often by men toward women then vice-versa, and this may be a hard-wired difference, but I think that to some degree it works both ways. I would find it harder (although not impossible) to respect a man who fucked or, in particular, dominated any piece of ass who offered herself to him. High selectiveness in male dominants makes them hotter (assuming their base personalities contain the more-important elements I look for)--although, sadly, I suspect the source of this attractiveness is more due to my ego than sexual arousal: a man who has a reputation for being very discriminating and still chooses you makes you feel special and not like just another piece of meat on the sexual conveyor belt (although, in truth, that's all you may be on his conveyor belt, lol). But also, given the average hormonal differences between men and women, not being a slut seems a much more significant accomplishment in a man than it seems in a woman, and it suggests a strong character, particularly if the man is otherwise attractive and not lacking in opportunities.
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