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But I don't see a lot of it in Female led relationships...in fact, I think that is one of the differences between Male vs. Female dominance is that Male dominance more often (not always) tend to incorporate a very physical coercion-form (coercion with consent mind) - and often an expression of the Male's most times greater physical strength plays a significant role in the dynamic.

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ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather


2. the average male dom is too fucking stupid to do anything other than physically overpower, so of course it plays a significant role, hell its the all there is to their game.

hannah lynn

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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

I swear I sometimes think Sexy Red and I were separated at birth.

Hi?  Are you my mom?  I'm Sexy SunshineMiss.  Sexy Red Miss is my twin.  Nice to meetcha!

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ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather

actually babycakes, my view is based on a lot of encounters with men who claim to be doms. you may want to look carefully at what i said. the average male dom... with average being the operative word.

are you really going to tell me that the vast majority of the men who proclaim themselves doms aren't just fucking wankers? if most of them are idiots, then what i said is true.

not being in the same situation i was, you most likely being in a position to be more selective, i suspect you just ignored those sorts, so your sample group is already skewed. you don't play with the average, you play with the exceptional, as do most of the subs on these boards. i wasn't really in a position to be so selective, it was a business consideration. the fact that you interact with intelligent competent doms doesn't alter the facts it only means that you haven't taken a large enough sample to dispute my findings.

and i wasn't saying people who use physicality were not intelligent, after all i use it. heather stated as much in her post. what i said was that that men who only do physicality usually do so because they were too stupid to do otherwise. see the difference?

see, i'm not deflecting insecurity, nor am i small minded, nor am i doing it to make myself feel better. i'm simply relating what i have concluded from my experiences. if your experiences don't jibe with mine, then consider yourself lucky.

and your wrong about my girl, she's not pretty snazzy, she's absofuckinglutely snazzy.

hannah lynn

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ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather

actually babycakes, my view is based on a lot of encounters with men who claim to be doms. you may want to look carefully at what i said. the average male dom... with average being the operative word.

are you really going to tell me that the vast majority of the men who proclaim themselves doms aren't just fucking wankers? if most of them are idiots, then what i said is true.

and your wrong about my girl, she's not pretty snazzy, she's absofuckinglutely snazzy.

hannah lynn

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men who claim to be doms, and men who are doms.

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ORIGINAL: Twoshoes
I know VC is relatively short, but she still scares me.

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Maybe your experiences were skewed to those types of "doms"?

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ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather
2. the average male dom is too fucking stupid to do anything other than physically overpower, so of course it plays a significant role, hell its the all there is to their game.

hannah lynn

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ORIGINAL: Twoshoes
I know VC is relatively short, but she still scares me.

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ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather

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But I don't see a lot of it in Female led relationships...in fact, I think that is one of the differences between Male vs. Female dominance is that Male dominance more often (not always) tend to incorporate a very physical coercion-form (coercion with consent mind) - and often an expression of the Male's most times greater physical strength plays a significant role in the dynamic.

two reasons.

1. you've been looking at the wrong female led relationships. female/male tends to have a physical imbalance that makes that sort of play difficult without a lot of role playing. female/female relationships tend not to suffer from this imbalance, so its more common in them.

2. the average male dom is too fucking stupid to do anything other than physically overpower, so of course it plays a significant role, hell its the all there is to their game.

hannah lynn