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Twoshoes -> RE: guys suck, but i'm not a man-hating dyke (6/16/2011 12:39:42 AM)
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ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather
up in the respectable world where most of you have lived your whole lives, its hidden. the wonderful, caring, intelligent men in your lives tuck it away until they come downtown and meet me. then they take off the masks they wear for your benefit and show their true colours. where i used to live, down in the gutter so to speak, its out in the fucking open, stripped naked and on display for all to see. the viciousness, the callousness, the infantile sense of entitlement, the ignorance, the insecurities, the fragile over-inflated egos, the manipulativness, the childish vindictiveness, the selfishness, the greed, the savegry and violence, and the sheer unimaginable self-centered, egotistical stupidity verging on outright idiocy. and the lies, the endless web of fucking lies they spin to justify themselves.
What about those men who are even willing to put on masks to impress prostitutes, because they need everyone to like them? (I haven't been with a prostitute, so this question might be really naive.)
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you wouldn't believe the number of pathetic little overgrown mummy's boys who fucked me and then cried like babies while i held them and soothed them and then beat the shit out of me because i'd seen them like that. and the shit they tell us, men trust whores with their deepest secrets. and trust me ladies, you sure as fuck do not want to know what your loving husbands, sons and fathers really think of you.
hannah lynn
Well, I have a question, actually: Did you get any (or a lot) of guys trying to "save" or coddle you?
I ask because when I was fucked up emotionally—around 18-20—some girls would be attracted to my vulnerability layered under my "I don't care about anything" attitude. That sort of caring yet distinctly sexual attention is both appealing and annoying to me. (Of course, they immediately become less interested when you let them in or take their advice, because the appeal seems to be in trying to draw out and nurture someone withdrawn.)
I'd like to point out that Doms in general tend to be very attracted to vulnerability and get off on it (especially the ones that have been abused themselves). So, the speech in your original post is a guaranteed way to make someone want to "help you", fall for you and then want to fuck you.
(In the interests of full disclosure: I'd probably want to fuck you. Although, with me being a man and all, I promise to keep that to myself and lie about it if necessary. Not out of respect for Heather who seems plenty nice, but simply because I'm real shady like that.)
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with my lesbian friends, when one of them hits on me and i turn them down (or they turn me down) there's a bit of awkwardness for a while, but we stay friends. that never seems to happen with men.
That's because when you're the type of person who would be friends with a girl after getting rejected, you don't typically get attributed enough "manliness" to be called a "man". You might fall into the nice/boyish/cute categories.
Women can be really annoying at times, too. They can use you to make their boyfriends jealous, or to convince themselves they're desirable when they're feeling insecure. Then, there is the "hey, I'm not getting intimate emotional attention from my boyfriend who's a jerk, but you are a guy I can trust, so please give me intimate male attention and affirmation". Some have to be reminded to not instinctivly put their hands on you whenever anyone notices you.
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the slut has a fucking opinion about everything!
Well, if that ever gets a bit much, just convince her that her opinions are so incredibly 'fucking' valuable that she should be writing them down in essay form. [8D] She is obviously a good writer; her mistakes actually stand out as opposed to being so prevalent that they get tuned out.
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