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ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep
i think one of your errors is in assuming that other women who haven't lived the life you have DON'T see the truth about them. frankly, a lot of us do.
lesbianism as a refuge from prostitution isn't anything new. even in history, women often turned to other women for real emotional security because they were viewed as commodities by men (and of course the men don't judge themselves negatively for patronizing them =p) -- but people often act as though, without females/prostitutes, there would be no prostitution, to which i must wholeheartedly DISAGREE -- who thought up the idea that you should totally pay me to marry my daughter? a man. =p
at the same time, though, people can only really create their idea of you based on what you post... when you say stuff like "the average male dom is too stupid to do X" what do you expect them to think? explaining a bit about your background does something, sure, but bitterness is still bitterness regardless of where it comes from.
for me, i had a run in with a guy who liked little girls. it did a lot of really wacky stuff to my head, and was the beginning of my issues with trusting people. for the longest time i didn't even want male humans to touch me. =p
but like you said, a good man is really good, and i've had plenty of experiences with them to tell me "while some of them aren't so nice, some others of them are very."
and women aren't saints eithers. women can be manipulative, they can be passive-aggressive, they can be destructive women will drown their children and poison their spouses, all while saying "i love you." women can be pretty evil. human nature is like water, it often seeks out the lowest point. this is regardless of gender. I sincerely admire your maturity, and wit.
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Aynne88
I don't know, I must have some kind of divining rod for great men then, because starting with the ones in my family to my ex-husband who for 23 years put up with my shit, and was amazing, just not meant to be my husband, to the man I am with now that would lay down his life for me to the dozens of amazing male friends I have that have helped me move, gone on trips with me, helped me when I was living on my own by crashing on the couch on nights I wanted some company, gone ice fishing and to art galleries to bar hopping with me, they have all just rocked.
Oh and not all men hate their wives and/or girlfriends and not all men emotionally unload their disdain for their women on "whores" your word not mine. I have consoled many a drunken sobbing mess of a man that has had his heart broken while as his bartender he unloaded for hours. So ladies, I will tell you what your man,husband,boyfriend thinks of you. For the most part, they love you. They worry about you and want to protect you, and yes they are often times faithful. I have seen more men traveling through on business getting hit on by some of the local skanks around here and clearly say no. More, many more, than they say yes. So it's not so clear cut. I have been behind a bar for 23 years and seen and heard it all. Men are just as vulnerable, faithful and loving as women. Not all, the world isn't an absolute. But one in 50? Hell no.
I don't know how you can say you aren't a man hater and post this shit including 1 in 50 men are decent or good...if a dude posted that we would all jump on the misogyny bandwagon.
I absolutely believe your experiences are valid and they are yours. I have had bitter moments, maybe even a couple of years there where I would have agreed with the OP. Than, I remember my dad, and many men in my family, or that I've dated... I would not avoid lesbianism, if I were so inclined, but not because I thought women were less manipulative, evil, or capable of killing men, and eating their young.
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OttersSwim
It takes two to fuck.
For each of those guys out there having sex behind someone's back, there is a woman (and sometimes a man) who is also participating and making a choice. It is beyond easy to read if someone is married.
Without doubt, the sins and shortcomings of males as a whole are long and there are some despicable examples out there in the world in the best of places. But men don't have to look up very far to see the end of the female list of sins and shortcomings. Amen!
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YSG
Wether or not you consider yourself a lesbian or bisexual or whatever, the fact remains, you are a man hater, simply because you lump us all into the same category. Really, sexism is no different from racism in my mind. Its still a mass judgement of a group of people, simply based on coincidences of birth. Wise words. I'm glad you remain open minded, regardless of your experiences.
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NocturnalStalker
I'm an insensitive jerk but I'm not to the point of taking advantage of women. Sure they can be loud and demanding of your attention to the point where you just want to tell them to back off so you can breathe but no, they don't. They keep going on, and on about their day. I don't care what they did today, it's the same as any other day! Then they'll find something cute or funny on the Internet and you gotta watch because oh hey, you're the loving boyfriend that is all smiles like it's a grand adventure so you watch it and it is usually something dumb like a cat falling asleep but you pretend it's cute but you can't go too much or she'll think you're gay. Don't get me started about the showers either. Lord knows I take an hour myself but if you're in my apartment you're going to have to hurry it up because I got stuff to do and waiting around for your tanned Italian ass to get through denying me of hot water is something that just eats away at my every last bit of patience until you just want to clench your fist and punch your wall in but then you'll risk breaking your hand and having to pay repairs and it's not worth it but then even worse is the cooking. I hate when they can't cook but you got to be nice and a total wallflower about it and tell them they're great and future wife material but deep down you don't mean it you're just saying that so she'll open up to the idea of kinky sex but she never does it's all about the fucking scented candles and "passionate love-making" with her and you're left wondering how much more you can take before you just want to TAKE YOUR DAMN FIST AND RAM IT DOWN SOMEBODY'S THROAT AND PULL OUT THEIR STILL-BEATING HEART. This is the best post ever, by NocturnalStalker. 
I find this thread nearly unbelievable, and how acceptable it has been to so many here. Congratulations HLH. M
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