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LadyPact -> RE: moderation interpretation? (6/19/2011 1:28:54 PM)
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ORIGINAL: popularDemand
I understand completely.
Although niether you (nor any woman/person) is being asked specifically to respond about your intimate and personal practices and prefernces in these threads.
Let Me assure you that you are quite mistaken. One that immediately comes to mind was a recent "do you make your sub suck your strap-on". That's a real thread. It's only one of thousands over My four years here.
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Anyone can respond to any depth they chose, or not, of course.
That is anyones choice, and respected (by me) completely.
That works both ways. If I happen to be the first person to respond to a thread by copy/pasting the bit in the Mistress FAQ section about why the "how many Mistresses here are into <insert favorite kink here>" bit, My response on that thread has nothing to do with if other women want to answer it or not. I might be the only person who thinks a thread is a specific attempt to gather wank material. How I answer doesn't change the way other people chose to respond.
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However, it was not the 'personal' I was refering to but the 'pack' who would kill a potentially intriguing thread with the "wank fodder" branding, many following suit to stem discussion, and I would have thought certainly placing a feeling of 'outsider' on anyone being brave enough to post for the first time.
I've said this earlier in the thread. I'm not in the position to be terribly concerned on this one. If anything, I'm the gal who does suggest that people get off of the net and get out to the real world to see how this stuff works. The guys who get a little realization on how to talk to kinky people in the real world don't tend to do it here, either.
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There is no growth in the pack.
Frankly, I'm going to disagree with you here. It may not be how you meant it, but the pack........ The folks with experience? Those are the ones that I get My personal growth from. It doesn't come from the 'I've always had this fantasy' folks. One of My recent comments on the "I want" thread was about the fact that I want the 301 threads to be more abundant, rather than the 'why won't this male Dom talk anymore' stuff. Nobody wants to stay in the beginning stages forever.
Imagine yourself at a lecture. Do you really want the lecture to start over every fifteen minutes when somebody enters the room?
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This in itself may be a reflection of some of the comments regarding Moderation techniques on this and other sites.
pD
I have to differ with you there. None of this has anything to do with moderation. As I see it, moderation has everything to do with the Mods doing their job as applying TOS. My personal line in this falls to a general rule of the ability to disagree with a comment, rather than personally attack a poster.
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