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I asked for her PO box. A couple minutes later I get a message from her phone, but not from her. It's from her boss apparently. He types, quote," Danica will get her phone back when she is done!"

I asked who it was speaking. He says "Her boss."

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Now, I work. I have a job. I have breaks. I get lunch. No one goes to work for 8 hours and is gung ho the entire time. There is down time. Has anyone ever heard of a boss taking their employee's phone, then using it while they are right there to write to someone?

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That sounds kind of bizarre to me. Curious if anyone else has experienced anything like this. And like I said, been talking to her while she is waitressing for the past few nights. I just now ask for her PO and she happens to get in trouble then? Ok...

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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

No, the mail thing isn't BS. If a person can prove occupency at a residence, with mail that was delivered to that address - then the landlord has to go through an eviction process to get that person out. A letter post dated in her name to that address can be used as one means to prove occupency. Of course, it is unlikely that the landlord would know she received mail, and the law is there to protect the occupent from unlawful evictions so the girls concerns are a bit unfounded.

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Depends, I stayed in a few halls of residence and everybody wanted to get into them (quite cheap and clean) so a few people who lived there went on to move in with spouses and didn't tell, but rented them out for more money and/or a bit of a bribe, the unis got fed up with it and told the postman to put post that is c/o or the name of the occupant doesn't correspond with that on the letter into their mail box - they then investigated who is living there and quite a few people got evicted. If it is an apartment building, I'd think it would be fairly easy for the landlord to arrange something like that?

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

Dude... you are obsessive.

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ORIGINAL: AbletonLive77


Main thing about last night that ticked me off though, was her boss. I very well know they confiscate things, but what about him reading and responding to personal messages on her phone?

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ORIGINAL: AbletonLive77

You guys are right. Think I am just getting a little frustrated is all. Normally not like this. Just feel as though I've been put thru the ringer a bit. We've talked for a few months and have had to put up with a couple odd things.

Anyway, we are planning to meet in 2 months. She is going to move down here. Her parents have passed, her brothers are all military, so she has no real ties where she is. I guess she figures she can move close to me, then if it doesn't work out, she always has her friend to go back to, which is fine. One reason I was feeling a little muddled is she says things like she trusts me with her mind and body (even though we've never met) then I ask her something like her address and get a run around. Just seems a little contradictory. What's more important, mind and body or address or place of work?

I'm going to give her the benefit of the doubt. 2 months. I can wait. I am going to apologize to her for getting her in trouble, lay back and play things cool. I was wrong, and I can admit that. Letting a situation get the best of me. Haven't been having the best month so far. Thanks everyone for the info and opinions.

Main thing about last night that ticked me off though, was her boss. I very well know they confiscate things, but what about him reading and responding to personal messages on her phone? I could never do that to someone else. Especially if they were standing right there, like he said she was. So he responds back to me a few times with her there watching? Now I remember why I'm self employed. Have a good one everyone. Thanks again.